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By *zanagi OP Man
over a year ago
manchester city centre |
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
100% Sadist
100% Rigger
100% Brat
100% Switch
100% Non-monogamist
100% Voyeur
100% Masochist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Degradee
100% Brat tamer
100% Degrader
96% Submissive
94% Experimentalist
93% Primal (Prey)
93% Dominant
86% Daddy/Mommy
86% Ageplayer
76% Master/Mistress
61% Boy/Girl
60% Sl/ave
58% Primal (Hunter)
46% Owner
42% Vanilla
35% Pet
Can anyone help me understand what will turn me on in kinks and help me explore this please?
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By *zanagi OP Man
over a year ago
manchester city centre |
"Would it help if you googled the terms and researched them?
It such a broad area that I don't think there's an easy answer.
Enjoy the journey though  "
I have tried to, and have an understanding of most things in theory but experience not so much |
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By *zanagi OP Man
over a year ago
manchester city centre |
"How can you be 100 percent of so many things surely you can only be 100 percent of one thing I'm confused too, though that doesn't take much. "
This is what confused me loads but I also believe it can be from my personality type being INFJ and ADHD |
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"Or what sounds appealing?
Everything, I haven't figured out how to ask for it or found the one that shows me"
Well the first two are easy...
You're good at or enjoy making toy creatures, perhaps at a child's party.
You like soft mid-80's UK Soul music.
Third one is tricky I have to admit. Either, you have a future working off-shore, probably in oil or gas, or, you will be on a traditional sailing vessel. Either way, water features prominently.
I'm sure others will be able to help with the rest. Good luck
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"Would it help if you googled the terms and researched them?
It such a broad area that I don't think there's an easy answer.
Enjoy the journey though
I have tried to, and have an understanding of most things in theory but experience not so much "
What helped me when I started exploring BDSM was to read a load of smut. I'd think about what turned me on in each story and why I found it arousing, what turned me off and what it was that didn't appeal about it.
I watched a lot of amateur BDSM porn and put the same thought process into it, and ended up coming up with some ideas of what I might like to try with the right person.
In reality my kinks were very different to what I thought they'd be, but it gave me a place to start exploring from. |
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By *zanagi OP Man
over a year ago
manchester city centre |
"Or what sounds appealing?
Everything, I haven't figured out how to ask for it or found the one that shows me
Well the first two are easy...
You're good at or enjoy making toy creatures, perhaps at a child's party.
You like soft mid-80's UK Soul music.
Third one is tricky I have to admit. Either, you have a future working off-shore, probably in oil or gas, or, you will be on a traditional sailing vessel. Either way, water features prominently.
I'm sure others will be able to help with the rest. Good luck
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"How can you be 100 percent of so many things surely you can only be 100 percent of one thing I'm confused too, though that doesn't take much.
This is what confused me loads but I also believe it can be from my personality type being INFJ and ADHD"
Well I'm never taking the test, I'm confused enough with myself now. |
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OP I would take the test again another day. The results don’t really make much sense at all.
Do your research into the world of kink first and see what your turn ons and offs are now. They are likely to develop and change on your journey.
Hope this helps  |
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By *zanagi OP Man
over a year ago
manchester city centre |
"I just had to Google INFJ. The first I stands for introverted, yet you are 100% exhibitionist. Definitely confusing.
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Yeah that's why I am baffled by the results! But maybe because it's sex its opposite as I hide it. |
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100% Exhibitionist
100% Owner
100% Brat tamer
100% Dominant
100% Degrader
100% Voyeur
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Master/Mistress
96% Primal (Hunter)
80% Daddy/Mommy
70% Experimentalist
48% Non-monogamist
18% Vanilla
14% Rope bunny
12% Masochist
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Brat
0% Ageplayer
0% Slav
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Submissive
0% Pet
0% Switch
This is how mine came out a long time ago when done them. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
everytime i open a profile to this bdsm test i just block .... are people really allowing a app to tell people where they stand sexually super fake super super space waster .... instant block .... give me people who actually know who they are not some random app rubbish
#justmyopinion |
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"How can you be 100 percent of so many things surely you can only be 100 percent of one thing I'm confused too, though that doesn't take much.
This is what confused me loads but I also believe it can be from my personality type being INFJ and ADHD"
If you haven’t already, read up about ADHD and sex. From memory it leads to easily getting bored/ distracted and unable to focus. It sounds like that’s reflected in your results and the 100% switch nature of what’s going on for you? If any of that resonates I would start with centring practices that help you be more in the moment to really enjoy whatever you do eg meditation/ yoga etc
Good luck! |
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"everytime i open a profile to this bdsm test i just block .... are people really allowing a app to tell people where they stand sexually super fake super super space waster .... instant block .... give me people who actually know who they are not some random app rubbish
#justmyopinion"
I think people just like what they like and it seems like you're allowing the test results to control you if you block them for sharing it  |
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By *zanagi OP Man
over a year ago
manchester city centre |
"How can you be 100 percent of so many things surely you can only be 100 percent of one thing I'm confused too, though that doesn't take much.
This is what confused me loads but I also believe it can be from my personality type being INFJ and ADHD
If you haven’t already, read up about ADHD and sex. From memory it leads to easily getting bored/ distracted and unable to focus. It sounds like that’s reflected in your results and the 100% switch nature of what’s going on for you? If any of that resonates I would start with centring practices that help you be more in the moment to really enjoy whatever you do eg meditation/ yoga etc
Good luck!"
Yeah, I have read up on it loads and searched through google on all sorts of things. Trauma responses, cycles, impulsive behaviour and desires. A lot of the scores makes sense as a lot of my attractions are inner childhood wounds acting out. However I am not sure what's going to feel healthy or not. As well as fun, that's why I asked if anyone can help. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
I like the most common BDSM test.
If I am going to play with someone I like to see their test results to see (as part of a process whether) we are compatible.
I take one of three views of OPs results, (I am not saying I am right but merely giving a view), either the questions were not answered properly or OP has a personality of extreme settings, or OP has little kink experience, or all of the above in any combination.
However,it is similar to all labels, they don't define you (unless you want to be defined by a label) they are merely guides.
What to do with the results, if it is all new to you explore what they mean and see which resonate. As you get experience the results may change. |
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There's a lot of high percentages there. It's quite unusual.
I'd search some BDSM porn and try a few things out.
You may find your results change.
My interpretation is that you like to rope your partner up whilst they are dressed in a school uniform, you give them a good bit of impact play and then you switch places.
I fund age strange. I scored 0% on that category. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"everytime i open a profile to this bdsm test i just block .... are people really allowing a app to tell people where they stand sexually super fake super super space waster .... instant block .... give me people who actually know who they are not some random app rubbish
#justmyopinion
I think people just like what they like and it seems like you're allowing the test results to control you if you block them for sharing it "
let it control me ??? hahahahahahahah nope just not allowing rubbish to filter thru many just do it as they think its a profile filler its not its just plain rubbish .... so easy block for me ...control me lol dont be so daft lololo |
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over a year ago
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Google and research every term which has a high percentage. While reading, work out what applies to you and that you find appealing.
The bdsm test is not going to tell you your kinks, it gives you a list of roles your answers suggest you may be interested in. The multiple 100% percentages are because each item on that list is determined individually by your answers.
I'd suggest you are a switch interested in bondage, (rope) who likes the idea of public play (exhibitionist and degradation)
Maybe start there. |
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"everytime i open a profile to this bdsm test i just block .... are people really allowing a app to tell people where they stand sexually super fake super super space waster .... instant block .... give me people who actually know who they are not some random app rubbish
#justmyopinion
I think people just like what they like and it seems like you're allowing the test results to control you if you block them for sharing it
let it control me ??? hahahahahahahah nope just not allowing rubbish to filter thru many just do it as they think its a profile filler its not its just plain rubbish .... so easy block for me ...control me lol dont be so daft lololo "
What's the difference? You said you think people let a app tell them where they stand, which is like saying it's controlling them
Most people just do it and share it for amusement and nothing else |
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"I've done one a while ago ..I think it's just a bit of fun. Most people know what they are or aren't into, they aren't relying on this as some kind of guide....least I hope not.  "
Are you sure it's not told you how you should be living?  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I mean mine are lots of high scores but then I've been in the BDSM scene a looong time and am a switch.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Experimentalist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
100% Switch
100% Degradee
100% Masochist
100% Non-monogamist
100% Sadist
97% Boy/Girl
97% Degrader
94% Rigger
94% Rope bunny
92% Submissive
90% Brat
90% Primal (Hunter)
88% Primal (Prey)
87% Brat tamer
79% Dominant
79% Ageplayer
66% Master/Mistress
56% Daddy/Mommy
51% S-ve
26% Vanilla
17% Pet
13% Owner
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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago
Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner |
"I mean mine are lots of high scores but then I've been in the BDSM scene a looong time and am a switch.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Experimentalist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
100% Switch
100% Degradee
100% Masochist
100% Non-monogamist
100% Sadist
97% Boy/Girl
97% Degrader
94% Rigger
94% Rope bunny
92% Submissive
90% Brat
90% Primal (Hunter)
88% Primal (Prey)
87% Brat tamer
79% Dominant
79% Ageplayer
66% Master/Mistress
56% Daddy/Mommy
51% S-ve
26% Vanilla
17% Pet
13% Owner
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How can you be both 100% Sadist & 100% masochist? Surely you'd have to be part one and part of the other or just one of them. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
Possibly because I am rubbish at maths and I am not a literal person I have no problems with the scoring. I don't see all the roles adding up as in pie chart. More that in each role from 1 to 100 how intensely would you perform in that role. The roles appear to contradict only if you believe humans are not contradictory. My experience is that they can be, even to themselves. |
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"How can you be both 100% Sadist & 100% masochist? Surely you'd have to be part one and part of the other or just one of them. "
People can be switches. They like getting spanked and spanking people.
Its not a single scale that you have to be one end or the other. People can like both
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Exhibitionist
98% Vanilla
95% Voyeur
49% Switch
34% Experimentalist
15% Non-monogamist
14% Dominant
11% Submissive
0% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Sl a v e
0% Sadist
0% Rope bunny
0% Ageplayer
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Pet
0% Brat
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Masochist
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Degrader
0% Brat tamer
0% Primal (Hunter)
http://bdsmtest.org/r/5kU7vyaU
What a quirky little test |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
Mine make perfect sense.
99% Rigger
96% Sadist
86% Dominant
84% Primal (Hunter)
82% Degrader
67% Master/Mistress
56% Exhibitionist
54% Owner
52% Voyeur
43% Daddy/Mommy
37% Brat tamer
33% Experimentalist
17% Vanilla
17% Non-monogamist
1% Primal (Prey)
0% Rope bunny
0% Ageplayer
0% Sl#ve
0% Degradee
0% Brat
0% Boy/Girl
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Switch
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"I mean mine are lots of high scores but then I've been in the BDSM scene a looong time and am a switch.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Experimentalist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
100% Switch
100% Degradee
100% Masochist
100% Non-monogamist
100% Sadist
97% Boy/Girl
97% Degrader
94% Rigger
94% Rope bunny
92% Submissive
90% Brat
90% Primal (Hunter)
88% Primal (Prey)
87% Brat tamer
79% Dominant
79% Ageplayer
66% Master/Mistress
56% Daddy/Mommy
51% S-ve
26% Vanilla
17% Pet
13% Owner
How can you be both 100% Sadist & 100% masochist? Surely you'd have to be part one and part of the other or just one of them. "
Nope. When I'm in that headspace I'm 100% a sadist. When I'm wanting to be hurt I'm 100% a masochist.
Not to mention you can (although it's a major headfuck and I've only pulled it off successfully once) inflict pain on someone while having pain inflicted on you.
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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago
Down the Rabbit Hole and Round the Corner |
"I mean mine are lots of high scores but then I've been in the BDSM scene a looong time and am a switch.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Experimentalist
100% Exhibitionist
100% Voyeur
100% Switch
100% Degradee
100% Masochist
100% Non-monogamist
100% Sadist
97% Boy/Girl
97% Degrader
94% Rigger
94% Rope bunny
92% Submissive
90% Brat
90% Primal (Hunter)
88% Primal (Prey)
87% Brat tamer
79% Dominant
79% Ageplayer
66% Master/Mistress
56% Daddy/Mommy
51% S-ve
26% Vanilla
17% Pet
13% Owner
How can you be both 100% Sadist & 100% masochist? Surely you'd have to be part one and part of the other or just one of them.
Nope. When I'm in that headspace I'm 100% a sadist. When I'm wanting to be hurt I'm 100% a masochist.
Not to mention you can (although it's a major headfuck and I've only pulled it off successfully once) inflict pain on someone while having pain inflicted on you.
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I can't imagine even trying to enter such a space but then I'm not switch, tried it didn't work, I just took over lol |
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