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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.
I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.
I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.
I don’t know what I was really searching for before. Just some sex & attention maybe. But I’m already finding more. Friends maybe. A place. Some peace. Definitely not what I was looking for or expecting.
How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a good place to find friends initially was for fwb near me but as I’ve got to know some good friends on hear who have supported me through some major issues in my life women as well as some chaps  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought it would help to meet new people and make some friends, coming out of lockdown. I hadn't really dated or anything for a few years before that."
And has it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A fb I met on pof introduced me to fab.
I was looking for skilled sexual men and enjoyed 6 months of sweetshop fuckery, before I found my first longterm fwb  "
I think I’m in the sweet shop  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is a good place to find friends initially was for fwb near me but as I’ve got to know some good friends on hear who have supported me through some major issues in my life women as well as some chaps "
That’s lovely. I have to say the forum is great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A woman on a dating app told me if I joined fab swingers site, I could be having sex within no time. At the time I was in the mood so I joined up but it hasn't been how she described it to me. I've knocked sex on the head now and I'm only here for passing time in the forums and watching a few videos. I find it all a bit intriguing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"An old friend told me about it. Explored and never looked back "
I do love exploring. (Not exploring London though  . I got so lost last week. I was actually scared for a while!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A woman on a dating app told me if I joined fab swingers site, I could be having sex within no time. At the time I was in the mood so I joined up but it hasn't been how she described it to me. I've knocked sex on the head now and I'm only here for passing time in the forums and watching a few videos. I find it all a bit intriguing."
That’s a shame. |
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"A fb I met on pof introduced me to fab.
I was looking for skilled sexual men and enjoyed 6 months of sweetshop fuckery, before I found my first longterm fwb
I think I’m in the sweet shop "
Awesome, taste all that you can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was nosey with my previous neighbour when she'd get dressed up, go out and come back with '3,4,5 people' lol and i could hear what they were upto. She said she was on here. So i joined, very naive at the start and didn't know how to navigate it. Had a couple of bad socials and deleted..... But I couldn't stay away  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs Bang Bang was on a Facebook group and it was mentioned. She had wanted to try a MFF for a long time and just like that the Bang Bangs appeared "
That’s awesome!!!! Girl power!!! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I was on another site but local men were hard to find. I left there and joined Tinder and a man from there recommended this site to me.
Chock full of local men, wish I’d found this site first to be honest! |
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"I thought it would help to meet new people and make some friends, coming out of lockdown. I hadn't really dated or anything for a few years before that.
And has it?"
I've met lots of people... Not really made any lasting friendships yet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was nosey with my previous neighbour when she'd get dressed up, go out and come back with '3,4,5 people' lol and i could hear what they were upto. She said she was on here. So i joined, very naive at the start and didn't know how to navigate it. Had a couple of bad socials and deleted..... But I couldn't stay away "
It is addictive isn’t it? I ran away first time in…
But now I’m in & loving it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was on another site but local men were hard to find. I left there and joined Tinder and a man from there recommended this site to me.
Chock full of local men, wish I’d found this site first to be honest!"
Well I’m glad you’ve found it now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought it would help to meet new people and make some friends, coming out of lockdown. I hadn't really dated or anything for a few years before that.
And has it?
I've met lots of people... Not really made any lasting friendships yet."
Oh that’s a shame. Hopefully soon. I haven’t made any female friends. |
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We love the idea of Mrs Brick carrying out hot wife or cuck fantasies
She would live to be seduced by hung, fit men and I’d love to either watch and photograph or video or maybe play out the ultimate hot wife scenario of her being pleasured while I’m at work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found fab through a more kink related site
Left again when I had my brain removed (I.e. got married) and now I’m back baby  "
Yeah. Kicking the ex to the kerb has certainly kick started life volume 2 for me!!!
How kinky? (You don’t have to answer) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We love the idea of Mrs Brick carrying out hot wife or cuck fantasies
She would live to be seduced by hung, fit men and I’d love to either watch and photograph or video or maybe play out the ultimate hot wife scenario of her being pleasured while I’m at work "
Oh that is hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found fab through a more kink related site
Left again when I had my brain removed (I.e. got married) and now I’m back baby "
Love a kink related site kinky friends are always a plus too |
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"I found fab through a more kink related site
Left again when I had my brain removed (I.e. got married) and now I’m back baby
Yeah. Kicking the ex to the kerb has certainly kick started life volume 2 for me!!!
How kinky? (You don’t have to answer)"
Oh I’m 100% non-vanilla
And I have eaten a lot of wedding cake. But I’ve had my quota now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was a swinger from way back when I was younger and not in the UK. When I first came over in 2014 during my first stint in this country, I wanted to seek out the swinging scene here to open my eyes and widen my worldview, so to speak.
That plus I just preferred the idea of casual sex through swinging with full on adults as opposed to hooking up with barely-18 freshers at uni. I was already 21 then. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
The info was put into the person bio on a dating site obviously the person must have got fed up of receiving dick pictures and sexual advances so trying to redirect. I wrote it down just out of curiosity then roughly 8 months later thought have a nosey been here since it has been an experience made some fantastic friends even after they left the site but also met some great people and chatted with some also here and off here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was planted here by the Sydney University swinger research decision
I will lie cheat and steel to get as much personal information from you all as possible |
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"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.
I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.
I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.
I don’t know what I was really searching for before. Just some sex & attention maybe. But I’m already finding more. Friends maybe. A place. Some peace. Definitely not what I was looking for or expecting.
How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "
A wife haven't found her yet I'll keep looking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I complained about the only thing I missed being single was sex to a married friend, she suggested here(also was here) & I've been here on&off, ever since. I met a couple of long term fwbs here, then met my hubby here too. Though we enjoy it differently & mostly I'm here for friends & the forums xo |
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First time, with my ex wife, we were told about Fab by a couple we met at ClubF. This time I suggested it to my wife as I had a fantasy of seeing her suck and fuck a other guy before we spitroast her. |
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What led me to joining fab was I enjoy sex and I don't want a partner/ boyfriend. We can have fun but at the end of the night I am sleeping in my bed on my own.
Also I enjoy a variety of sexual things and it's hard to find someone that enjoys a variety of things. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've shared this before so apologies if I'm a bore.
I was talked in to dating again by a friend when I filed for divorce. She ear-twisted me on to Tinder and then Hinge when I hated Tinder then fessed up about here when I quit Hinge after a few days.
I want and need non-vanilla, unconventional.
She found it through her then partner / now fiance.
Was impulsive in the first weeks and met without enough chat so wasn't the best intro but that one taught me well and was always more careful and patient. But it did what I wanted, which was to reclaim the me I'd lost over the years with the ex.
Fab has been a mixed bag. I have made worthy connections and toxic ones.
I'm tiptoeing through the landmines and doing my best to not step in any more cowpats  |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
After coming out of a long completely vanilla marriage I had no idea what I wanted, tried dating sites and had lots of coffees and a 6 month fling but didn't really want to settle down. Met a lady on tinder who after a while ... said she was married...and I said doesn't your hubby wonder what your up to with me...she said no, were swingers ..and I said what's a swinger ? (Sheltered life) she then showed me fab... In 2018
I've had a lot of fun...I enjoy it , love the adventure and hedonistic madness of it..I struggle with rudeness and being treated like a second rate citizen in the fab dimension but avoid those sorts of situations if possible.
I love flirting with woman in the real world and even if it doesn't go anywhere it's a good boost to ones ego...
I am pondering what to do next ...can't see a vanilla date ever working now I've succumbed to this malarky ...
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"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.
I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.
I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.
I don’t know what I was really searching for before. Just some sex & attention maybe. But I’m already finding more. Friends maybe. A place. Some peace. Definitely not what I was looking for or expecting.
How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "
Hi OP,Love what you wrote here glad to hear you found peace and friendship 
For me, I have an inquisitive mind and didn't want to listen to Boris who said people were allowed outside to exercise and go to work if they wasn't able to work from home in our times of lockdown
To me that just said you are allowed outside. I asked a bi sexual lady I have known for a lot of years for a genuine app or website to meet people and she told me about fab.
The parties were really great I have met lovely people and then going abroad for over year made me miss the scene and fab.
Glad to be back and get into the swing of things again xxx I have lost friends since returning back from the scene but it tells me those ones weren't friends to begin with because I still have some that I love and are happy to have me back in the UK xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums."
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband committed suicide… we had sex pretty much daily and arguably was one of the best parts of ‘us’. After a year I signed up anonymously just to look… as I lost weight I posted the odd snap of my mum bod (no face) just to see if anyone may still find me attractive. Lost 5 stone (still have another 5 to lose) went blonde again and had a ‘f it’ moment and posted a nude selfie in my kitchen apron. Fab has genuinely been a huge, huge part of my recovery from domestic abuse, gaining all that weight and losing everything - my spirit included.
The escapism, confidence and amazing experiences /friends I’ve made - I couldn’t put a price on it. Who knew!! |
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Came to it after being a member on another site. People complain about time wasters on here but this is a great place compared to the first one I joined. It almost seemed like it was people's first foray into it and then when they decided they really wanted to do it, join this one instead!
I joined a fet site as well but only got one meet from that. Pity because it's got a much bigger menu of interests than on here! |
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I be totally honestly (yeah course he will I hear few say) anyway I joined here because someone I know is on here from time to time and got told to join as its fun and you do get to meet interesting fun people you dont on conventional sites, my cup of tea. So I joined and paid that subscription pass thing the gold one,but took me ages to settle in especially as a newbie and it is tough on here ive noticed, anyway was thinking of leaving but got told just have chats in forum have a laugh expect nothing see out the subscription seen as you paid then decide, so that's what I'm doing. But I would never knock this site think it's a good site you get bad good on every dating site. |
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That’s a probing question. After my first wife died it was to fill a void without commitment. Never really thought I could love again. Met someone from off scene a few years later and stopped meeting but still liked the chat. She didn’t want to be involved but was ok with me chatting. She decided she didn’t love me anymore and here I am |
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It is a eye opener site, you get judged very quickly which is understandable, safety has to be top priority always. Been told I need to sort my profile out take a lot more pics of private setting and show them to all, but I thought just get the mundane but important information out there on profile, and rest will follow via connecting messaging. But its great to see a lot have connected and its helped a lot of people in there lives too which is fantastic news. The banter on here is so funny and hopefully no one takes offence, my advice to anyone new ish like myself, is definitely take advice of the more experienced site members who been here a long time they know what there talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was such a long time ago. Migrated over from another site.
I've made lots of friends over the years and each time I return I bring a new perspective.
This time I'm the woman in a sweet shop enjoying the best pick n mix.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.
I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.
I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.
I don’t know what I was really searching for before. Just some sex & attention maybe. But I’m already finding more. Friends maybe. A place. Some peace. Definitely not what I was looking for or expecting.
How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "
A woman told me about this joint and l suppose lm addicted to the place now BUT l don't ..or won't ..take anything to heart here simply because you can end up crushed if you do. |
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"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage.
I initially joined due to my ex when we were together. I’ve recently come back as a “grow through it” thing.
I’ve found it really has helped with my self worth.
I don’t know what I was really searching for before. Just some sex & attention maybe. But I’m already finding more. Friends maybe. A place. Some peace. Definitely not what I was looking for or expecting.
How about you? What were you looking for. Has it changed? Have you been surprised? Disappointed? "
I was invited by a couple from xhamster I've never looked back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was on another site for ages n this one was mentioned , met some lovely folk over the years and had a fb as a couple for a time Kept leaving n coming back lol Do find it harder to meet now though, especially if you haven't any veris ????? |
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We’ve always been kinky and never vanilla, so have always discussed ‘what’s next’, and the topic of dogging, swinging and swapping often came up in the throws of passion. During lockdown we experimented with a certain famous porn site for a couple of weeks until all unverified accounts were removed - so we left!
Realising we were a massive pair of exhibitionists and people enjoyed our content, we joined a fetish site and realised we were more about swinging than kink. Got bored with that site and discovered Fab. We’re here and loving it! |
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I met Cammy in 2001. She had just come out of a long term relationship and was going through a divorce. She was so horny looking and lived up to her looks. She was very insecure and I took her to a party in Oldham. 20 years later: married, totally in love and best friends we both discussed trying the lifestyle together. We searched swinging sites and I signed us up to three. One had a three month free membership and we dropped that one quite quickly. The second has limited free access. That left FAB. It has a bit more of a vibe than the other two so we got a silver account. We have still not met anyone from here but are both hoping to attend the next Manchester social.
We tend to look at this site rather than look at others |
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women. "
Why is this worse?!  |
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I was looking for information on my local dogging sites as my friend wanted to try it and as he wasn't from here he didn't know either. Somehow found fab and got the information I was looking for, and never left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.
Why is this worse?! "
I was thinking the same  |
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I googled playground equipment for my garden. I’m now either in the forums or on my ‘Authentic UK Indiana Jones Big Boy’s Funtime Playtime Super Adventure Number One Rocket Ship’ set in the garden. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.
Why is this worse?! I was thinking the same "
- only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ex fwb lady brought me hear
She found the Man she wanted permanently
So that leaves me
Wished her all the best then goodbye that was while ago now
Hope she is happy |
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I just stumbled across it. In the past I was more concerned about sex, but these days I enjoy a browse and feeling a sense of community with respect to attitudes towards sex. Forums keep me coming back periodically. |
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Reached my 50th birthday having gone through 10 years of no sexual contact at all and very little sexual experience in general.
A few things happened in the months leading up to my 50th that were life changing and I saw myself in a different light.
Two years later I wanted to continue exploring and found another site that wasn't very user friendly and then moved to here just as I turned 52. |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
Been here long time on and off. Originally joined with my partner because we had friends here. But gave up trying to meet couples, my interest was in the female half, rarely worked out.
Used to write in the Stories and Fantasies forum about my experiences, changed quite a lot now.
Pop on time to time to chat in chat rooms but most of my old friends have now left.
So just pop in now and again, maybe comment in the forum on posts that interest me.
Maybe find someone similar for drinks, meals and .... maybe |
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.
Why is this worse?! I was thinking the same - only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand"
I think I’d prefer it, at least I’d know it was something that I couldn’t offer! |
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.
Why is this worse?! I was thinking the same - only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand"
It wasn't an issue for me, I knew she was bi when we met. In fact I encouraged her to explore it if she wanted, she never did. When I caught her we talked about it and I said ok as long as our relationship comes first. There were many other bigger issues in the relationship, mainly her being a horrible alcoholic. |
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I was introduced to it years ago when young age single and thought wow never really recovered from that , thought I could settle down and all that but it didn’t work and found myself looking around for kinky ladies and vanilla didn’t seem to scratch my itch
Here I am lurking and meeting lovely ladies in the process |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.
Why is this worse?! I was thinking the same - only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand
It wasn't an issue for me, I knew she was bi when we met. In fact I encouraged her to explore it if she wanted, she never did. When I caught her we talked about it and I said ok as long as our relationship comes first. There were many other bigger issues in the relationship, mainly her being a horrible alcoholic. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My husband committed suicide… we had sex pretty much daily and arguably was one of the best parts of ‘us’. After a year I signed up anonymously just to look… as I lost weight I posted the odd snap of my mum bod (no face) just to see if anyone may still find me attractive. Lost 5 stone (still have another 5 to lose) went blonde again and had a ‘f it’ moment and posted a nude selfie in my kitchen apron. Fab has genuinely been a huge, huge part of my recovery from domestic abuse, gaining all that weight and losing everything - my spirit included.
The escapism, confidence and amazing experiences /friends I’ve made - I couldn’t put a price on it. Who knew!! "
Seems like Fab has had an incredibly positive impact for you in light of the awful experiences you have endured. You look confident and super sexy in your pictures - yes I had a little look. And I very much hope you continue to have amazing experiences. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My ex who after 25 yrs decided to cheat with other women, I caught her through her browsing history on FAB. Joined it and only ever met one person but stay for the forums.
I'm very sorry to hear that. Bad enough you got cheated on by your wife. Worse when she does it with other women.
Why is this worse?! I was thinking the same - only reason I can think of it being worse is that because it's with another woman, the guy can't compete which in a way I understand
I think I’d prefer it, at least I’d know it was something that I couldn’t offer! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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porn what leads many people to crazy shit and society we live in today proves that. So the answer for me what led me to Fab is porn now I just get off watching my wife fuck other men and join in the mix. |
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I think I’d prefer it, at least I’d know it was something that I couldn’t offer! "
That was my approach to really
Didn't go down well when I said then I should get from a woman what you don't offer, like desire,intimacy and affection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you to everyone who has answered. It’s fascinating seeing all of the different stories. The huge amount of things people have found here. It’s quite heartwarming really. Who would have thought it.
I can’t leave now. Who knows what else is out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you to everyone who has answered. It’s fascinating seeing all of the different stories. The huge amount of things people have found here. It’s quite heartwarming really. Who would have thought it.
I can’t leave now. Who knows what else is out there "
As long as you're out there, there's always hope |
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As honest and blunt as possible, I just wanted to sex or head from time to time
No strings attached kinda fun and it seems like most dont want that which is fine and makes sense as to why I don't get much luck with what I'm looking for. Of course woman want to know that they are safe and also like to build a little bond with the person first.
Even tho I rarely get meets on here I still enjoy just being on here and having a nosey from time to time as well as attending clubs and socialising |
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Accidental find on a google search found fab for me. Can’t remember what exactly I was searching for but I stumbled upon fab.
I created an account many moons ago (possibly 2009/2010 ish)
Left and rejoined many times. Several rodeos, memories that will last a lifetime (good, bad and indifferent) and I still keep coming back
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Dragged in by cheerfully hopeful FB who thought having a couples profile will give him an access to unlimited shag, if only I was willing to take one for the team. Luckily for everyone involved it didn’t work out so I decided to have my own profile. Still doesn’t work but at least nobody will keep changing my fab password anymore. |
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I was coaching for my sons football team and got new shirts. Made a joke about red being “the best colour” to the mums and got a text of her, in red, a few days later.
Said that I was flattered but “I don’t think your husband would approve” and she replied saying “he told me to send it and thinks we should chat”…….
The rest as they say, is history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dragged in by cheerfully hopeful FB who thought having a couples profile will give him an access to unlimited shag, if only I was willing to take one for the team. Luckily for everyone involved it didn’t work out so I decided to have my own profile. Still doesn’t work but at least nobody will keep changing my fab password anymore."
*Nods* my ex and I shared control of our profile but I'd login to find he'd been faffing about with preferences and sexualities, would put me as bi to attract other couples. So I changed the password and took total control |
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"Dragged in by cheerfully hopeful FB who thought having a couples profile will give him an access to unlimited shag, if only I was willing to take one for the team. Luckily for everyone involved it didn’t work out so I decided to have my own profile. Still doesn’t work but at least nobody will keep changing my fab password anymore. *Nods* my ex and I shared control of our profile but I'd login to find he'd been faffing about with preferences and sexualities, would put me as bi to attract other couples. So I changed the password and took total control "
Yikes. So sorry to hear that but well done you. The same thing happened to me, I am 100% straight and he used to creepily message other women telling them “my partner is not ready for a threesome yet so would you like to play with me first “. Totally creepy. |
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Bizarrely found it on tiktok after deciding to try swinging.
I never expected to find what I’ve found. Some really good laughs, a community in the forum, an increase in self confidence and some good friends.
I find more questions asked than answered every day |
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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve come out of a terrible marriage. "
I’m the same. My marriage ended and I felt like I needed male company and fun but without the expectation of constantly messaging and stuff.
I think this site helped me get through my divorce massively |
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"We were trying to "convert" regular friends to regular playmates and found it a bit risky and uncomfortable. So, decided to find regular playmates and become friends with them. Works so far "
Blimey, just read your profile, you guys take more holidays than Judith Chalmers! |
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