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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.
Would like to hear your thoughts for and against. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me. Find it degrading personally. If I was halfway through a bonk and got a slap in the face he’d be getting a harder one back and my foot up his arse on the way out the door  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she's into it I would but LIGHTLY.
I can have rough sex and chke a little but slapping is abit too much in my opinion. I don't want physical injury signs during even the most heated fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With the right partner, in the right place all that stuff ...I've done it. And enjoy doing it. Is it essential for me no.
Active enthusiastic consent is required from who your playing with, communication... checking hard limits... having safe words in place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like most things when it comes to rough sex there are ways to be degrading and ways to make the nerves sing.
Different strokes for different folks.
I love the zing of a little pain in lots of different ways but I would never enjoy or ask for or accept humiliation play. Instant buzz kill.
It also requires a huge degree of trust so not really likely or common to find here on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With the right partner, in the right place all that stuff ...I've done it. And enjoy doing it. Is it essential for me no.
Active enthusiastic consent is required from who your playing with, communication... checking hard limits... having safe words in place. "
Ah! Hello Mr Grey! I’d forgotten all about the bdsm stuff when I watched it. Still not sure - in the face just doesn’t compute with me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.  "
If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With the right partner, in the right place all that stuff ...I've done it. And enjoy doing it. Is it essential for me no.
Active enthusiastic consent is required from who your playing with, communication... checking hard limits... having safe words in place.
Ah! Hello Mr Grey! I’d forgotten all about the bdsm stuff when I watched it. Still not sure - in the face just doesn’t compute with me! "
Haha...god I hate that film
Totally appreciate its not for everyone and why it would would be a hard limit for some people.
But have to say it can be a lot of fun...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.
If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t? "
No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.
If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t?
No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all."
Aside from the consent thing, this is key...if who your playing with someone doesn't enjoy it as well...there's no point...for me at least. |
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"Nope!!
I would turn into She hulk!!
Now that’s a different thread! - The guys love She Hulk!  I’m a fan of Jen myself! "
You guys are into some kinky stuff!!  I'd happily do Jen all day long. But She hulk isn't my type at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.
If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t?
No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all."
i like to slap tits |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can slap my face and my pussy but only if I really really really like you. I don't know why I enjoy it but in the right moment it's divine.
If I ever had that chance, I don’t think I could bring myself to do it! - Would it disappoint you if someone didn’t?
No, it wouldn't disappoint me at all. I can respect that it isn't for everyone, and if you weren't into it then it wouldn't be enjoyable for me either. It's not an essential part of sex for me, so it wouldn't be an issue at all."
If it was a deal breaker, I’d put my boxing gloves on! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely needs to be after consent is asked for and given.
Jeez, who just up & slaps anyone "
Slapping is one thing! - Without consent? - Who the hell does that!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone just slapped me out the blue without discussing it first I’d get up and leave. That being said if it’s with someone i know and trust then I like a little slap. Maybe it’s the shock of it combined with the sensation that it leaves on your skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a girlfriend a few years ago, she was a lot younger than me. She liked me to slap her arse, which I did, and also her tits, which I did once.
To be honest playful slaps on the arse are OK, but anything more or anywhere else is not for me. |
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I mean I love my bottom slapped and my pussy slapped.. a firm hand around my neck or my jaw being gripped, hair grabbed.. pinned and forced by someone.. I’ve even had my boobs slapped while riding which was very hot! But if someone slapped me round the face I would cry, I would sob my heart out!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also a big difference in the force used.
I little pat or tap as opposed to a hard slap is a totally different mood.
Different weight of hand for different parts of the body. |
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I had a guy slap my face during sex once. Was totally unexpected.
I headbutted him and broke his nose. It was an automatic reaction.
Also had a guy ask me to slap him hard during sex. Then complain when I complied and have him a sharp slap. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I had a guy slap my face during sex once. Was totally unexpected.
I headbutted him and broke his nose. It was an automatic reaction.
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And this, best beloved, is why you don't just slap someone unexpectedly!
I love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol
Oh...  "
I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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My long term partner does it occasionally, and I love it.
I don't think I'd enjoy it with anyone else though.
There has to be the right kind of emotional connection for me to enjoy anything like that.
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"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol
Oh...
I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play "
With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes. |
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"My long term partner does it occasionally, and I love it.
I don't think I'd enjoy it with anyone else though.
There has to be the right kind of emotional connection for me to enjoy anything like that.
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Yup...with the right partner there is no limits really. Even the dirtiest thing feel absolutely normal. |
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love my arse getting slapped
hate my face getting slapped
not so keep on the tits getting slapped although now and again, gently, can be nice
don't mind the pussy getting slapped in the throes of passion but it has to be timed well, only when Im fully aroused or I might slap back hahaha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol
Oh...
I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play
With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes. "
Whilst there is a lot of that I agree with...it's not mistake I wish to make so...checks in advance for me |
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"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol
Oh...
I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play
With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes.
Whilst there is a lot of that I agree with...it's not mistake I wish to make so...checks in advance for me "
Well...if you not sure,it's not the right partner for you coz you do know their likes and needs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would need words.
Clear consent given/received.
If you find words too difficult I'd be declining any and everything.
Anything less than that is far too risky as it is open to a person seeing things they want to see that aren't there or sex-brain confusing and leading to limits not being voiced or respected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a bit of humiliation and degradation...and that is the reason I need connection and all that.its hot as feck when you look at each other and you just almost growl...animal attraction is real like.it happens automatically really... you don't plan oh I gonna slap the fecker. Lol
Oh...
I would necessarily plan to slap...but I'd have checked before wether it was a hard limit and they consented to that kind of play
With the right partner you just feel these things...its just there...in their eyes.
Whilst there is a lot of that I agree with...it's not mistake I wish to make so...checks in advance for me
Well...if you not sure,it's not the right partner for you coz you do know their likes and needs
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I don't agree. Communication, talking to each other about turns ons, turn offs ...hard limits...safe words is part of establishing if they are the right partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wait with bated breath for the first man to slap Dora.
She’s a Krav Magaa instructor so it’s gonna be interesting. "
Can I watch a class
Girl crush incuming  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would need words.
Clear consent given/received.
If you find words too difficult I'd be declining any and everything.
Anything less than that is far too risky as it is open to a person seeing things they want to see that aren't there or sex-brain confusing and leading to limits not being voiced or respected."
Totally agree |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.
While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested. |
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By *ooleyMan
over a year ago
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I'm not a violent guy - not been in a scrap since high school, I hate violence and violent people - BUT an ex-lover of mine was certainly into it. We had a chat before we ended up in bed about what I liked, what she liked and she made a reference to choking (without actually saying it - she was a bot embarrassed, I think)
But I figured out what she meant and that started us experimenting and playing. We were amazingly open and passionate lovers and the choking play started to involve slapping as well. Like I said, I'm not a violent man - never hit a woman in my life - so it was really a step out of the comfort zone to do it. She preferred to to be on top when she wanted it. I was a bit soft to start with, apparently and she instructed me to hit harder. Never too hard, but that stinging slap was what she was waiting for. I think it was also the surprise she liked. Unexpected surprise used to drive her wild.
She was a larger girl too, and also loved her big tits slapped too. A sideways strike, clipping her nipple used to drive her wild.
Ah, memories....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not for me. Find it degrading personally. If I was halfway through a bonk and got a slap in the face he’d be getting a harder one back and my foot up his arse on the way out the door "
Love it when you talk dirty !  |
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"It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.
While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested."
My very first fab meet 6 years ago didn't understand the words boundaries, consent or communication.
Despite having 2 social meets prior to getting to the hotel room she hadn't even hinted at what she was into.
Out of the blue she punched me(not slapped) full on in the face and drove her knee into my balls.
When I asked WTF? she replied that she wanted me to retaliate in similar fashion.
I told her she was crazy and if she had suggested it beforehand we never would have met again.
I left her in the room I had paid for and left the site a couple of days later thinking it was all going to be like that.
I wasn't in any physical danger but the consequences could have been very real if the roles were reversed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.
While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested.
My very first fab meet 6 years ago didn't understand the words boundaries, consent or communication.
Despite having 2 social meets prior to getting to the hotel room she hadn't even hinted at what she was into.
Out of the blue she punched me(not slapped) full on in the face and drove her knee into my balls.
When I asked WTF? she replied that she wanted me to retaliate in similar fashion.
I told her she was crazy and if she had suggested it beforehand we never would have met again.
I left her in the room I had paid for and left the site a couple of days later thinking it was all going to be like that.
I wasn't in any physical danger but the consequences could have been very real if the roles were reversed. "
That’s bloody scary and you’re right, if the roles were reversed, there would have been absolute uproar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all down to boundaries and consent. Some people enjoy this when done with a trusted partner.
While I enjoy rough sex and can do arse slapping (with a lovely palm print) pussy slap, pinning and even some choking, facial slap is a step too far for me. Wouldn't do it even if requested.
My very first fab meet 6 years ago didn't understand the words boundaries, consent or communication.
Despite having 2 social meets prior to getting to the hotel room she hadn't even hinted at what she was into.
Out of the blue she punched me(not slapped) full on in the face and drove her knee into my balls.
When I asked WTF? she replied that she wanted me to retaliate in similar fashion.
I told her she was crazy and if she had suggested it beforehand we never would have met again.
I left her in the room I had paid for and left the site a couple of days later thinking it was all going to be like that.
I wasn't in any physical danger but the consequences could have been very real if the roles were reversed. "
I mean that's outrageous. I can't get my head round why you'd not discuss if that's what you were into beforehand... clearly she had plenty opportunities |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Doing it is not something that will bring the sex to a whole new level. It doesn't excite me on its own.
However it is not a limit or boundary for me, so if my partner enjoys it, I gain my own pleasure from theirs. Don't get me wrong I do have my own limits and boundaries on what I will do for myself and for others.
A large part of my own pleasure is giving my sexual partner what they find pleasurable. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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Modern kink is about consent and prior discussion. The edgier the play the sooner issues should be brought up and discussed.
My own view is that face play is different to impact elsewhere. The face is about dominance rather than sensation. You hold someones face it established control and it csn be done gently and dominantly. It is the same when you put rope on someone's face or neck, it is about control, applied within agreed limits. There are safe ways of how to apply dominance and sensation. Copying porn is not it. |
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I always find these threads fascinating. Breath play which is inherently more dangerous than a slap to the face is often perceived better. I'd hit them back etc etc if they tried it on me. Yet we don't feel the need to express that if we asked do you like sex. Human beings are strange indeed.
But I digress, a slap to the face can feel amazing with prior consent. The sting the sudden bringing around from the bliss of orgasm so you can last that bit longer. For me it's not about degradation as implied by some it's just a different sensation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always find these threads fascinating. Breath play which is inherently more dangerous than a slap to the face is often perceived better. I'd hit them back etc etc if they tried it on me. Yet we don't feel the need to express that if we asked do you like sex. Human beings are strange indeed.
But I digress, a slap to the face can feel amazing with prior consent. The sting the sudden bringing around from the bliss of orgasm so you can last that bit longer. For me it's not about degradation as implied by some it's just a different sensation. "
Agreed. For me slapping is nothing about degradation. But accept for some it can be. |
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"I always find these threads fascinating. Breath play which is inherently more dangerous than a slap to the face is often perceived better. I'd hit them back etc etc if they tried it on me. Yet we don't feel the need to express that if we asked do you like sex. Human beings are strange indeed.
But I digress, a slap to the face can feel amazing with prior consent. The sting the sudden bringing around from the bliss of orgasm so you can last that bit longer. For me it's not about degradation as implied by some it's just a different sensation. "
I agree, I do not like the feeling of being degraded. To me a slap on the face in the heat of passion definitely adds alot of sensations, I'm a little bit of a masochist though  and I definitely like not to breathe in the moment |
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"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.
Would like to hear your thoughts for and against. "
My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slapping my face ,boobs etc is a definite no . Anything that inflicts pain is a no .
A playful slap to my ass in the throws of passion is fine .
However, despite that I discovered a few years ago that I love having a nice hard cock, slap against my c**t. One of those things I feel I shouldn't like but really do !
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"My long term partner does it occasionally, and I love it.
I don't think I'd enjoy it with anyone else though.
There has to be the right kind of emotional connection for me to enjoy anything like that.
Yup...with the right partner there is no limits really. Even the dirtiest thing feel absolutely normal."
Agree, once that connection is there things can be experimented with and that look as well..... |
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"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.
Would like to hear your thoughts for and against.
My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.
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That's a bit much, just because a man may slap me as he knows I get great sexually gratification from it does not make him pondlife. There are kinks you clearly do not understand so it is unfair to judge & name call.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.
With consent and communication, fucking love it |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.
Would like to hear your thoughts for and against.
My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.
That's a bit much, just because a man may slap me as he knows I get great sexually gratification from it does not make him pondlife. There are kinks you clearly do not understand so it is unfair to judge & name call.
Sending hugs to you "
Indeed. I've done it to a woman, with both her suggestion and full consent. I got sexual gratification from doing it, not from the slap itself nor the pain it caused but from giving her pleasure from an act she wants and enjoys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.
With consent and communication, fucking love it "
Consent is sexy and you’re a bit of alright |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush
We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush
We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways "
You have just given me an idea... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.
With consent and communication, fucking love it "
100% agree. Also make sure as much consent as possible is agreed upon most definitely prior to the fun, because as important as consent is and both having it and being asked for it is a turn on in its own way... Having to stop in the deepest primal part of a moment to ask for consent can seriously fuck up the flow of things 
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With a trusted companion I love it. But they need to know what they are doing as it’s not an Eastenders style dramatic slap more of a firm tap.
Throat grabbing the same, love it but got to know the right firmness!
Cock slaps I like as well.
Jeez I’m awful….. what would my parents think! |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch "
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With a trusted companion I love it. But they need to know what they are doing as it’s not an Eastenders style dramatic slap more of a firm tap.
Throat grabbing the same, love it but got to know the right firmness!
Cock slaps I like as well.
Jeez I’m awful….. what would my parents think! "
At least you are having fun |
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"With a trusted companion I love it. But they need to know what they are doing as it’s not an Eastenders style dramatic slap more of a firm tap.
Throat grabbing the same, love it but got to know the right firmness!
Cock slaps I like as well.
Jeez I’m awful….. what would my parents think!
At least you are having fun "
Very much so |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush
We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways You have just given me an idea..."
Ha, tell me more? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush
We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways You have just given me an idea...
Ha, tell me more?"
I put up a thread asking people whether we are indeed all the same but like being played differently.
I genuinely do not know - but I am really curious to find out what people think. You inspired me to think about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore "
Now that is odd xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of the blue without prior consent absolutely not. Consent is everything. I don't appreciate even a light spanking without discussion and the guy will get told as well.
With consent and communication, fucking love it
100% agree. Also make sure as much consent as possible is agreed upon most definitely prior to the fun, because as important as consent is and both having it and being asked for it is a turn on in its own way... Having to stop in the deepest primal part of a moment to ask for consent can seriously fuck up the flow of things
(moment killer or not I'd still ask though!) "
This is why I LOVE talking about sex and kinks so much can curate something quite magical |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore "
Oh god...I just can't comprehend anyone doing that without some discussion beforehand.
I know it's not universal...but one of the things I do like about the kink community is usually things about consent and talking in advance about planning scenes and hard limits ... aftercare if appropriate is expected. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"If she's into it I would but LIGHTLY.
I can have rough sex and chke a little but slapping is abit too much in my opinion. I don't want physical injury signs during even the most heated fuck"
The ones on here Into don’t like it lightly though and they love the marks left so if your gonna play , it’s RACK not SSC. And face slapping is really at the mild end of impact play,
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx"
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm |
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"My thoughts? It's abuse. Nothing less than that. Any man (I use that word loosely in this context) who gets enjoyment from inflicting pain on a woman is lower than pondlife.
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So how would you classify the ladies who crave receiving those sensations?
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"Have a ready prepared waiver at hand before any contact.
Witnesses and copies sent to all parties involved and a solicitor standing by just in case.
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You ever heard the song Where the Rubber Meets the Road by Meatloaf? |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore "
Omg that is horrendous! What absolute disgusting thing to do. I’m so sorry that happened to you x |
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"I personally like hands on throats, giving and receiving, face slapping both ways, i really like to receive, when the bloods up the endorphins rush
We are all the same instrument but we all like being played in different ways You have just given me an idea..."
Ive just looked at your profile, I’d love to play a melody on those curves |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm "
Well my response was "What the fuck are you doing you prick?" He did immediately apologise, admitting he got carried away. It bloody hurt I had a lump on my head! The pleasure was no more! |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm "
Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.
Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like to slap a few people. ….
I spoke about this to someone, but if I continue to talk about it here and air my thoughts aboit this thing that can happen during sex, I’m sure a ban would follow. |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.
Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming "
No , its the first ive heard the phrase, not my sort of gig |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm
Well my response was "What the fuck are you doing you prick?" He did immediately apologise, admitting he got carried away. It bloody hurt I had a lump on my head! The pleasure was no more!"
I would have kicked him as hard as I could between the legs see how he liked it. No wonder it wasn’t. Poor you. I hope you have had lots more much nicer experiences and that idiot hasn’t ruined them for you |
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By *_DirectorMan
over a year ago
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Everyone is different and what’s for some won’t be for others … I have received and dished it out but it’s all part of the difference experience and with connections and reassurances.
S & M is truly alive and well |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.
Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming
No , its the first ive heard the phrase, not my sort of gig"
The Mmm had me thinking otherwise |
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"Each to their own I guess! However, watching a woman getting slapped (in the face) while being fucked didn’t appeal to me at all, however playful the slap was! Maybe I’m just brought up differently.
Would like to hear your thoughts for and against. "
In the face? No. Alice once asked me to and I said no. Bum is fine, but not face.
However, if it's me being slapped, go for it! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Everyone is different and what’s for some won’t be for others … I have received and dished it out but it’s all part of the difference experience and with connections and reassurances.
S & M is truly alive and well "
What is discussed here though is like surprise attacks rather than S&M!
Spontaneity worries me in BDSM . It’s normally a big red flag of inexperience, switches and brats in my case!
Someone was riding me once and right in the moment I literally saw stars and had that feeling when your dazed and confused it takes a few moments to register you’ve been punched really hard in the face.
No discussion beforehand, apparently she just became super frustrated and it popped into her head and then switched. |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm
Well my response was "What the fuck are you doing you prick?" He did immediately apologise, admitting he got carried away. It bloody hurt I had a lump on my head! The pleasure was no more!
I would have kicked him as hard as I could between the legs see how he liked it. No wonder it wasn’t. Poor you. I hope you have had lots more much nicer experiences and that idiot hasn’t ruined them for you "
Thank you, I'm just a little more cautious who I allow myself to these days xx |
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It depends on the context, if hound is treating me rough, then I like a slap in the face, well anywhere really.. and I love it when he slaps me round the face with his hard cock
If someone I didnt know slapped me in the face I wouldn't be impressed |
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"It’s reminds me of the film donkey punch
Oh gosh, this is where consent and boundaries are a must to discuss. I had an old friend round and we got a little naughty and he knew I "liked it rough" so to speak, however I was more than shocked, stunned, speechless when all of a sudden whilst he was giving his all from behind he punched me in the back of the head!! It certainly ended right there & it has made me very cautious, hence I do not bother with random meets etc anymore
Now that is odd xx
Ive just googled donkey punch, a sexual technique,whilst fucking doggy the fucker punches the fuckee at the back if the head, this supposed to cause the sphincter to tighten and give extra pleasure
Mmm Have you actually seen the film? It ended really badly.
Why anyone would want to punch anyone like that it’s behind belief! That’s very alarming
No , its the first ive heard the phrase, not my sort of gig
The Mmm had me thinking otherwise "
No, the mmm was one of unease |
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