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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Rather not see it tbh.

Wonder about the consent aspect also.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Rather not see it tbh.

Wonder about the consent aspect also. "

Ah yes there is that too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a couple of pics showing an 'activity' with another because it was fun, I thought I would get 'good pic' messages but the messages i got were crude. So i removed all pics.

Strangely since I've had more decent content.

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By *weetiepie99Woman  over a year ago

cardiff

I really don't like it...definitely puts me off someone. Its like what are they trying to prove...they've had sex before?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't really like to see it. Especially if the person looks completely different to me, although can be a good tool to see who plays safe x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a couple of pics showing an 'activity' with another because it was fun, I thought I would get 'good pic' messages but the messages i got were crude. So i removed all pics.

Strangely since I've had more decent content."

I had consent from him...just to add that

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

Because they can and the rules permit it. Their profile, their choice.

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't really like to see it. Especially if the person looks completely different to me, although can be a good tool to see who plays safe x"

Yes that’s true too. I suppose it does have its advantages to see these pics.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Because they can and the rules permit it. Their profile, their choice.

A"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you want I can send ya a pic of me getting a blow job Nora. I know it’s hard to believe anyone would want my genitals in their mouth, but there is actual photo evidence. And I didn’t have to pay her either!

I think that’s why many do have those pics tbf, it’s a “look, other women want to fuck me so I can’t be that bad, can I?”

That’s my theory anyway

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

"

I don’t think so but thanks for giving the reasons. That’s what i wanted

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

Guess it the equivalent to the couples profile with 100 pics of the bird and one cock pic.

The mr

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Guess it the equivalent to the couples profile with 100 pics of the bird and one cock pic.

The mr "

True. I don’t look at many couples profiles but there does seem to be more of the woman than the man on the ones I have seen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't understand it tbh if people don't put themselves on here. You are just going to disappoint others and be disappointed yourselves.

If someone is genuinely intrigued by the real you then you know that for your part the fun will ve based on honesty and originality x

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple  over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

It’s a no from me. I don’t get it either

I think for some it maybe like a badge of honour like certain crude varis. After all we are all stuff muffins, right?

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

"

This makes me sad tbh.

Scoring with 'nice women' should not be how you find your self-esteem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Guess it the equivalent to the couples profile with 100 pics of the bird and one cock pic.

The mr "

I've thought this in the past, but then I saw an explanation that if the couple were looking for another guy, it would make sense to have more photos of the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

I don’t think so but thanks for giving the reasons. That’s what i wanted "

Yeah it's not for everybody but it can work and attract others.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc "

Yes there are a few male profiles which show more female body parts than male. I just think it must work as there seems to be so many.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

I don’t think so but thanks for giving the reasons. That’s what i wanted Yeah it's not for everybody but it can work and attract others.

"

Ah you just kind of answered what I said above.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Forgot to add to my post, when I see pics of guys with women completely different to me, they are almost always in weird and wonderful positions and that really puts me off because I know I'm a "limited brand"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

This makes me sad tbh.

Scoring with 'nice women' should not be how you find your self-esteem.

"

It's a good filter though too. People who might of messaged me who I wouldn't be interested in don't bother because they can see my type.

Success breeds success.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not a fan of using them as I don't think they'd benefit my profile in any way and wouldn't really portray who I am as a person if I'm hanging out the back of multiple women. In addition to that, there's the worry of consent and putting other women off. If I was asked if they could use me on their profile though, I think I'd be ok with that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t find it a draw if looking myself.

Just the opposite.

At one time I had a fab-friend so decided to celebrate it a lottle.

We each posted a pic that showed the other in it (nothing explicit as I only do hints, just an ass grab and very heavily cropped 69), my pic got almost no fabs so I know guys don't like it either.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Guess it the equivalent to the couples profile with 100 pics of the bird and one cock pic.

The mr

I've thought this in the past, but then I saw an explanation that if the couple were looking for another guy, it would make sense to have more photos of the woman."

Yeah I totally understand it if they are a cuck couple and the bloke plays no part. But the majority of messages we get from couples except my mrs to fancy a bloke from a cock pic.

The mr

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

Just to annoy you, Nora.

Facts are facts!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

Yes there are a few male profiles which show more female body parts than male. I just think it must work as there seems to be so many. "

I think there are many ways to make fab work. On the forum we tend to get bogged down in what contributors believe is the best way to go about things and it becomes a bit of an echo chamber.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of using them as I don't think they'd benefit my profile in any way and wouldn't really portray who I am as a person if I'm hanging out the back of multiple women. In addition to that, there's the worry of consent and putting other women off. If I was asked if they could use me on their profile though, I think I'd be ok with that "
You can't put any pics as a single guy that shows the woman's identity they will be rejected.

You get consent yeah.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don’t find it a draw if looking myself.

Just the opposite.

At one time I had a fab-friend so decided to celebrate it a lottle.

We each posted a pic that showed the other in it (nothing explicit as I only do hints, just an ass grab and very heavily cropped 69), my pic got almost no fabs so I know guys don't like it either.

"

I was wondering if it was more women who didn’t like to see it or men too.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

Yes there are a few male profiles which show more female body parts than male. I just think it must work as there seems to be so many.

I think there are many ways to make fab work. On the forum we tend to get bogged down in what contributors believe is the best way to go about things and it becomes a bit of an echo chamber. "

Oh yes definitely. I don’t think any ways are wrong (unless it’s not allowed). Just interested to see what people thought.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Because they can and the rules permit it. Their profile, their choice.

A

"

Sorry. Couldn't resist. I'll give a sensible answer now, based on my previous life with a solo profile.

For some it's because it's an ego trip. A 'look at me - I bagged a hottie' display to show how much of a studmuffin they are. They feel it demonstrates an ability to attract others and show that they're active on the site. Of course that often just comes across as arrogant, big headed, vain and if it's on an unverified, new or apparently not highly active profile then people will assume the photos are 'borrowed' from elsewhere.

Others do it because they feel the person in the picture is more attractive than them and will give their profile more glitz and draw attention. Even though the others in photos won't be at any potential meets. So that's pretty pointless.

Some do it just because they like posting graphic sex pics. They think that as its a sex/swingers site that it's necessary to have some otherwise people won't believe they have sex.

Men are also more visually stimulated of course so a focus on graphic images is to be expected.

But mainly it's the ego thing. And generally a male obsession.

Personally I couldn't care less. It's pretty sad when the profile owner is only visible as a hand, finger or cock, yet you've pretty much got all of their companion showing - strangely women never seem to post the same kind of images. Nice, tasteful photos of two singles are great. You can generally tell when it's fully consented as thought and care is put into the composition rather than just a quick mobile shot mid blowjob.

No doubt I'll be accused by certain guys as 'single male bashing' again, but it's a simple fact that the frequency of photos showing dismembered body parts of the profile owner but full body/face content of their companion is higher in male profiles than females.

Its Fab life - always has been and always will be.

A

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By *he love catsCouple  over a year ago

South Wales

We have photos and videos of group sex and permission to use them, though we don't make them public, we keep them for our private viewing as I feel it's more of a personal thing to us and the people who are in them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

This makes me sad tbh.

Scoring with 'nice women' should not be how you find your self-esteem.

It's a good filter though too. People who might of messaged me who I wouldn't be interested in don't bother because they can see my type.

Success breeds success.

"

Smh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In the 'rate my profile' and 'say something nice about the person above' type threads, I've never ever seen a girl comment on a guy about a pic that has multiples in/ shows sex and them say they think it is hot. But I once spat my tea reading a guy fanning over another guy 'doing that girl doggy while getting your balls licked' and others who say how big a guy's cock is.

I do think it's there more as dick-measuring both literally and figuratively

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

This makes me sad tbh.

Scoring with 'nice women' should not be how you find your self-esteem.

It's a good filter though too. People who might of messaged me who I wouldn't be interested in don't bother because they can see my type.

Success breeds success.

Smh"

Had several women say the pics and videos etc turn them on.

It attracts people who are looking for the same thing.

Repels people who aren't. That saves me time.

Also the women seem to have a different kind of respect if they know you have options and can replace them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the 'rate my profile' and 'say something nice about the person above' type threads, I've never ever seen a girl comment on a guy about a pic that has multiples in/ shows sex and them say they think it is hot. But I once spat my tea reading a guy fanning over another guy 'doing that girl doggy while getting your balls licked' and others who say how big a guy's cock is.

I do think it's there more as dick-measuring both literally and figuratively "

You get more fabs and more exposure of your profile too which leads to more potential meets.

It is good marketing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

This makes me sad tbh.

Scoring with 'nice women' should not be how you find your self-esteem.

It's a good filter though too. People who might of messaged me who I wouldn't be interested in don't bother because they can see my type.

Success breeds success.

Smh Had several women say the pics and videos etc turn them on.

It attracts people who are looking for the same thing.

Repels people who aren't. That saves me time.

Also the women seem to have a different kind of respect if they know you have options and can replace them.

"

You have got to be trolling now....

Lol

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

I looked at a male profile last week who I didn't recognise.

24 public pics and not a cock to be seen. Every single one of them were of a woman.

I've seen single women's profiles with numerous people on them and apart from anything else there was no way of knowing which of the 4 or 5 people in every pic were the person who's profile it was.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing puts me off a single guy more than seeing him hanging out of another woman.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's a massive turn off. I don't need to see where or who you've been with.

And so many are usually having unprotected sex.

And again, the consent... Should be some sort of rule about having proof. Like only other members on here, who can be asked. Not "it's my ex gf and she's ok with it"

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nothing puts me off a single guy more than seeing him hanging out of another woman.

"

I agree. I always look at the profile before opening a message and if I see a pic like that I don’t even read the message no matter who it is. I understand it’s only my opinion though and that some may not mind it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

This makes me sad tbh.

Scoring with 'nice women' should not be how you find your self-esteem.

It's a good filter though too. People who might of messaged me who I wouldn't be interested in don't bother because they can see my type.

Success breeds success.

Smh Had several women say the pics and videos etc turn them on.

It attracts people who are looking for the same thing.

Repels people who aren't. That saves me time.

Also the women seem to have a different kind of respect if they know you have options and can replace them.

You have got to be trolling now....

Lol"

No, serious as a heart attack.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a massive turn off. I don't need to see where or who you've been with.

And so many are usually having unprotected sex.

And again, the consent... Should be some sort of rule about having proof. Like only other members on here, who can be asked. Not "it's my ex gf and she's ok with it" "

Why is that so off putting on a site of this nature?

Is it insecurity in the women who don't like it.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's a massive turn off. I don't need to see where or who you've been with.

And so many are usually having unprotected sex.

And again, the consent... Should be some sort of rule about having proof. Like only other members on here, who can be asked. Not "it's my ex gf and she's ok with it" "

There is. It's always been in the T's & C's. Wonder how many actually keep and store copies of ID and written consent though.....

"10.12 You must not send or publish Content depicting anyone else unless you first:

a) ensure they are aware of your Fabswingers username and that they give you their specific written and signed consent to being included in the Content as well as to that Content being shown publicly on Fabswingers and potentially downloaded by other Users; and

b) verify that they are adults 18+ by getting and keeping a copy of their age ID.

You agree to carefully store their signed consent and age ID documents and that you will provide these immediately if we ask for them."

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of using them as I don't think they'd benefit my profile in any way and wouldn't really portray who I am as a person if I'm hanging out the back of multiple women. In addition to that, there's the worry of consent and putting other women off. If I was asked if they could use me on their profile though, I think I'd be ok with that

You can't put any pics as a single guy that shows the woman's identity they will be rejected.

You get consent yeah.

"

Then quite frankly, ban the photos altogether. It's bad giving away who someone in your photos are but it's arguably worse having them on your profile without consent.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of using them as I don't think they'd benefit my profile in any way and wouldn't really portray who I am as a person if I'm hanging out the back of multiple women. In addition to that, there's the worry of consent and putting other women off. If I was asked if they could use me on their profile though, I think I'd be ok with that

You can't put any pics as a single guy that shows the woman's identity they will be rejected.

You get consent yeah.

Then quite frankly, ban the photos altogether. It's bad giving away who someone in your photos are but it's arguably worse having them on your profile without consent."

Yeah, you have to be careful when uploading and edit them, to cover faces or tattoos etc.

All of mine have consent.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The problem with asking for proof at a later date is that the pic will already be out online.

We all know the internet is forever.

If you are admin approving pics it would be better to have the proof before approval not when a legal issue arises.

A lot of work though so prohibitive I know.

And how would you know it's them without a facepic to match the ID and signature which non-fabbers and fabbers alike are leery of.

It's a bit of a 'mare

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It's a massive turn off. I don't need to see where or who you've been with.

And so many are usually having unprotected sex.

And again, the consent... Should be some sort of rule about having proof. Like only other members on here, who can be asked. Not "it's my ex gf and she's ok with it" Why is that so off putting on a site of this nature?

Is it insecurity in the women who don't like it.

"

Because I'm looking for a single man, I want to see photos of just the single man...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a massive turn off. I don't need to see where or who you've been with.

And so many are usually having unprotected sex.

And again, the consent... Should be some sort of rule about having proof. Like only other members on here, who can be asked. Not "it's my ex gf and she's ok with it" Why is that so off putting on a site of this nature?

Is it insecurity in the women who don't like it.

Because I'm looking for a single man, I want to see photos of just the single man... "

I'd advise any single man to put some action shots if they can.

Better than 15 photos of your torso or cock from different angles.

It's not just men either, seen lots of women profiles with them in action too.

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By *rtyIanMan  over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons


"It's a massive turn off. I don't need to see where or who you've been with.

And so many are usually having unprotected sex.

And again, the consent... Should be some sort of rule about having proof. Like only other members on here, who can be asked. Not "it's my ex gf and she's ok with it" Why is that so off putting on a site of this nature?

Is it insecurity in the women who don't like it.

Because I'm looking for a single man, I want to see photos of just the single man... I'd advise any single man to put some action shots if they can.

Better than 15 photos of your torso or cock from different angles.

It's not just men either, seen lots of women profiles with them in action too.

"

I think the overwhelming verdict is that women don't like it, and why would anyone take advice off a hidden profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Turn off.

Interestingly though, many moons ago, I did post a couple of images of me with others. They’re still knocking about on other peoples profiles on here too. My tastes have changed, and I prefer to just show me, leave more to the imagination.

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By *ou only live onceMan  over a year ago

London

I don't have any, but don't mind them on others' profiles. Not going to lie, with some women, I find them quite a turn on - but maybe that's my voyeuristic streak.

(They can also be a filter though, like veris, if it's clear they are primarily in to guys who are very different to me)

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man  over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

All pics are mine.!Like yours

Very sexy.

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

For me it is a turn off, because for one I do not know if permissions were obtained but also I am not interested what the profile owner has done with whom and in what position.

And I certainly would not want my face/ body on somebody else's profile - it would feel like an invasion of my privacy which I take quite seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a massive turn off. I don't need to see where or who you've been with.

And so many are usually having unprotected sex.

And again, the consent... Should be some sort of rule about having proof. Like only other members on here, who can be asked. Not "it's my ex gf and she's ok with it" Why is that so off putting on a site of this nature?

Is it insecurity in the women who don't like it.

Because I'm looking for a single man, I want to see photos of just the single man... I'd advise any single man to put some action shots if they can.

Better than 15 photos of your torso or cock from different angles.

It's not just men either, seen lots of women profiles with them in action too.

I think the overwhelming verdict is that women don't like it, and why would anyone take advice off a hidden profile "

On the forum full of lots of women who we have discovered are looking for different things. Not a true reflection of the site on whole.

Because our profile is hidden any advice is invalid?

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

It's like saying it's a users profile should it only have photos of them only where would that put the verification system left by those whom they've met I myself don't care what others put it's their profile and how they decided and focus on mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have another person in one of my photos, and I have her full (written) consent to use the photo.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

All my pics/vids with others in show no faces I have them on there for action shots with consent x

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

Because most fellas are turned on by images and think that most others will feel the same. Like “cor, looking at him giving that bird a right shafting, *high five*”

Whereas most women are a bit more territorial when it comes to the cock they will allow to shag them and then they’re like “ewww he’s hanging out of the back of HER?!? He’s not coming near me!!”

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"It's like saying it's a users profile should it only have photos of them only where would that put the verification system left by those whom they've met I myself don't care what others put it's their profile and how they decided and focus on mine "

The first swinging site I ever joined almost 20 years ago had a rule that profiles could only display picture of the profile owner.

People still managed to meet. The world didn't end and when people wanted wank fodder they headed to the wider internet.

Maybe given recent legislation changes it's time to change the rules?

Level the playing field so to speak. Make it easy for people to establish interest and attraction because they know the only people they're viewing are the profile owner/owners.

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Whereas most women are a bit more territorial when it comes to the cock they will allow to shag them"

Bingo!

Again, a strange attitude to have on a site like this.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford


"

Whereas most women are a bit more territorial when it comes to the cock they will allow to shag them Bingo!

Again, a strange attitude to have on a site like this.

"

Yes very strange x

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By *istyPeaksCouple  over a year ago

braintree

I’m not a huge fan. If it’s in friends & it’s perhaps 1 other couple or person, tasteful (to me I guess) in an otherwise decent profile - I can just about overlook it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Social proof.

Shows women that I can get nice women so I must have value.

Looks better than me just holding my cock on my own too.

This makes me sad tbh.

Scoring with 'nice women' should not be how you find your self-esteem.

It's a good filter though too. People who might of messaged me who I wouldn't be interested in don't bother because they can see my type.

Success breeds success.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Whereas most women are a bit more territorial when it comes to the cock they will allow to shag them Bingo!

Again, a strange attitude to have on a site like this.

Yes very strange x"

The new generation of non swingers on here don't like seeing actual swingers swinging.

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By *oofy321Man  over a year ago

moon base zero

Maybe single profiles with others in pics should be in friends only section?

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By *urls and DressesWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I find it a turn off, especially when I see bareback. I know they can have sex, it’s a human thing, but I don’t need to see it. I question whether they have permission for that photo which then leads me to questioning whether I would trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because most fellas are turned on by images and think that most others will feel the same. Like “cor, looking at him giving that bird a right shafting, *high five*”

Whereas most women are a bit more territorial when it comes to the cock they will allow to shag them and then they’re like “ewww he’s hanging out of the back of HER?!? He’s not coming near me!!”"

I'd consider it more just the eww factor as opposed to territorial at such an early stage.

But I agree, it's a big reveal of their standards as far as likes, behaviours, partner choices, health choices....

It also reveals the truth of what they actually do versus the sanitised version posted in their profile.

By all means guys, please keep it up. It's a great filter.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford


"Maybe single profiles with others in pics should be in friends only section?"

Dont use that all my pics/vids public! Prefer them that way x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have occassionally used a pic of me with someone and did it just because I liked to see the image myself. It can be quite dynamic if done well, nice to see how you fit with people. I think I feature on a male profile in parts too as he likes to just show the sort of things he likes to do and his interests, and just enjoys the images themselves also. So in that respect purely selfish for my own pleasure

As with any photo the overused less well thought out pics dont impress as much, and if there are loads of just a mans cock and all woman instead it can make me a bit eyerolly but then I dont mind seeing the way he holds or touches a woman if its a well done picture.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just got a lovely message from a guy with a great eye-catching profile photo. So before I replied I read his profile and that too caught my attention.Then I looked at his photos, To be honest it was really disappointing as the guy who messaged me so respectfully was so far removed from how he protrayed himself in his photos. He had at least 6 different women in his photos in various positions of sex and not one had he a condom on. That to me was a massive turn off. So I use photos as my filters as it tells me a hell of a lot more than a well worded message or profile can.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc "

I really don't understand the bike rack pics.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

It massively puts me off them.

I assume they don't have consent (most people say it's their ex...! )

I assume with men they want to prove that SOMEONE has had sex with them in the past even if they can't get meets now. Women I just think they do it to attract more men. Same as sex menu veris. Advertise the sex goods.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

I don't just me on mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

I really don't understand the bike rack pics. "

Im not going to be able to do doggy again now

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By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

I really don't understand the bike rack pics.

Im not going to be able to do doggy again now "

So where am I supposed to park when I turn up for our mff?! Selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whilst it's not reliable, dates on the pics can often match up to veris and tell you who it might be in the pic if the activities match. Which is incidental, but useful filter-wise for who they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

I really don't understand the bike rack pics.

Im not going to be able to do doggy again now "

Do you always do doggy in a row with other people?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whilst it's not reliable, dates on the pics can often match up to veris and tell you who it might be in the pic if the activities match. Which is incidental, but useful filter-wise for who they meet."
Miss Marple over here.

Going over profiles with a fine tooth comb.

Creepy that

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By *riel13Woman  over a year ago

Northampton

Nothing worse than seeing more of the people they have been with than you can of them... And the whole bare thing too... Even if they say it was an ex... Yeah because they gave consent for their pictures to be on their exes profile where they is trying to get laid!

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By *amesBeelzebubMan  over a year ago

norwich

It's a bit off putting when I think i have a chance then the man in one of her pics has a 1990s Peter Andre torso where as I'm a more padded design

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

I really don't understand the bike rack pics.

Im not going to be able to do doggy again now

Do you always do doggy in a row with other people?

"

Im concerned I may get a bmx parked in me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

I really don't understand the bike rack pics.

Im not going to be able to do doggy again now

So where am I supposed to park when I turn up for our mff?! Selfish."

Throw it on my front lawn with a dinging of your bell then scale the tree and climb in through the bedroom window.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Whilst it's not reliable, dates on the pics can often match up to veris and tell you who it might be in the pic if the activities match. Which is incidental, but useful filter-wise for who they meet. Miss Marple over here.

Going over profiles with a fine tooth comb.

Creepy that "

. God you’d think I was really creepy if I gave away my secrets and what I do and don’t look for!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whilst it's not reliable, dates on the pics can often match up to veris and tell you who it might be in the pic if the activities match. Which is incidental, but useful filter-wise for who they meet. Miss Marple over here.

Going over profiles with a fine tooth comb.

Creepy that

. God you’d think I was really creepy if I gave away my secrets and what I do and don’t look for!"

Why some of you women are moaning saying it's so hard to find somebody.

You're looking for reasons not to meet.

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By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8


"I don't like it. I don't understand why that do it. It doesn't turn me on.

I especially dislike single profiles that show more of someone else's body than their own, couples profiles where you can't tell who are the actual couple and couples profiles with a photo of several women all lined up bending over like a bike rack.

I know it's personal preference etc

I really don't understand the bike rack pics.

Im not going to be able to do doggy again now

So where am I supposed to park when I turn up for our mff?! Selfish.

Throw it on my front lawn with a dinging of your bell then scale the tree and climb in through the bedroom window. "

Done! I reckon that’s exactly how the milk tray man used to arrive. I mean, we never used to see and he always had to be sneaky. Maybe no ddrrrring on the bell. But he definitely would have had a basket on the front for his balaclava and choccy choccies. And lucozade in the water bottle.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan  over a year ago

norwich

Awww I forgot what the subject is.. i just keep thinking how lovely Nora is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whilst it's not reliable, dates on the pics can often match up to veris and tell you who it might be in the pic if the activities match. Which is incidental, but useful filter-wise for who they meet. Miss Marple over here.

Going over profiles with a fine tooth comb.

Creepy that "

Well that's how you get rid of bugs

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Whilst it's not reliable, dates on the pics can often match up to veris and tell you who it might be in the pic if the activities match. Which is incidental, but useful filter-wise for who they meet. Miss Marple over here.

Going over profiles with a fine tooth comb.

Creepy that

. God you’d think I was really creepy if I gave away my secrets and what I do and don’t look for! Why some of you women are moaning saying it's so hard to find somebody.

You're looking for reasons not to meet. "

I do find it hard to find people I’m compatible with but I don’t moan about it at all.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

chichester

tbh I think single profiles shouldn't be allowed to post pics of anyone other themselves and I think couples profiles should by default have to have a profile pic of the both of them ...

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Whilst it's not reliable, dates on the pics can often match up to veris and tell you who it might be in the pic if the activities match. Which is incidental, but useful filter-wise for who they meet. Miss Marple over here.

Going over profiles with a fine tooth comb.

Creepy that

. God you’d think I was really creepy if I gave away my secrets and what I do and don’t look for! Why some of you women are moaning saying it's so hard to find somebody.

You're looking for reasons not to meet.

I do find it hard to find people I’m compatible with but I don’t moan about it at all. "

Likewise

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss

I'm not too fussed about shots with others in but really not keen on the close ups. Feel like it's a sex ed - I know how it works

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not too fussed about shots with others in but really not keen on the close ups. Feel like it's a sex ed - I know how it works "

Teach me. FYI I’m a visual learner

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t like it when looking for potential partner not if it’s intimately sexual but can see why people want to do it. Also as a guy being on others profiles is quite a nice feeling

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By *iddlesticksMan  over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

It does bother me, especially when it’s mostly of the other person.

What’s the message “Look at me, I’ve shagged somebody”

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

It does bother me, especially when it’s mostly of the other person.

What’s the message “Look at me, I’ve shagged somebody” "

I just checked & realised I have 2 pics with others in- I’ve never even thought about it ….

it’s not about ‘look who I’ve shagged’ at all for me it’s photography I like & saying something about the type of person I am

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Does absolutely nothing for either of us. We ignore single profiles with other people in the photos

Mrs C

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By *iddlesticksMan  over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

It does bother me, especially when it’s mostly of the other person.

What’s the message “Look at me, I’ve shagged somebody”

I just checked & realised I have 2 pics with others in- I’ve never even thought about it ….

it’s not about ‘look who I’ve shagged’ at all for me it’s photography I like & saying something about the type of person I am "

They’re good pics and not overtly more about the other person in them.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

My profile is a place to show myself off and hopefully attract people to me.

It is also a place for me to show off my sexual exploits and post my sexy content, if that content happens to involve another person and that person has agreed that I can show off those pics/vids then what's the harm?

As a counterpoint though, it would be very strange to show yourself off on Tinder with another partner in your pics...

As a counterpoint to that counterpoint, we are not on Tinder (or any regular dating app)... This is a swingers site and that usually involves banging multiple people. It's not much of a jump in logic that many pics on here will feature multiple people shagging the arse off each other

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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If it's full on hardcore, barebacking with various people, yeah, it doesn't do much for me because it suggests I'm not compatible with them.

On the whole, my photos/videos are solely of me. When I've uploaded one featuring another (very, very rarely), it's because I really love it and give not a single fuck if others are put off.

My profile isn't just a shop window of carefully curated images designed to lure in poor saps - it's an insight into a side of me that I adore. My profile. Not some clever marketing ploy.

If I was really hunting for penis, I'd probably hide anything featuring others. As it is, I'm good.

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If all I can see are women spread in various poses and just the man's hand/cock then yes it's a massive turn off.

Sometimes I struggle to work out if a profile is a couple or a males by all the action shots.

Its of course up to the individual what they post ,but when single men have vag pics/bums as an avatar I don't even look at their message.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's not something I've ever done on a single profile. I'm not keen on seeing someone hanging out the back of random different people. Definitely a bit of a turn off for me.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I imagine a lot of people don’t understand the law on using other peoples intimate pictures and a fair few couldn’t give a shit. Seems to be a showing off thing for some

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some "
You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

Personally, I don't want to see an action shot. Not decrying anyone who does

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

Nope....some do ..others don't ..I simply don't .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

"

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape "

Something called Okafor's law.

When a hole has been drilled properly, even when closed up it can always be found and drilled again.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape Something called Okafor's law.

When a hole has been drilled properly, even when closed up it can always be found and drilled again. "

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape Something called Okafor's law.

When a hole has been drilled properly, even when closed up it can always be found and drilled again. "

Does that apply to using a backhoe?

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape Something called Okafor's law.

When a hole has been drilled properly, even when closed up it can always be found and drilled again. "

Oh that's so grim and brilliant. Well played.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape Something called Okafor's law.

When a hole has been drilled properly, even when closed up it can always be found and drilled again. "

Well we’ve all used the wrong drill bit before. The trick is to use a better one next time

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape "

They can and they do....yup ..they do ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Seems to be a showing off thing for some You better believe it baby.

Pisses old flames off too. Especially if you meet a nicer woman than her.

I imagine any old flames of yours consider themselves to have had a lucky escape Something called Okafor's law.

When a hole has been drilled properly, even when closed up it can always be found and drilled again.

Oh that's so grim and brilliant. Well played. "

True that, why lot's of people get back with ex's etc.

It's a great analogy too.

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

Have you noticed how the negative narrative here is almost all aimed at single guys despite the OP not even mentioning gender. !? What about all the single ladies on here with explicit photos and action videos??!

I do what I want but keeping to forum rules. It hasn’t done me any harm in fact quite the opposite. I get so many great messages from men, women, couples and the LGBT community complimenting me on my content. I’m so glad I stopped listening to the clique on this topic because I’m having the best sex of my life with some gorgeous women.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


" "

Don't do it red! Don't do it... You know better by now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Don't do it red! Don't do it... You know better by now "

Aaaargh, I know. Trip trap.

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By *estarossa.Woman  over a year ago

Flagrante

I do wonder if the women are consenting on an ongoing basis?

I rarely think about posing during play either!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple  over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Started writing, took a deep breath, rolled my eyes and deleted.

Can. Not. Be. Arsed.

J

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"

Don't do it red! Don't do it... You know better by now

Aaaargh, I know. Trip trap."

Haters gonna hate hate hate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It puts me off completely.

F

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman  over a year ago

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I’ve only ever posted photos of me, bar one with someone else in (with consent)

A few days ago I posted some more because I loved the pics and what anyone thinks didn’t enter my thought process.

If it puts people off me, so be it, we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire


"I’ve only ever posted photos of me, bar one with someone else in (with consent)

A few days ago I posted some more because I loved the pics and what anyone thinks didn’t enter my thought process.

If it puts people off me, so be it, we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea "

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"I’ve only ever posted photos of me, bar one with someone else in (with consent)

A few days ago I posted some more because I loved the pics and what anyone thinks didn’t enter my thought process.

If it puts people off me, so be it, we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea "

I like your latest photos. You seem to be in your happy cocklust place - I could never begrudge anyone that.

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By *ou only live onceMan  over a year ago

London


"I’ve only ever posted photos of me, bar one with someone else in (with consent)

A few days ago I posted some more because I loved the pics and what anyone thinks didn’t enter my thought process.

If it puts people off me, so be it, we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea "

See my post above...the turn-on bit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Don't do it red! Don't do it... You know better by now

Aaaargh, I know. Trip trap.

Haters gonna hate hate hate "

Speak for yourself if you must.

I spoke for my personal likes, which are men 90% of the time. Guys who look at the girl pics can comment on those

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman  over a year ago

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"I’ve only ever posted photos of me, bar one with someone else in (with consent)

A few days ago I posted some more because I loved the pics and what anyone thinks didn’t enter my thought process.

If it puts people off me, so be it, we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea

I like your latest photos. You seem to be in your happy cocklust place - I could never begrudge anyone that. "

Thanks beautiful. I loved your recent pic with fingers in your mouth - very erotic, it shows a different side to us.

Cocklust - my new favourite word

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman  over a year ago

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"I’ve only ever posted photos of me, bar one with someone else in (with consent)

A few days ago I posted some more because I loved the pics and what anyone thinks didn’t enter my thought process.

If it puts people off me, so be it, we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea

See my post above...the turn-on bit."

I did notice your comment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pics of other people in what way?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Pics of other people in what way? "

Shagging and doing all the sex and that

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By *ocksareoffMan  over a year ago

Out n About


"Pics of other people in what way? "

You know. Playing hide the sausage

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Turn off.

Interestingly though, many moons ago, I did post a couple of images of me with others. They’re still knocking about on other peoples profiles on here too. My tastes have changed, and I prefer to just show me, leave more to the imagination."

I'm similar, it's more about the content of the pics, classy or full on graphic action shots etc. Generally what I like in solo pics.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

I don’t know Nora honestly? no. I’d rather just see them that the page is about. It’s like opening an encyclopaedia to learn about a lion but looking at a photo of an elephant.

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

"

Yes it puts us (and it seems most) off.

Some do it because they're actually part of a couple. Maybe others do it to try to give the impression they're more successful than they actually are? Not only are there many ex gf's on here who have no clue their pics are on here, there's many es£orts who got photographed for their next line. Then the profile has the fake veris from hidden profiles saying how much stamina they have and made her squirt 30 times . If it boosts their ego (while decreasing their chances of meets) that's fine, but people's pics on profiles and they have no clue makes us a little sad.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

I don’t know Nora honestly? no. I’d rather just see them that the page is about. It’s like opening an encyclopaedia to learn about a lion but looking at a photo of an elephant. "

love this

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

That’s the full team out in force now. Must be a dull night on WhatsApp

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I'm going to ask my long term partner to video him doing me doggy.

You will see his beautiful body from the back and my legs and feet.

I'll post still pics from it on my profile to entice other really hot men to message me.

Don't know why I didn't think of that before.

I'll ask him to sign a waiver when though his face won't be visible.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Blimey. Just caught up with the comments. I wasn’t saying it was wrong or right. Was just interested in views.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm going to ask my long term partner to video him doing me doggy.

You will see his beautiful body from the back and my legs and feet.

I'll post still pics from it on my profile to entice other really hot men to message me.

Don't know why I didn't think of that before.

I'll ask him to sign a waiver when though his face won't be visible. "

Don't worry, I'll do it for you. What size dildo do you fancy or do you want me to fetch my double with me?

F

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Pics of other people in what way?

Shagging and doing all the sex and that "

Ooooohhhhhh

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"Have you noticed how the negative narrative here is almost all aimed at single guys despite the OP not even mentioning gender. !? What about all the single ladies on here with explicit photos and action videos??!

I do what I want but keeping to forum rules. It hasn’t done me any harm in fact quite the opposite. I get so many great messages from men, women, couples and the LGBT community complimenting me on my content. I’m so glad I stopped listening to the clique on this topic because I’m having the best sex of my life with some gorgeous women. "

Are they being fucked from behind by super hot men?

Point me in their direction please

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I'm going to ask my long term partner to video him doing me doggy.

You will see his beautiful body from the back and my legs and feet.

I'll post still pics from it on my profile to entice other really hot men to message me.

Don't know why I didn't think of that before.

I'll ask him to sign a waiver when though his face won't be visible.

Don't worry, I'll do it for you. What size dildo do you fancy or do you want me to fetch my double with me?

F"

How big is the double-ender?

Fun fact: My dog chewed up my double-ended dildo.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

I don’t know Nora honestly? no. I’d rather just see them that the page is about. It’s like opening an encyclopaedia to learn about a lion but looking at a photo of an elephant. "

Now that is a great analogy

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"Do single profiles put pics of other people on them?

Also does it turn anyone on? Does it put you off ? Do you like to see it?

I’m not interested in “people can do what they like with their profile” I know they can, I’m intrigued as to the why and if people like to see it.

Yes it puts us (and it seems most) off.

Some do it because they're actually part of a couple. Maybe others do it to try to give the impression they're more successful than they actually are? Not only are there many ex gf's on here who have no clue their pics are on here, there's many es£orts who got photographed for their next line. Then the profile has the fake veris from hidden profiles saying how much stamina they have and made her squirt 30 times . If it boosts their ego (while decreasing their chances of meets) that's fine, but people's pics on profiles and they have no clue makes us a little sad."

People also do it because they enjoy it and it makes them happy to show themselves off enjoying their life ... there doesn't have to be some sort of hidden agenda to posting pics of you and another having sex together.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

To be fair the two bulls fella is probably one of

The only ones who gave a reason why. Not that I don’t think you’re a bit of a wind up merchant mister.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

“Action” shots are a turn off so if that’s what you mean by other people then yes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do it, the men in my pics like that I do it, most men like to see it xx

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

There used to be a really sexy, hairy man on here who had photos of him with a really sexy woman.

They showed both of them doing some really hot sexy stuff.

Close up photos don't appeal so much.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


" "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm going to ask my long term partner to video him doing me doggy.

You will see his beautiful body from the back and my legs and feet.

I'll post still pics from it on my profile to entice other really hot men to message me.

Don't know why I didn't think of that before.

I'll ask him to sign a waiver when though his face won't be visible.

Don't worry, I'll do it for you. What size dildo do you fancy or do you want me to fetch my double with me?

F

How big is the double-ender?

Fun fact: My dog chewed up my double-ended dildo."

I'll send you a picture of me and my husband using it together. Might be some brown bits on it, just ignore that

F

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I'm going to ask my long term partner to video him doing me doggy.

You will see his beautiful body from the back and my legs and feet.

I'll post still pics from it on my profile to entice other really hot men to message me.

Don't know why I didn't think of that before.

I'll ask him to sign a waiver when though his face won't be visible.

Don't worry, I'll do it for you. What size dildo do you fancy or do you want me to fetch my double with me?

F

How big is the double-ender?

Fun fact: My dog chewed up my double-ended dildo.

I'll send you a picture of me and my husband using it together. Might be some brown bits on it, just ignore that

F"

Ok. I think I'll buy a new one though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be fair the two bulls fella is probably one of

The only ones who gave a reason why. Not that I don’t think you’re a bit of a wind up merchant mister. "

Of course, social proof is the answer. It screams value when applied correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'll send you a picture of me and my husband using it together. Might be some brown bits on it, just ignore that

F

Ok. I think I'll buy a new one though "

Good shout

F

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I do it, the men in my pics like that I do it, most men like to see it xx "

You have some lovely ones.

If I had photos of me having sex I'd never get a message.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"To be fair the two bulls fella is probably one of

The only ones who gave a reason why. Not that I don’t think you’re a bit of a wind up merchant mister. Of course, social proof is the answer. It screams value when applied correctly.

"

As to why you do it I meant. Not sure I believe it leaves you knee deep in minge though.

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By *uitednbooted2Man  over a year ago

Berkshire

I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are "
No the non swingers on a swinging site will judge you.

They're in the wrong place, you think the name of the website would of given them a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And then you get the same faces moaning about the single men being got at and yet there are *plenty* of men on this thread saying they’re not into it either.

Free

Choice

Differing

Opinions

These do not mean people are ‘looking down’ on them, or thinking they’re better than them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are No the non swingers on a swinging site will judge you.

They're in the wrong place, you think the name of the website would of given them a clue. "

I actually started a thread q couple of weeks ago about why non swingers would join a swinging site, it made interesting reading.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are No the non swingers on a swinging site will judge you.

They're in the wrong place, you think the name of the website would of given them a clue.

I actually started a thread q couple of weeks ago about why non swingers would join a swinging site, it made interesting reading."

It is like a mathematical equation that cannot be solved. Defies logic

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are No the non swingers on a swinging site will judge you.

They're in the wrong place, you think the name of the website would of given them a clue. "

That’s a bit unfair. I’m not a swinger but I’ve always found what I wanted here. You seem to like telling people they shouldn’t be here when they don’t conform to your ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are No the non swingers on a swinging site will judge you.

They're in the wrong place, you think the name of the website would of given them a clue.

That’s a bit unfair. I’m not a swinger but I’ve always found what I wanted here. You seem to like telling people they shouldn’t be here when they don’t conform to your ideas. "

Yup.

Censorship. Exclusion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And then you get the same faces moaning about the single men being got at and yet there are *plenty* of men on this thread saying they’re not into it either.

Free

Choice

Differing

Opinions

These do not mean people are ‘looking down’ on them, or thinking they’re better than them."

Oh no, apparently we don't have free choice of thought. We're just white knighting because we're desperate for a shag according to the man children who feel called out and insecure in their own choices and drag others down as a result

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Glad this is nearly over. It’s brought out the” I don’t give a fuck what people think” and the “why are you here” brigades! This wasn’t the intention.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"And then you get the same faces moaning about the single men being got at and yet there are *plenty* of men on this thread saying they’re not into it either.

Free

Choice

Differing

Opinions

These do not mean people are ‘looking down’ on them, or thinking they’re better than them.

Oh no, apparently we don't have free choice of thought. We're just white knighting because we're desperate for a shag according to the man children who feel called out and insecure in their own choices and drag others down as a result "

What would you know, with your arty monochrome pics Joey baby?

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By *edeWoman  over a year ago

the abyss


"I'm not too fussed about shots with others in but really not keen on the close ups. Feel like it's a sex ed - I know how it works

Teach me. FYI I’m a visual learner "

I prefer the hands on approach

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By *rincipessaWoman  over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

I don’t particularly like it. It spoils the view. It’s like when you’re looking at clothes online and the person is in a weird position, or wearing a coat over a dress or top. Spoils the line of what I’m trying to view

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are No the non swingers on a swinging site will judge you.

They're in the wrong place, you think the name of the website would of given them a clue.

I actually started a thread q couple of weeks ago about why non swingers would join a swinging site, it made interesting reading. It is like a mathematical equation that cannot be solved. Defies logic"

You should read it. There were many different explanations and reasoning why people joined here, and I have to say I totally understood them too. This site is many things to many different people.

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I don’t particularly like it. It spoils the view. It’s like when you’re looking at clothes online and the person is in a weird position, or wearing a coat over a dress or top. Spoils the line of what I’m trying to view "

Another great analogy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will tell you what is sad ! The usual faces on here who regularly post threads suggesting a certain profile type or content is in some way wrong. Surely we can be what we want on a swingers site without being judged or shamed. Posting arty farty monochrome photos thinking you are better than others is pathetic. As for the guys sat on the side lines white knighting and clapping there hands like seals thinking this is how they might get a shag is even worse. Nora I have to congratulate you on starting a thread that showed them for being the patronising, condescending people they are No the non swingers on a swinging site will judge you.

They're in the wrong place, you think the name of the website would of given them a clue.

That’s a bit unfair. I’m not a swinger but I’ve always found what I wanted here. You seem to like telling people they shouldn’t be here when they don’t conform to your ideas.

Yup.

Censorship. Exclusion."

Wake up call, smell the coffee.

Then they moan about swingers doing swinging things on the swinging forum.

It is unbelievable

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By *imi_RougeWoman  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Imagine a website that evolves and doesn't stay stuck in a rut, it becomes inclusive and let's people use it how they see fit!

Everything changes...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If everyone in the forums are so terrible, why are you still here, posting like your life depends on it then?

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