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do all women have a hundred men in their in box.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How big is the box - and how do they all fit in without squabbling? just asking 
I prefer out of the box....
Slightly claustrophobic...
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us women aren't in the box ......... the op said it was men lol   |
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A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha |
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"A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha"
Even if that's so, they have the right to be picky, as does everybody else. I doubt your post here is going to help you get meets, if that's what you're after.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha"
You're right. They can have their pick here.
But while they are on here they CAN afford to be fussy, as they get so many offers. So you have to learn that trying to put them down is going to get you precisely nowhere.
Been turned down by a few recently have you? Thursday rant? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did think i might get some replies with that point. All ladies deserve respect and would never say anything untoward to anyone. Its their attitude that amazes me ."
Too late to back pedal now mate.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did think i might get some replies with that point. All ladies deserve respect and would never say anything untoward to anyone. Its their attitude that amazes me ."
 Nothing amazes me anymore. |
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"I did think i might get some replies with that point. All ladies deserve respect and would never say anything untoward to anyone. Its their attitude that amazes me ."
Erm.. You just did. And these posts always seem to come from the unverified. |
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Is it theit attitude because they pick and choose who they want to be with that you don't like. Or the manner in which they reject unwanted advances? Just because this is a swinging site, doesn't mean woman have to open their legs for all and sundry, neither do they have to be eternally grateful to every guy that thinks they are doing them a favour by lowering their standards for a quick shag!
Of course, you may not have meant any of the above
Rant over...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha"
Freedom of free speech and own mind come in to the equation here. Women have the right to be fussy and decide who they want to meet.If you saw it from our side and the type of messages we receive with one liners like "cum suck my dick" and "I want to lick your pussy" you would be fussy too! I only reply to messages that have been well thought out and catch my attention because they are actually quite normal and even then that doesn't mean I will meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did think i might get some replies with that point. All ladies deserve respect and would never say anything untoward to anyone. Its their attitude that amazes me .
Erm.. You just did. And these posts always seem to come from the unverified. "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Ladies can get as much sex as they like. Is that true"
In a pigs eye! I might have had more than you, but I've been let down and messed around by experts. If I put a meet request up I might get 100 messages but not one will fit my criteria (single, able to accommodate, live nearby)
I have come to the conclusion that women come across as fussy because we actually read profiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies can get as much sex as they like. Is that true
In a pigs eye! I might have had more than you, but I've been let down and messed around by experts. If I put a meet request up I might get 100 messages but not one will fit my criteria (single, able to accommodate, live nearby)
Totally agree, we read the profiles and not just look at the pictures x
I have come to the conclusion that women come across as fussy because we actually read profiles!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies can get as much sex as they like. Is that true
In a pigs eye! I might have had more than you, but I've been let down and messed around by experts. If I put a meet request up I might get 100 messages but not one will fit my criteria (single, able to accommodate, live nearby)
I have come to the conclusion that women come across as fussy because we actually read profiles!"
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"Its their profiles Im on about. Nothing to do with rejection . Oops. "
Same applies tho. If someone chose to put on their profiles I only want to meet blah blah blah it doesn't matter. It's THEIR profile! You choose who you want to meet and they choose who they want to meet, if that excludes you then tough!! |
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"A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha"
Its a shitter ain't it but it's not going to change so either put up or shut up  |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha
Its a shitter ain't it but it's not going to change so either put up or shut up "
 eves.
I have never received 100's of messages but I do sometimes delete messages when I cba'd.
And its not our (us mingers who wouldnt be looked at twice) fault if some have the attitude of any hole's a goal, but I can normally spot them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha
Freedom of free speech and own mind come in to the equation here. Women have the right to be fussy and decide who they want to meet.If you saw it from our side and the type of messages we receive with one liners like "cum suck my dick" and "I want to lick your pussy" you would be fussy too! I only reply to messages that have been well thought out and catch my attention because they are actually quite normal and even then that doesn't mean I will meet!"
Couldn't agree more. I get lots of one liners, ranging from "hi" to "will you mummify me" to "suck my meat". Oh, and the delightful "you are like my little toe, I'm gonna bang you all over my house".
Girls may well be choosy in mails and profiles, I can see why. |
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"If women weren't fussy they could get sex whenever they wanted.
But because they can get sex whenever they want....they can afford to be fussy! "
It's not fussy. And in here is no different to real life really. If I don't find someone physically attractive and have some kind of connection I'm not going to have sex with them in real life, just because I'm on a swingers site that's not going to change. I'm not desperate, or easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as an ex swingle (fem), i find that if you apply the filters correctly, you get quality and not quantity, so those that do get hundreds of messages clearly havent applied the filters and/or couldnt care less who they let in their inboxes I might be a fat lass, but im not gonna shag any old uggo who comes along! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Right now have still over 1030 to read ...I do read some everyday . who say its just single fems who get mail here i do too ... lol And some miles and miles away and there letter have to stand out .. had two this morning that did ... one was a erotic story me in the kitchen , One was about a polar bear .. lol Never chatted to them before but made me smile ,See its nice to get mail that's different. I cant mail all back i say in profile but your right some stand out from the rest at times.  |
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"I did think i might get some replies with that point. All ladies deserve respect and would never say anything untoward to anyone. Its their attitude that amazes me ."
So just to be clear, just because a lady may not be Angelina Jolie, she should be grateful for anyone who wants to lower their standard to shag her??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Speaking as an ex swingle (fem), i find that if you apply the filters correctly, you get quality and not quantity, so those that do get hundreds of messages clearly havent applied the filters and/or couldnt care less who they let in their inboxes I might be a fat lass, but im not gonna shag any old uggo who comes along! "
I have filters , some on . just get alot of mail. |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"I did think i might get some replies with that point. All ladies deserve respect and would never say anything untoward to anyone. Its their attitude that amazes me .
So just to be clear, just because a lady may not be Angelina Jolie, she should be grateful for anyone who wants to lower their standard to shag her???"
Didnt you know?? Thats the rules for fuglies who are 'above their station' as I was once told  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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LOL.
I actually intentionally emptied my inbox last night.
I've 10% of your quoted figure, and thats because viccie and other friends are in there.
women rule fabs rubbish again 
all rainbows have a pot of gold at the end too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women weren't fussy they could get sex whenever they wanted.
But because they can get sex whenever they want....they can afford to be fussy!
It's not fussy. And in here is no different to real life really. If I don't find someone physically attractive and have some kind of connection I'm not going to have sex with them in real life, just because I'm on a swingers site that's not going to change. I'm not desperate, or easy. "
Oh I wasn't just talking about on here, I was talking about women in general. Any woman can go out to a pub or club and get a shag, might not be their ideal man but they can have sex whenever they want.
When a bloke chats up a women, all he's doing is presenting himself, the woman chooses to keep talking to him, or ignore him, or turn him down. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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So basicly what your implying is women can be fussy because every bloke wants to shag them but blokes cant be fussy because most women dont want to shag them...is that about right ?....sorry to burst your bubble but guys can be fussy too ....i am ..not every holes a goal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women weren't fussy they could get sex whenever they wanted.
But because they can get sex whenever they want....they can afford to be fussy!
It's not fussy. And in here is no different to real life really. If I don't find someone physically attractive and have some kind of connection I'm not going to have sex with them in real life, just because I'm on a swingers site that's not going to change. I'm not desperate, or easy.
Oh I wasn't just talking about on here, I was talking about women in general. Any woman can go out to a pub or club and get a shag, might not be their ideal man but they can have sex whenever they want.
When a bloke chats up a women, all he's doing is presenting himself, the woman chooses to keep talking to him, or ignore him, or turn him down. "
Tell you the best place to pick up and chat up a lady is Tesco's and watroese , lol i have had some lovely times , Chatting and flirting there ... we think oooo no shopping again ... but can be fun. Its not the local pub now , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So basicly what your implying is women can be fussy because every bloke wants to shag them but blokes cant be fussy because most women dont want to shag them...is that about right ?....sorry to burst your bubble but guys can be fussy too ....i am ..not every holes a goal "
No, because the man chooses who he chats up so he can be as selective as he wants. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If women weren't fussy they could get sex whenever they wanted.
But because they can get sex whenever they want....they can afford to be fussy!
It's not fussy. And in here is no different to real life really. If I don't find someone physically attractive and have some kind of connection I'm not going to have sex with them in real life, just because I'm on a swingers site that's not going to change. I'm not desperate, or easy.
Oh I wasn't just talking about on here, I was talking about women in general. Any woman can go out to a pub or club and get a shag, might not be their ideal man but they can have sex whenever they want.
When a bloke chats up a women, all he's doing is presenting himself, the woman chooses to keep talking to him, or ignore him, or turn him down. Tell you the best place to pick up and chat up a lady is Tesco's and watroese , lol i have had some lovely times , Chatting and flirting there ... we think oooo no shopping again ... but can be fun. Its not the local pub now , lol"
Off to the supermarket, anyone want anything? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If women weren't fussy they could get sex whenever they wanted.
But because they can get sex whenever they want....they can afford to be fussy!
It's not fussy. And in here is no different to real life really. If I don't find someone physically attractive and have some kind of connection I'm not going to have sex with them in real life, just because I'm on a swingers site that's not going to change. I'm not desperate, or easy.
Oh I wasn't just talking about on here, I was talking about women in general. Any woman can go out to a pub or club and get a shag, might not be their ideal man but they can have sex whenever they want.
When a bloke chats up a women, all he's doing is presenting himself, the woman chooses to keep talking to him, or ignore him, or turn him down. Tell you the best place to pick up and chat up a lady is Tesco's and watroese , lol i have had some lovely times , Chatting and flirting there ... we think oooo no shopping again ... but can be fun. Its not the local pub now , lol
Off to the supermarket, anyone want anything? "
I will be there later and you will see i have about 8 bunches of flowers , lol that's what i get ..... men say lady like you should never have to be getting herself flowers , lolol i say for my holiday homes not me , lolol and the veg i get ooo butternut how on earth do i cook that , lol just two ... i have allsorts ... maybe i can give men tips for chat up lines in super markets , lol Thay always make me smile .. when i get this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So basicly what your implying is women can be fussy because every bloke wants to shag them but blokes cant be fussy because most women dont want to shag them...is that about right ?....sorry to burst your bubble but guys can be fussy too ....i am ..not every holes a goal
No, because the man chooses who he chats up so he can be as selective as he wants. "
So you're saying
a.) men choose who to chat up? Bit of a no brainer there - unless I guess he has the horn and its 5 minutes before kicking out time at the local nightclub!
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b.) women sit around waiting to be chatted up by all and sundry and then jump on their pedestal to put down those they're not interested in.
Times have changed!! Men and women are quite capable of making the first move or waiting to be approached - whichever they happen to choose at the time. Likewise both are more than able to decide if they wish to chat to, meet and jump into bed with each other without there being some kind of 'power game' going on. This is 2013 - not 1953!!
And the same is true in both the 'virtual world' of Fab and the pub on a Friday night!
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"So basicly what your implying is women can be fussy because every bloke wants to shag them but blokes cant be fussy because most women dont want to shag them...is that about right ?....sorry to burst your bubble but guys can be fussy too ....i am ..not every holes a goal
No, because the man chooses who he chats up so he can be as selective as he wants.
So you're saying
a.) men choose who to chat up? Bit of a no brainer there - unless I guess he has the horn and its 5 minutes before kicking out time at the local nightclub!
And
b.) women sit around waiting to be chatted up by all and sundry and then jump on their pedestal to put down those they're not interested in.
Times have changed!! Men and women are quite capable of making the first move or waiting to be approached - whichever they happen to choose at the time. Likewise both are more than able to decide if they wish to chat to, meet and jump into bed with each other without there being some kind of 'power game' going on. This is 2013 - not 1953!!
And the same is true in both the 'virtual world' of Fab and the pub on a Friday night!
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why we like you here . Your just so positive and that go a long way..To make a man stand out and look sexy here views the same, xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If women weren't fussy they could get sex whenever they wanted.
But because they can get sex whenever they want....they can afford to be fussy!
It's not fussy. And in here is no different to real life really. If I don't find someone physically attractive and have some kind of connection I'm not going to have sex with them in real life, just because I'm on a swingers site that's not going to change. I'm not desperate, or easy.
Oh I wasn't just talking about on here, I was talking about women in general. Any woman can go out to a pub or club and get a shag, might not be their ideal man but they can have sex whenever they want.
When a bloke chats up a women, all he's doing is presenting himself, the woman chooses to keep talking to him, or ignore him, or turn him down. "
I have single male and single female friends, 1 single male I know turns down more women than one of my single female friends turns down single men; and we are normal people, not gods, or glamour models. (No she is not a dog nor desperate & he isnt on a limited time frame/married or anything else dodgy)
It's about individuals having standards, and choices.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still boils down to the woman,
Man approaches, woman says yes or no.
Woman gives man the eye, he approaches.
Or woman approaches."
Or the man of course - cant blame women for everything!!
The occasional bit of bad parking, maybe......... |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Still boils down to the woman,
Man approaches, woman says yes or no.
Woman gives man the eye, he approaches.
Or woman approaches.
Or the man of course - cant blame women for everything!!
The occasional bit of bad parking, maybe......... "
Less of the bad parking ta very much.
Men are just as bad if not worse in my experience so there! |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"If women weren't fussy they could get sex whenever they wanted.
But because they can get sex whenever they want....they can afford to be fussy!
It's not fussy. And in here is no different to real life really. If I don't find someone physically attractive and have some kind of connection I'm not going to have sex with them in real life, just because I'm on a swingers site that's not going to change. I'm not desperate, or easy.
Oh I wasn't just talking about on here, I was talking about women in general. Any woman can go out to a pub or club and get a shag, might not be their ideal man but they can have sex whenever they want.
When a bloke chats up a women, all he's doing is presenting himself, the woman chooses to keep talking to him, or ignore him, or turn him down.
I have single male and single female friends, 1 single male I know turns down more women than one of my single female friends turns down single men; and we are normal people, not gods, or glamour models. (No she is not a dog nor desperate & he isnt on a limited time frame/married or anything else dodgy)
It's about individuals having standards, and choices.
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"Still boils down to the woman,
Man approaches, woman says yes or no.
Woman gives man the eye, he approaches.
Or woman approaches.
Or the man of course - cant blame women for everything!!
The occasional bit of bad parking, maybe......... "
Occasional ? |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Still boils down to the woman,
Man approaches, woman says yes or no.
Woman gives man the eye, he approaches.
Or woman approaches.
Or the man of course - cant blame women for everything!!
The occasional bit of bad parking, maybe.........
Occasional ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of ladies who would not get a second look in a pub have such an attitude of Im so fussy so dont push me as I've so many to choose from. While Im no oil painting either but dont have the power of the pussy. Ha"
I don't think of it like this! U say a lot of ladies wouldn't even get a second look in a pub........ Yep i might not do and thats exactly why I won't meet with just anyone who messages me cos I know how desperate some of u guys are and will just fuck anything on here! So I'm "fussy" because I'm not desperate for sex and there has to be a connection with someone for me |
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