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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep reading the term "no married men" on some couples/womens profile. the usual reason is they dont want the persons spouse causing them grief.
Is it really a problem them or is it the errant spouses problem if they are messing around without their knowledge?
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It says no married/attached people on my profile too. Purely because I don't wan't the hassle, don't personally agree with it & its hard enough for single guys to arrange meets with single women, never mind married ones.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont meet maried guys because it just does not work for me
They only seem to be able to meet at times when i cant and i have found they are always on a timer
When i meet someone i want their full attention for the time they are with me not someone whos nipped out for a quicky while they wifes at bingo, whos going to be clock watching the while time and run off back home before i have finished
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By *quirrel OP Man
over a year ago
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I keep reading the term "no married men" on some couples/womens profile. the usual reason is they dont want the persons spouse causing them grief.
Is it really a problem for them or is it the errant spouse who will have the problem if they are messing around without their knowledge?
yet, when it comes to couples wanting to meet women there is no precondition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep reading the term "no married men" on some couples/womens profile. the usual reason is they dont want the persons spouse causing them grief.
Is it really a problem for them or is it the errant spouse who will have the problem if they are messing around without their knowledge?
yet, when it comes to couples wanting to meet women there is no precondition"
you cant be as fussy when it comes to women, theres not enough on here to turn them down, single guys are ten a penny and if you turn one down another 10 will be along within 5 mins, harsh but true  |
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I don't agree with it full stop, but my choice is that I won't judge them. At least they've provided the information so I can decide whether or not I am willing to meet them.
Truth be told, the main reason I won't meet married men/women is not because of their actions, but because of my own morals - I cannot willingly allow myself to be an accomplice to something that may potentially devastate someone else's life.
I won't comment on fault, ect. as I don't feel that it's relevant.
- Amy. x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I keep reading the term "no married men" on some couples/womens profile. the usual reason is they dont want the persons spouse causing them grief.
Is it really a problem for them or is it the errant spouse who will have the problem if they are messing around without their knowledge?
yet, when it comes to couples wanting to meet women there is no precondition"
There is a double standard. Unfaithful is unfaithful regardless of gender. There can be hassle but there might not be. Do what is right for you and accept knock backs if it's not something others wish to participate with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their choice. For me it isn't an issue, being on here is a bit of escapism and I really don't want to know too much about people's circumstances. Morally I have no problem playing with married people whether their partners know or not but I can understand why some people will. Each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep reading the term "no married men" on some couples/womens profile. the usual reason is they dont want the persons spouse causing them grief.
Is it really a problem for them or is it the errant spouse who will have the problem if they are messing around without their knowledge?
yet, when it comes to couples wanting to meet women there is no precondition
you cant be as fussy when it comes to women, theres not enough on here to turn them down, single guys are ten a penny and if you turn one down another 10 will be along within 5 mins, harsh but true "
So it's not about the morality of playing with marrieds, just the opportunity, or lack of it? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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I am a married man....possibly a little different from most as I have wifes full approval to be here (she is here too  ) and have met people who say they dont meet married men as i'm not playing behind the wifes back ...that said I have absolutely no problem with people who say they wont meet married people including me ...thats their choice and are entitled to it ....would be a boring world if we all looked for the same  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep reading the term "no married men" on some couples/womens profile. the usual reason is they dont want the persons spouse causing them grief.
Is it really a problem for them or is it the errant spouse who will have the problem if they are messing around without their knowledge?
yet, when it comes to couples wanting to meet women there is no precondition
you cant be as fussy when it comes to women, theres not enough on here to turn them down, single guys are ten a penny and if you turn one down another 10 will be along within 5 mins, harsh but true "
That's what comes of having a bus stop outside the house.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I keep reading the term "no married men" on some couples/womens profile. the usual reason is they dont want the persons spouse causing them grief.
Is it really a problem for them or is it the errant spouse who will have the problem if they are messing around without their knowledge?
yet, when it comes to couples wanting to meet women there is no precondition
you cant be as fussy when it comes to women, theres not enough on here to turn them down, single guys are ten a penny and if you turn one down another 10 will be along within 5 mins, harsh but true
That's what comes of having a bus stop outside the house. "
Same here  |
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