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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t answer tbf, it may be legitimate or might be he’s just a twat (or had that wank as mentioned above!)
It’s more unusual if you’ve met before though, rather than someone you’ve never met, I assume a good time was had by all last time around?
Sorry to hear that happened and hopefully better luck next time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."
Did you chat much between arranging and the actual meeting?
Sometimes it’s hard to get into the mood if there’s been no chat and build up… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."
Maybe ask him for the reason as to why.....who knows there may a legit explanation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."
Maybe he forgot about the arranged meet ..
Or he is feeling poorly or a relative/friend called around.
He may have a perfectly good reason for cancelling at the last minute...
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often.
Maybe he forgot about the arranged meet ..
Or he is feeling poorly or a relative/friend called around.
He may have a perfectly good reason for cancelling at the last minute...
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Totally this as things can happen unexpectedly out of our control the fact you did receive a response rather than not |
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"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then  "
Exactly! This is why I always check a couple of hours before, saves me getting ready if they're going to cancel.
Pretty poor OP, and really annoying. What a waste of time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then
Exactly! This is why I always check a couple of hours before, saves me getting ready if they're going to cancel.
Pretty poor OP, and really annoying. What a waste of time!"
Ditto. I check before getting ready, then just before meeting. I had one guy send me his location/movements to prove he was coming, like fab-uber-eats  |
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"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then
Exactly! This is why I always check a couple of hours before, saves me getting ready if they're going to cancel.
Pretty poor OP, and really annoying. What a waste of time!
Ditto. I check before getting ready, then just before meeting. I had one guy send me his location/movements to prove he was coming, like fab-uber-eats "
I've had someone do that on WhatsApp, it's very handy! |
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Has happened twice with two women from here. They both cancelled me for the first meet. Then after rescheduled the meets and they both literally cancelled at 5 mins. Two separate women on separate occasions. I wasn't meeting two at same time. I've also unfortunately had to cancel on someone from here. Was due to fly to UK and cancelled it owing to illness. Rescheduled a few month later and I had to cancel again. We chatted again 6 months later and I made it to the UK and half an hour before I was due to meet she cancelled me
as she was hung over from the night before. We don't chat anymore so opportunity lost. Ah well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then "
I thought the same. Why did the op have to text to find out?
Op. You did the right thing.  |
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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago
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"got ready to meet a man i had met before. When i was on way i texed to say was coming.he cancelled. Why do people do that last minute? Its happened too often."
Cold feet?
Maybe his wife/gf got home
Or maybe he had a wank as people have suggested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess the point is though that you texted first, if you'd not contacted him on your way there, you'd have still turned up and what then
I thought the same. Why did the op have to text to find out?
Op. You did the right thing. "
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Sounds like he had a better offer or was hedging his bets in some way.
Could also have been one of his kids had descended unannounced and messed up his plans.
Pretty poor form not to have given an explanation and a suitable apology.
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We have had to do it... We had a child that threw up.
Its why we only meet locally. With lots of small kids there is more opportunity for things to get in the way. We Could not have people travelling miles. |
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