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"The connection.
That moment when you can feel how in tune you are with each other.
Watching their face react to the way your own lights up as they do that thing they know you like.
Very true but getting harder to find ??
Just, them  "
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When someone is as into it as I am. I’ve had sex with pillow princesses and, though I may fancy them, it’s not fantastic for me.
If my partner is turned on by me and shows it, I get excited and that elevates it to the next level. |
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"The connection.
That moment when you can feel how in tune you are with each other.
Watching their face react to the way your own lights up as they do that thing they know you like.
Just, them "
100% just this x |
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I’ll blame a bottle of Merlot for the honesty of this one.
It rests with me. If I’m feeling it and the air is right, they’re fit, hitting the right buttons (without doing that thing where they suddenly change tempo!!), I feel confident…
If everything hits right at the same time & I’m in confident mode & I can see he’s getting it too…..
Oh my god. The sheets are ruined and I am going to scream your name to the gods above…. |
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"The connection.
That moment when you can feel how in tune you are with each other.
Watching their face react to the way your own lights up as they do that thing they know you like.
Just, them "
^^^you need to stop posting all the things I want to say...
Actually keep it up, I'll just follow typing 'this' behind you 
But seriously, this is me. Totally.
I have sweet hot sizzling memories of catching eyes and just smiling hard right from the top of my head to the tips of my toes with sheer horny unadulterated joy in that moment.
It's the one thing I miss on a visceral level
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Have to echo what a few others have said already, it's not the what it the who and the level of connection you have with that person. The build and anticipation before the moment arrives where you're both just ready to burst with the excitement of it all.
Then of course it the small moments during sex, feeling fully in tune with each other, the eye contact and seeing that they are just as into as you are, passionate kissing all leading up to the ultimate climax and then just laying there still embracing each other, basking in the joy of moment and that feeling that nothing else at that point in time matters. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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Thought better of it …  "
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf!  |
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf! "
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see it. |
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"good sex into fantastic sex for you? It could be anything. Clothing, using any of the senses, emotions etc.
What really heightens it for you?"
The meeting of minds before you start the feel of each others bodies
Working together pleasuring each other total engrossed in each other and reaching a higher level sexual intencity and transcending the place your in to a higher plain . |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The connection.
That moment when you can feel how in tune you are with each other.
Watching their face react to the way your own lights up as they do that thing they know you like.
Just, them "
Oh this is wonderful.
There's a definite harmonisation with some people, isn't there? You just fit. Their breathing matches your, the intensity you have encourages and ignites both of you. I love kissing someone and feeling their body pressing against mine in the same tempo. Same want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf! "
  wise words |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf!
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see it. "
I was going to reply and quote but he deleted while I was blocking before replying |
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf!
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see it.
I was going to reply and quote but he deleted while I was blocking before replying "
I too was midway through a reply when he bottled it.
Words fail me sometimes. |
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf!
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see it.
I was going to reply and quote but he deleted while I was blocking before replying
I too was midway through a reply when he bottled it.
Words fail me sometimes. "
Same, I don’t generally bother who’s using this site but seeing that is making me wish we had better control of who does. Been here years and never felt like that before |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf!
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see it.
I was going to reply and quote but he deleted while I was blocking before replying
I too was midway through a reply when he bottled it.
Words fail me sometimes. "
*poorly judged dark joke klaxon*
On the plus side I deleted it myself before anyone else said owt so I guess that makes me only 99% Fabs most evil. But carry on .. |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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Unpopular comment alert, but here goes. Someone that can actually deliver, not just talk about it. Someone modest and unassuming enough not to believe in their own prowess, but blows my mind without trying. Synchronicity (love that word) and the ability to know what i want before i want it  |
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf!
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see it.
I was going to reply and quote but he deleted while I was blocking before replying
I too was midway through a reply when he bottled it.
Words fail me sometimes.
*poorly judged dark joke klaxon*
On the plus side I deleted it myself before anyone else said owt so I guess that makes me only 99% Fabs most evil. But carry on .. "
I wouldn't even call it a joke. Its just down right wrong to even think about it, let alone typing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf!
I'm glad I wasn't the only one to see it.
I was going to reply and quote but he deleted while I was blocking before replying
I too was midway through a reply when he bottled it.
Words fail me sometimes.
*poorly judged dark joke klaxon*
On the plus side I deleted it myself before anyone else said owt so I guess that makes me only 99% Fabs most evil. But carry on ..
I wouldn't even call it a joke. Its just down right wrong to even think about it, let alone typing. "
Keep going … |
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The build up before; the glance for just half a second longer, the occasional touch which seems relatively innocent in public but is like an electric shock through your senses, the smile that says you’re both going to really enjoy it.
When it’s happening I think it’s about feeling secure. Knowing that the other person really wants you, desires you and you feel the same about them. Whatever body hang ups you have just fade to nothing.
Knowing that you can push and explore and it will be encouraged, not judged harshly. That thing that you’ve had in your mind to try for ages? It’s ok to try it now.
Also feeling that if something goes wrong, you can both just laugh about it to diffuse any tension and there’s no need to be embarrassed. It’s safe to fuck up and you can do something else and enjoy it.
It’s a place where you can be vulnerable and expose your emotions, and the person you’re with is happy to enjoy them with you. There’s no space to think about work, when the MoT is up on the car or any of the tedious shit that we carry around with us, it’s just pleasure for you and someone you care about. |
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"That moment when you can feel how in tune you are with each other."
"There's a definite harmonisation with some people, isn't there? You just fit."
"Synchronicity (love that word)"
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I was looking for the word. That’s the word. Synchronicity.
Because even the right partner isn’t enough. You need the right moment too. You need to be in the same headspace at the same time. And as much as we might all want that, and try for it, it’s rare.
When you get it, when everything clicks, when you stop being two people and become one fluid, perfect, fuck … oh my days. That’s when you end up sweating and spent, wrapped up in each other giggling and wondering how the hell so many hours have passed. |
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"That moment when you can feel how in tune you are with each other.There's a definite harmonisation with some people, isn't there? You just fit.Synchronicity (love that word)
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I was looking for the word. That’s the word. Synchronicity.
Because even the right partner isn’t enough. You need the right moment too. You need to be in the same headspace at the same time. And as much as we might all want that, and try for it, it’s rare.
When you get it, when everything clicks, when you stop being two people and become one fluid, perfect, fuck … oh my days. That’s when you end up sweating and spent, wrapped up in each other giggling and wondering how the hell so many hours have passed."
Reading this makes me sad.
It's perfection.
Too soon. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Connection, I find having a laugh during sex, turns it in to incredible sex,  "
Yes! It helps you relax, gives you a bit more of a connection. I laugh frequently and easily, it's such a charming thing in another. |
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"Connection, I find having a laugh during sex, turns it in to incredible sex,
Yes! It helps you relax, gives you a bit more of a connection. I laugh frequently and easily, it's such a charming thing in another. "
I find inappropriate things being said such a turn on |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Eye contact.....and more specifically what their eyes tell you  "
Eye contact is so very hot. Taking someone in my mouth and maintaining eye contact? It always gets people that little bit more aroused.
I think you can easily lose yourself in someone's gaze. And find a likeminded soul. |
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"Eye contact is so very hot. Taking someone in my mouth and maintaining eye contact? It always gets people that little bit more aroused.
I think you can easily lose yourself in someone's gaze. And find a likeminded soul."
You really can, to the point you know exactly what they are thinking....connection is everything for me |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"As cliched as it sounds, it’s got to be connection.
Someone that can read mind through my body and anticipate where and when I want their hands/mouth on me. "
A tad clichéd; it's clichéd for a reason though. Not having to say what you want, being able to seamlessly blend with another? Yes. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Humour. I like fun in the bedroom. I like them rotating their cock for fun before they leap into bed and blow raspberries on my boobs. Going down on me they give a little David Bellamy impression as they forage through my bush. They let me use their cock as a microphone so I can do blowjob karaoke. And of course, cuddles, kisses, passion. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When someone is as into it as I am. I’ve had sex with pillow princesses and, though I may fancy them, it’s not fantastic for me.
If my partner is turned on by me and shows it, I get excited and that elevates it to the next level."
Oh pillow princesses, you beautiful yet dull things you are. Sometimes it works for me - I like pleasing another person but don't want that focus on me. It's never great - you can lie back and also give something back.
I think that desire feedback loop is such an intoxicating rush - seeing someone so aroused by you is really fucking hot. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ll blame a bottle of Merlot for the honesty of this one.
It rests with me. If I’m feeling it and the air is right, they’re fit, hitting the right buttons (without doing that thing where they suddenly change tempo!!), I feel confident…
If everything hits right at the same time & I’m in confident mode & I can see he’s getting it too…..
Oh my god. The sheets are ruined and I am going to scream your name to the gods above…."
I quite like merlot'd Misty, no need to apologise.
"It rests with me" is such a lovely, delicate turn of phrase.
"They're fit" -  Yep, finding someone else fit is important. |
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"I’ll blame a bottle of Merlot for the honesty of this one.
It rests with me. If I’m feeling it and the air is right, they’re fit, hitting the right buttons (without doing that thing where they suddenly change tempo!!), I feel confident…
If everything hits right at the same time & I’m in confident mode & I can see he’s getting it too…..
Oh my god. The sheets are ruined and I am going to scream your name to the gods above….
I quite like merlot'd Misty, no need to apologise.
"It rests with me" is such a lovely, delicate turn of phrase.
"They're fit" - Yep, finding someone else fit is important. "
I’ve been reflecting “a lot” lately. And it does rest with me. The moment, the best, the pinnacle … whatever you want to call it. If I let go. That is the moment that it happens.
I do have some musings on being a satisfying pillow princess too, but I shall leave that for another Merlot night. That one is enlighteningly hot |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 19/03/23 20:23:13]
Thought better of it …
I saw what you put and that’s not funny, not welcome and made me preemptively block, which I highly recommend others do too seeing as that’s where your thought process went to
Wtf! "
Dang I missed it. I’m sure I’ll find out what it was though one way or another |
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"I’ll blame a bottle of Merlot for the honesty of this one.
It rests with me. If I’m feeling it and the air is right, they’re fit, hitting the right buttons (without doing that thing where they suddenly change tempo!!), I feel confident…
If everything hits right at the same time & I’m in confident mode & I can see he’s getting it too…..
Oh my god. The sheets are ruined and I am going to scream your name to the gods above….
I quite like merlot'd Misty, no need to apologise.
"It rests with me" is such a lovely, delicate turn of phrase.
"They're fit" - Yep, finding someone else fit is important.
I’ve been reflecting “a lot” lately. And it does rest with me. The moment, the best, the pinnacle … whatever you want to call it. If I let go. That is the moment that it happens.
I do have some musings on being a satisfying pillow princess too, but I shall leave that for another Merlot night. That one is enlighteningly hot "
Merlot'd Misty's musings is a lovely tongue twister for a Sunday evening   |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Have to echo what a few others have said already, it's not the what it the who and the level of connection you have with that person. The build and anticipation before the moment arrives where you're both just ready to burst with the excitement of it all.
Then of course it the small moments during sex, feeling fully in tune with each other, the eye contact and seeing that they are just as into as you are, passionate kissing all leading up to the ultimate climax and then just laying there still embracing each other, basking in the joy of moment and that feeling that nothing else at that point in time matters."
Recently you've been writing some fantastic posts, it's good to see you back Mister.  |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The bit when you are faking it til you make it, and you finally make it.
Also when they are not a total ass-butt. "
Ass-butt.
Yeah, that always helps to elevate things I guess. A bit of one but not a total ass-butt is the ideal. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Apparently, when Daddy says he wants to breed your fertile cunt "
Oh, I could see why that would heighten things. Easily. Especially if someone was fucking me and could feel me come around their cock as they said it. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Apparently, when Daddy says he wants to breed your fertile cunt
Oh, I could see why that would heighten things. Easily. Especially if someone was fucking me and could feel me come around their cock as they said it. "
Come ? Nah that wouldn’t do at all I’m afraid….. it would have to be squirt or pee |
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"The build up before; the glance for just half a second longer, the occasional touch which seems relatively innocent in public but is like an electric shock through your senses, the smile that says you’re both going to really enjoy it.
When it’s happening I think it’s about feeling secure. Knowing that the other person really wants you, desires you and you feel the same about them. Whatever body hang ups you have just fade to nothing.
Knowing that you can push and explore and it will be encouraged, not judged harshly. That thing that you’ve had in your mind to try for ages? It’s ok to try it now.
Also feeling that if something goes wrong, you can both just laugh about it to diffuse any tension and there’s no need to be embarrassed. It’s safe to fuck up and you can do something else and enjoy it.
It’s a place where you can be vulnerable and expose your emotions, and the person you’re with is happy to enjoy them with you. There’s no space to think about work, when the MoT is up on the car or any of the tedious shit that we carry around with us, it’s just pleasure for you and someone you care about."
Just this |
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A person you have an amazing connection in an environment that totally blows you away, be that gothic style hotel room, hands tied with his belt in the open doorway in the moonlight with direct eye contact... hot frantic hard fast sex, naked riding him in the car.... or sucking his cock surrounded by a hundred like minded people dressed in fabulous fetish outfits before he flips you round to fuck you whilst watching the filled to the brim couples sex room in a fabulous london night club.... all fantastic in totally different ways 
And most importantly someone you can reminisce, laugh, and relive the moments with x |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Apparently, when Daddy says he wants to breed your fertile cunt
Oh, I could see why that would heighten things. Easily. Especially if someone was fucking me and could feel me come around their cock as they said it.
Come ? Nah that wouldn’t do at all I’m afraid….. it would have to be squirt or pee"
The trifecta - breeding, pee and squirting. Might need a Boost after all of that though.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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When you’ve been going all night, your bodies sore when the suns coming up and you’re falling in and out of sleep , but still trying to play , every time you spoon you begin getting hard again, you just cannot get enough of each other and dint want the night to end |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Apparently, when Daddy says he wants to breed your fertile cunt
Oh, I could see why that would heighten things. Easily. Especially if someone was fucking me and could feel me come around their cock as they said it.
Come ? Nah that wouldn’t do at all I’m afraid….. it would have to be squirt or pee
The trifecta - breeding, pee and squirting.
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Is this the mythical ‘cream pie’ I’m always reading about on here ? Sounds more like a ruined Lemon meringue. |
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"good sex into fantastic sex for you? It could be anything. Clothing, using any of the senses, emotions etc.
What really heightens it for you?"
When we’re playing with (or in front of) others. The sight of what we’re doing and who’s around is sensational |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A person you have an amazing connection in an environment that totally blows you away, be that gothic style hotel room, hands tied with his belt in the open doorway in the moonlight with direct eye contact... hot frantic hard fast sex, naked riding him in the car.... or sucking his cock surrounded by a hundred like minded people dressed in fabulous fetish outfits before he flips you round to fuck you whilst watching the filled to the brim couples sex room in a fabulous london night club.... all fantastic in totally different ways
And most importantly someone you can reminisce, laugh, and relive the moments with x "
This is so... hot. You can read how much you cherish that connection. The shared experiences that are elevated because you're with him. I hope there are many more happy moments to come, x |
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By *eli OP Woman
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"When you’ve been going all night, your bodies sore when the suns coming up and you’re falling in and out of sleep , but still trying to play , every time you spoon you begin getting hard again, you just cannot get enough of each other and dint want the night to end "
Yes, that shared insatiable desire (it's more than lust) for another. Long summer nights of drifting in and out of sleep and constantly touching? Dreamy.
Sore bodies are one of the most satisfying things aren't they? It's like you're well and truly spent. But blissful. |
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"A person you have an amazing connection in an environment that totally blows you away, be that gothic style hotel room, hands tied with his belt in the open doorway in the moonlight with direct eye contact... hot frantic hard fast sex, naked riding him in the car.... or sucking his cock surrounded by a hundred like minded people dressed in fabulous fetish outfits before he flips you round to fuck you whilst watching the filled to the brim couples sex room in a fabulous london night club.... all fantastic in totally different ways
And most importantly someone you can reminisce, laugh, and relive the moments with x
This is so... hot. You can read how much you cherish that connection. The shared experiences that are elevated because you're with him. I hope there are many more happy moments to come, x "
Thank you.... im very very lucky, we've had some amazing experiences and we intend on making many more fabulous memories xx |
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"Have to echo what a few others have said already, it's not the what it the who and the level of connection you have with that person. The build and anticipation before the moment arrives where you're both just ready to burst with the excitement of it all.
Then of course it the small moments during sex, feeling fully in tune with each other, the eye contact and seeing that they are just as into as you are, passionate kissing all leading up to the ultimate climax and then just laying there still embracing each other, basking in the joy of moment and that feeling that nothing else at that point in time matters.
Recently you've been writing some fantastic posts, it's good to see you back Mister. "
Thanks Meli , I've had some excellent inspiration lately. |
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