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over a year ago
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Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? |
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over a year ago
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"Definitely not weird. That's the normal way I have found. I don't like kissing as part of sex but I am a weirdo for sure  "
I enjoy a bit of kissing during sex too.. especially if it’s a tasting each other kinda thing…lol |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way?"
No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss. "
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. |
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"No you’re not weird at all. Kissing is really important for me. I need it to be good or it can turn me off pretty quickly. "
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Yeah, had a pretty similar convo with someone this week. Bad kissing can be a real turn off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. "
Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange. "
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. "
Thankfully, I’ve not met anyone who doesn’t want to kiss… I don’t think I could go through with the meet if I did! |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others.
Thankfully, I’ve not met anyone who doesn’t want to kiss… I don’t think I could go through with the meet if I did!"
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange.
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened "
 and go put a bag on your head for her. |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange.
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her. "
I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others.
Thankfully, I’ve not met anyone who doesn’t want to kiss… I don’t think I could go through with the meet if I did!"
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange.
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her.
I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. "
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange.
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her.
I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava "
I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag.
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By *tar80sWoman
over a year ago
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I don't like to kiss men who I know its going to be a one night hit or in club/party events etc.
And since I stopped smoking I really have a difficult time with both and vapers to.
So theres quite a few reasons!!
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"If a social is going well, it's not weird for it to include the kiss test to see if we should take it further"
Definitely. If I feel that I want to take it further after a social I'll sometimes ask for a kiss, or sometimes you just know its OK to go in for the kill! |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange.
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her.
I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava
I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag.
Every little helps. "
Other stores are available
Are you looking for a Tesco sponsorship? You can't beat their neal deals to be fair |
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"I don't like to kiss men who I know its going to be a one night hit or in club/party events etc.
And since I stopped smoking I really have a difficult time with both and vapers to.
So theres quite a few reasons!!
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So only for men with the potential of something significant with them, then you will kiss them? |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange.
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her.
I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava
I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag.
Every little helps. Other stores are available
Are you looking for a Tesco sponsorship? You can't beat their neal deals to be fair"
If I get free watermelon why the hell not ? |
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way? No, sex can be a very cold act without kissing, only tends to be couples who don't want to kiss.
Mostly mechanical without kissing.
And yes, the idea of reserving kissing to themselves is for self preservation of their couple I think. I guess they want to keep something they do not share with others. Yes it's understandable and probably been made clear before the meet.
If I met a single woman and she didn't want to, now that would be strange.
I’d check the state of my mouth if that happened and go put a bag on your head for her.
I always carry one with me in case this scenario presents itself. I have a nice silk Balaclava
I don’t have enough money to buy one so I use a Tesco plastic bag.
Every little helps. Other stores are available
Are you looking for a Tesco sponsorship? You can't beat their neal deals to be fair
If I get free watermelon why the hell not ? "
Makes you virile too does watermelon, not daft you. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes.
But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more.
When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there. |
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes.
But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more.
When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there."
Meli, you probably write erotic novels don't you? In fact, maybe you really are Kathy Acker  |
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over a year ago
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes.
But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more.
When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there.
Meli, you probably write erotic novels don't you? In fact, maybe you really are Kathy Acker "
This compliment? Yep, it means a lot. Adore Kathy Acker - her writing was transformative, inspirational to me as a doe eyed teenager devouring text late at night.
So, thank you. |
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It's essential for me. I feel like kissing is where you both really connect with each other. I absolutely adore kissing, especially deep kisses with loads of tongue and uncontrollable passion.  |
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Ironically giving I've just commenting in the slapping thread about enjoying that in the right circumstances this seems a strange segway.
I love kissing...this is pretty essential for me.You know the chemistry is right with kissing. And the juxtaposition with slapping and kissing together  |
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"It's essential for me. I feel like kissing is where you both really connect with each other. I absolutely adore kissing, especially deep kisses with loads of tongue and uncontrollable passion. "
Likewise. The moment when you move towards each other and then lock on is so good. And the intensity of the kissing builds until you're practically devouring each other..  |
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"If a social is going well, it's not weird for it to include the kiss test to see if we should take it further
Definitely. If I feel that I want to take it further after a social I'll sometimes ask for a kiss, or sometimes you just know its OK to go in for the kill! "
That's awesome, I'm always too scared to dive right in, I always have to ask first 
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Kissing is an integral part of sex, sex should be intimate and passionate!
I don’t really know if I’m sexually attracted enough to a guy until that first kiss.. I can find someone good company and handsome but that is different to those raw carnal urges to fuck that explode when you have that first snog!
I could honestly straddle and grind on a lap while kissing and teasing for hours before even removing any clothes |
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"Prefer no kissing meets myself far to intimate! Do not need it to enjoy sex x"
Similar here I mean I’ll kiss if some requires it to get off or relax but it doesn’t mean or do anything for me outside of a relationship
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Yes kissing is intimate but for me it's an essential part of foreplay and sex in general. I'm not saying sex can't be enjoyed without it but when you're kissing and can feel the tension building and feel the other person getting more and more turned on...that's top tier for me
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"Prefer no kissing meets myself far to intimate! Do not need it to enjoy sex x
Similar here I mean I’ll kiss if some requires it to get off or relax but it doesn’t mean or do anything for me outside of a relationship
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Exactly never say never but preference not to kiss x |
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We enjoy going to atlantis evolution in stoke we mainly do mmf threesomes and when I kiss a guy it feels more special and loving couldn't not kiss its a turn on for me especially if I'm being touched by my husband and the person who joins us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love cheeky kisses before & during sex! Timed right it can be wildly overwhelming!
Super intense, cuddled, long snogs are reserved for hubby though, as weird with friends
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way?"
I've not had a single meet where it started with kissing. I don't really kiss guys I'm meeting, which is partly why I don't meet 121 |
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"You are not alone OP. I love it and could quite happily kiss until my lips are numb "
I kissed [forumer’s name redacted] and walked away with my lips literally tingling and fizzing. (Turned out she was wearing lip-plumping stuff …  ) |
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I've had earth shattering sex with a guy who's kisses were lovely but tame by comparison to the sex.
Bit of a counterpoint to the feisty sex I suppose.
My point being....kisses guarantee nothing, in either direction.
I just enjoy the good parts where I find them. |
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes.
But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more.
When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there.
Meli, you probably write erotic novels don't you? In fact, maybe you really are Kathy Acker
This compliment? Yep, it means a lot. Adore Kathy Acker - her writing was transformative, inspirational to me as a doe eyed teenager devouring text late at night.
So, thank you. "
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Kissing for us is very intimate. It's probably the only thing we insist on keeping between us.
That's just our choice and we know it's not to everyones liking, but those are our rules. |
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Eye contact,body language,& kissing are so under-rated and underparr in the last 40yrs.
there has been a massive drop and decline in the Quality and Consitancy of those traits. |
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"Kissing is an integral part of sex, sex should be intimate and passionate!
I don’t really know if I’m sexually attracted enough to a guy until that first kiss.. I can find someone good company and handsome but that is different to those raw carnal urges to fuck that explode when you have that first snog!
I could honestly straddle and grind on a lap while kissing and teasing for hours before even removing any clothes "
Totally this… that sudden surge of passion when a snog sparks things off! It’s the best… |
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"Yes. I love kissing - to the point where I'm happy to dryhump and kiss someone without having sex with them. It's intimate, yes.
But more than that, it's the sheer erotic nature of feeling another's lips pressed against yours, that moment you get where you can feel that change - there's a switch from the more explorative, gentle kisses to the yearning, passionate kisses that leave you breathless and hungry for more.
When you kiss someone and everything else fades in that moment? That's when I know there's a rather addictive level of chemistry there."
Oh my word… think I need a lay down in a dark room after reading that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You could drop to your knees, look up at me seductively as you unbutton my jeans and slip my cock into your mouth. You'll be sucking a floppy.
Kiss my lips and within seconds I'll be bursting that zip open without the need for hands.
Kissing energises the mind and the body will follow. |
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Definitely love kissing! Its a must and a good kisser is such a big turn on. The more kisses the better in my opinion.
I understand why some couples don't want to kiss others but I couldn't have sex with someone I couldn't kiss.
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By *ip2Man
over a year ago
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Oooh! I love, love kissing women! Can I answer in song? The Vengaboys sang:
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"I only kiss kiss kiss
When the sun don't shine
You wanna kiss kiss kiss
Then tonight is fine"
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"Right then. I love a good snog… I find it very sexy and very intimate… almost to the point where I enjoy that bit more than the main event!
I think it’s a really important part of kicking off a meet and knowing it’ll work if there’s good snogging!
Am I weird/alone in thinking this way?"
For me it is also a must, without it is a total turn off.
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