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My wife dating another man

By *ameasyou1234 OP Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

We are broadening our sexual adventures and my wife wants to date other men as part of that leading to a 3sum. We have had 3sums before, and ALL GOOD. Now she wants to date someone before 3sums may start, I love the idea and is horny as hell.

Have any other couples tried this and the male had any doubts or has it been all systems go?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No I don't think so. That's a first here.

Exciting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Déjà vu

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By *oonshadowWoman over a year ago

COVENTRY

Sounds like a dangerous game to me, someone could get hurt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I don't think so. That's a first here.

Exciting."

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Date, like a boyfriend?

If that floats the boat all three of you row you're bon to a winner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So are you going to become a poly relationship? Is that the aim?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps someone could create a fabulous swingers site and give it a catchy name..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us, any socialising is done together...the actual playing depending on the fantasy? We might be on our own, but will be together immediately after to reconnect.

This could go wrong for you both unless you are totally open and honest with each other, however it could be exciting for you both. Hope it works out for you

Mrs

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I know a few couples who do this within poly, but the husband forged a friends relationship with his wife's boyfriend, as they've all been non sexually getting to know each other. They play as a 3 now, as well as her meeting him on her own.

The main ingredient is Clear Honest Communication with each other. Good luck OP

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

I have warned of my worries on a different thread by you guys.

BUT,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

I do wanna say this,

As you have decided to go down this route. enjoy every minuet of it and ALWAYS communicate your feeling to one another, as said before I do know two couples where this works fine and I hope you will join their club

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have warned of my worries on a different thread by you guys.

BUT,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

I do wanna say this,

A samba would be more appropriate. More modern.

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