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Also, do people like getting your male partners off this way more than any other way? | |||
*Occasionally. With people that I know will make it up to me another time. I do not require messages from selfish pricks asking for such things | |||
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"…. But, no one has ever given me just a blowjob, for ages, just for me, to completion. I feel like this is something missing from my life." I hear you.  | |||
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"I fucken love it. Sometimes it's nice to just have a 4 hour face fucking session where I get no physical stimulation. It's fun to lose myself in the worship and service aspect of it all
*Occasionally. With people that I know will make it up to me another time. I do not require messages from selfish pricks asking for such things "Ignore my DM  | |||
"Ignore my DM "I always do | |||
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Plus it's hot to let him know how much I'm loving it by touching myself and then softly brushing my fingers against his mouth until he sucks on them hungrily. The eye contact during that can be mindblowing all on its own .
So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too .
I'm not sure its better than or worse than other things. It's all part of a delicious buffet of ways to experience pleasure and I personally never want to have to choose.
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"Personally I adore being able to do this. It's incredibly erotic to see him loose control under my touch/lips/tongue/throat. To take him to the edge over and over . I'm not remotely submissive really but to be on my knees, my fingers pressing into his thighs as his whole body turns to jelly is a huge compliment. The noises ,the reactions ,the way he looks into my eyes. It really does turn me on and its such a thrill because as opposed to actually fucking,its all my doing. Its me making him feel that good. He's not doing any of the work. There are also lots of ways to enhance it and be creative with it too, my favourites include a fizzy blow job, the addition of a soft ribbon to tug on, or blindfolds and restraints
Plus it's hot to let him know how much I'm loving it by touching myself and then softly brushing my fingers against his mouth until he sucks on them hungrily. The eye contact during that can be mindblowing all on its own .
So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too .
I'm not sure its better than or worse than other things. It's all part of a delicious buffet of ways to experience pleasure and I personally never want to have to choose.
"Control yourself! Some of us are reading this at work  | |||
"Personally I adore being able to do this. It's incredibly erotic to see him loose control under my touch/lips/tongue/throat. To take him to the edge over and over . I'm not remotely submissive really but to be on my knees, my fingers pressing into his thighs as his whole body turns to jelly is a huge compliment. The noises ,the reactions ,the way he looks into my eyes. It really does turn me on and its such a thrill because as opposed to actually fucking,its all my doing. Its me making him feel that good. He's not doing any of the work. There are also lots of ways to enhance it and be creative with it too, my favourites include a fizzy blow job, the addition of a soft ribbon to tug on, or blindfolds and restraints
Plus it's hot to let him know how much I'm loving it by touching myself and then softly brushing my fingers against his mouth until he sucks on them hungrily. The eye contact during that can be mindblowing all on its own .
So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too .
I'm not sure its better than or worse than other things. It's all part of a delicious buffet of ways to experience pleasure and I personally never want to have to choose.
"*Marriage proposal on its way* | |||
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"My last meet was precisely that. And what a meet it was. She got immensely turned on by giving oral, we literally had hours of edging, a little sex then back to receiving oral. All very non rushed, relaxed and totally mind blowing. I felt very selfish but she assured me that she was getting as much out of it as I was. " That sounds perfect. 
I've only done it a couple of times, I'd love to do it more but it can be difficult for men to be happy being the focus like that. And believing I don't want anything more. | |||
"Having sat here over the last few days reading threads about oral (especially licking before dicking and blowjob/steak day) I’m starting to wonder how a guy views this? Ever had a blow job that’s better than fucking? " No, blow jobs do very little for me | |||
"My last meet was precisely that. And what a meet it was. She got immensely turned on by giving oral, we literally had hours of edging, a little sex then back to receiving oral. All very non rushed, relaxed and totally mind blowing. I felt very selfish but she assured me that she was getting as much out of it as I was. That sounds perfect.
I've only done it a couple of times, I'd love to do it more but it can be difficult for men to be happy being the focus like that. And believing I don't want anything more."It has to be one of the best sexual experiences I've had, when I say hours, it went from around 2 in the afternoon to midnight with a break for food (be rude not to eat lol). I was in heaven and she clearly found the whole experience being in control extremely hot too. | |||
"Personally I adore being able to do this. It's incredibly erotic to see him loose control under my touch/lips/tongue/throat. To take him to the edge over and over . I'm not remotely submissive really but to be on my knees, my fingers pressing into his thighs as his whole body turns to jelly is a huge compliment. The noises ,the reactions ,the way he looks into my eyes. It really does turn me on and its such a thrill because as opposed to actually fucking,its all my doing. Its me making him feel that good. He's not doing any of the work. There are also lots of ways to enhance it and be creative with it too, my favourites include a fizzy blow job, the addition of a soft ribbon to tug on, or blindfolds and restraints
Plus it's hot to let him know how much I'm loving it by touching myself and then softly brushing my fingers against his mouth until he sucks on them hungrily. The eye contact during that can be mindblowing all on its own .
So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too .
I'm not sure its better than or worse than other things. It's all part of a delicious buffet of ways to experience pleasure and I personally never want to have to choose.
" that would work for me | |||
"...I’m starting to wonder how a guy views this? Ever had a blow job that’s better than fucking?..." • Unfortunately no. Whilst I love receiving a blow job — that 'enveloping' and warming sensation from the mouth, tongue and the epiglottis, whilst her hair mischievously drapes and dances over my pubic region — I don't climax from it. The blow job, for me, is just the entrée before the 'main course' fucking. | |||
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"I love getting the Mr off with a good long blow job, he has much more intense cumming from a BJ especially if I prolong it. Mrs " Being edged for hours most definitely makes the eventual orgasm very explosive | |||
And some of those sights, I'll never forget.
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"Frankly ive had some incredible, mind blowing blowjobs / facefucking sessions. Better than actual sex...all depends on the mood at the time I think. But what I do know is ...When someone your into is choking on your cock, looking up at you...lipstick is smeared, mascara running...tears in their eyes...drool running out of their mouth. It's one of, if not the most beautiful sights.
And some of those sights, I'll never forget."You should film it sometime | |||
"Frankly ive had some incredible, mind blowing blowjobs / facefucking sessions. Better than actual sex...all depends on the mood at the time I think. But what I do know is ...When someone your into is choking on your cock, looking up at you...lipstick is smeared, mascara running...tears in their eyes...drool running out of their mouth. It's one of, if not the most beautiful sights.
And some of those sights, I'll never forget.
You should film it sometime "I really should...some trophy winning sessions do really need captured on film | |||
"Personally I adore being able to do this. It's incredibly erotic to see him loose control under my touch/lips/tongue/throat. To take him to the edge over and over . I'm not remotely submissive really but to be on my knees, my fingers pressing into his thighs as his whole body turns to jelly is a huge compliment. The noises ,the reactions ,the way he looks into my eyes. It really does turn me on and its such a thrill because as opposed to actually fucking,its all my doing. Its me making him feel that good. He's not doing any of the work. There are also lots of ways to enhance it and be creative with it too, my favourites include a fizzy blow job, the addition of a soft ribbon to tug on, or blindfolds and restraints
Plus it's hot to let him know how much I'm loving it by touching myself and then softly brushing my fingers against his mouth until he sucks on them hungrily. The eye contact during that can be mindblowing all on its own .
So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too .
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"*swallows. Erm yes. Something like this. | |||
"Personally I adore being able to do this. It's incredibly erotic to see him loose control under my touch/lips/tongue/throat. To take him to the edge over and over . I'm not remotely submissive really but to be on my knees, my fingers pressing into his thighs as his whole body turns to jelly is a huge compliment. The noises ,the reactions ,the way he looks into my eyes. It really does turn me on and its such a thrill because as opposed to actually fucking,its all my doing. Its me making him feel that good. He's not doing any of the work. There are also lots of ways to enhance it and be creative with it too, my favourites include a fizzy blow job, the addition of a soft ribbon to tug on, or blindfolds and restraints
Plus it's hot to let him know how much I'm loving it by touching myself and then softly brushing my fingers against his mouth until he sucks on them hungrily. The eye contact during that can be mindblowing all on its own .
So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too .
I'm not sure its better than or worse than other things. It's all part of a delicious buffet of ways to experience pleasure and I personally never want to have to choose.
"I think this has won some fans over today | |||
"I’m happy to take part in any research "Just DM, you might be impressed | |||
"Having sat here over the last few days reading threads about oral (especially licking before dicking and blowjob/steak day) I’m starting to wonder how a guy views this? Ever had a blow job that’s better than fucking? I mean, the girl is absolutely gorgeous and I get hard just imaging kissing her lovely smile, and to have her lovely lips wrapped around the erection she’s given me and looking into her eyes as she can see me reaching my climax is as erotic as it gets. …
Also, do people like getting your male partners off this way more than any other way? "One of my regulars to say, he’r gladly penetrate but often happens to be to exhausting or to fast. He said with oral the edging can be more satisfying and can take much longer than penetration. It often occurred to me as well that the feedback from the oral can be much more satisfying even for the one offering than the ol’ pumping. Never Say No to a beautiful girthy cock. | |||
"So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too." He is, trust me. | |||
"Personally I adore being able to do this. It's incredibly erotic to see him loose control under my touch/lips/tongue/throat. To take him to the edge over and over . I'm not remotely submissive really but to be on my knees, my fingers pressing into his thighs as his whole body turns to jelly is a huge compliment. The noises ,the reactions ,the way he looks into my eyes. It really does turn me on and its such a thrill because as opposed to actually fucking,its all my doing. Its me making him feel that good. He's not doing any of the work. There are also lots of ways to enhance it and be creative with it too, my favourites include a fizzy blow job, the addition of a soft ribbon to tug on, or blindfolds and restraints
Plus it's hot to let him know how much I'm loving it by touching myself and then softly brushing my fingers against his mouth until he sucks on them hungrily. The eye contact during that can be mindblowing all on its own .
So yeah. I'm a fan, I'd hope he would be too .
I'm not sure its better than or worse than other things. It's all part of a delicious buffet of ways to experience pleasure and I personally never want to have to choose.
"Exactly how I feel from the Male perspective. Think for a guy with his eyes closed struggling to open them to look into the females eyes is as much a turn on for the female as it is the male. | |||
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"I’m happy to take part in any research "I'll second that! | |||
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"I love sucking but prefer slow and deep. I don't enjoy giving the fast porny ones and that seems to be what gets the "money shot" " I with you.. | |||
"I love sucking but prefer slow and deep. I don't enjoy giving the fast porny ones and that seems to be what gets the "money shot" " You read my op right? …. | |||
"Oo good one, OP! I don’t think I’ve ever had a blowjob that was better than sex. But that’s not because I prefer sex, it’s because no one has ever given me ‘the blowjob to end all blowjobs’. I absolutely love them. I love the anticipation, I love lying back and experiencing the pleasure as their lips, tongue, mouth and hands focus solely on me. I love the feeling that someone wanted to do that for me and to me. But, no one has ever given me just a blowjob, for ages, just for me, to completion. I feel like this is something missing from my life." ditto, I've never had a blow job that got me anywhere near coming but I still love them. | |||
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"I love to give good sucky sucky "You sucky sucky me lucky lucky | |||
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"Like anything else, from flirting to fucking, I think blow jobs are a chemistry thing. Either the two of you fit together or you don’t. Either it’s the perfect moment or it isn’t. When it all falls into place, when her cock-lust and your ability to relax and enjoy it just *click* … I think it’s hard to beat. Better than sex, as the saying goes. I’m a lucky, lucky man and I’ve experienced that more times than I care to count. But one time stands out. One girl. One blow job. One moment. And I wrote about it 10 years ago, and I doubt I can write it any better than I did then, so I’m going to copy and paste. Indulge me for a minute. - I have never been with another girl who worships cock the way that she does. Just holding my hard cock, staring at it, squeezing, touching, licking, kissing … her eyes glazed over, she lost herself in the act for what felt like an eternity. She laid down, between my legs, not just so that she could reach properly, but to get *comfortable*. To settle in for the long haul. She moaned with pleasure, spat on me for lubrication and took her sweet time. I forgot what day it was, let alone what hour, until I felt my orgasm building and reached down to knot my fingers through her cropped, messy hair. I held her stock still by the back of the head with her full lips halfway down my cock, and came, shuddering with the intensity of it, into her mouth. The look of joy and lust in her eyes when she crawled back up the bed to kiss me with thick white spunk dripping from the corner of her mouth was incredible. " This kinda reminds me of me with an old fwb. He loved me sucking his cock and majority of the time I made him cum from it. Kissing down his chest, teasing everything but his cock, feeling him get harder, it was such a turn on. He loved a sloppy blow job & I loved giving it. He’d often stop me for a passionate kiss mid suck. I kept him hanging on once a bit more than usual before he came in my mouth, the moan he let out, jesus he described it as unbearable pleasure & had to wait a while to stand seeing & hearing him build up to orgasm and knowing I was giving it, then the aftermath - it certainly put a smile on my face (and his)  | |||
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"I kept him hanging on once a bit more than usual before he came in my mouth, the moan he let out, jesus "Kinky, that is *exactly* the kind of thing I’m talking about. Hot. As. Hell. When people talk about compersion - taking pleasure from pleasing your partner - that’s the sort of thing I think of. Your sheer joy in how good you made him feel. Damn, that’s sexy. | |||
"I kept him hanging on once a bit more than usual before he came in my mouth, the moan he let out, jesus
Kinky, that is *exactly* the kind of thing I’m talking about. Hot. As. Hell. When people talk about compersion - taking pleasure from pleasing your partner - that’s the sort of thing I think of. Your sheer joy in how good you made him feel. Damn, that’s sexy."Indeed | |||
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"I love sucking but prefer slow and deep. I don't enjoy giving the fast porny ones and that seems to be what gets the "money shot" " The frantic porno ones just kill my boner, unless it's the last few seconds before I'm about to cum. Give me slow and sensual with short bursts of speed to really build me up... | |||
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"We’re in the enviable position that he loves going down on her, and she loves him doing it, and… she loves choking on cock and he, being more than a little sadistic at times, loves to oblige." She really likes to fuck, too | |||
