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What’s the one thing?
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"What’s the one thing or main reason that a woman’s profile rules you out of sending a message?
Mine is probably being a smoker.
Many people obviously won’t meet a smoker.
What’s yours? "
A huge list of demands or a negative profile.
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"You haven’t asked what makes women not message men. But I’ll answer as I’m sure it was just an oversight. 
All cock & no content.
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This for me also and when they use text speak in their bio |
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over a year ago
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"I say I won’t meet smokers but if the chemistry is there I have. It’s not like they smoke the whole meet, maybe just the one "
I like to make sure I leave them smoking after I've pumped them |
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Well there're many reasons.
- I don't find them attractive
- Doesn't like TV/CD or Bi guys
- Only interested in hung guys
- Only interested in BBC
- Only looking for strong dominant types/likes to be dominated
- Is cheating on partner
- No profile pics + shit bio.
I know that's more than one reason, but they are all equal to me as any one of them shows that we are not compatible and won't be a good match for each other.
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"What’s the one thing or main reason that a woman’s profile rules you out of sending a message?
Mine is probably being a smoker.
Many people obviously won’t meet a smoker.
What’s yours? "
A big list of what’ll get you blocked/banned instead of anything interesting to read. |
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Haven't sent an opening message to a woman in 3 years so what she has on her profile is irrelevant in regards to that.
I reply to every message I receive but how I reply can often be dictated by lack of consistency in their profile, who they've been verified by or a well publicised history of drama.
Their forum engagement, if any, can also be off-putting. |
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My apologies.
I didn’t mean to rule out any gender persuasion.
Simply asking what you read in other people’s profiles that puts you off or a reason you won’t message someone because of their preferences.
No offence meant to anyone on account of gender or relationship status.
Wow. It really is 2023 isn’t it.
There was a time I wouldn’t have been pulled up for a slip of the tongue.
That’s what she said…. |
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Well.
I’m not gym fit.
I’m a smoker.
I’m average in the trouser department.
I’m a white British Caucasian.
And I’m in my 40’s.
Guess I should pretty much hang up my profile and retire to FabSingers.
But I can’t sing either… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You haven’t asked what makes women not message men. But I’ll answer as I’m sure it was just an oversight.
All cock & no content.
420
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Wait what? Women message men?  |
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"One put off for us as a couple - (not that you asked)
Been addressed in first message a a singular such as “babe”. “Love”. “Gorgeous”. Etc Totally disrespectful and block..
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Definitely - they're are two of us not just Laura.  |
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"What’s the one thing or main reason that a woman’s profile rules you out of sending a message?
Mine is probably being a smoker.
Many people obviously won’t meet a smoker.
What’s yours? "
She's straight  |
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I won’t message unless someone has winked, liked something or visited my profile on a number of occasions. After which I’ll assume they’ve seen something they like (though doesn’t always get a response in return, which is ok)
In terms of a profile the main thing is an immediate list of relatively innocuous things that if you do then woe betide you - blocked.
I get why people do it, and you’d hope people have manners to begin with (likely where my assumption fails) but it does make me second guess
The other two would be not verified by admin or verified by another user who in turn is not verified by admin etc etc. Wouldn’t necessarily stop me messaging but makes me a little cautious
And very new profiles. They already get bombarded with unwanted (I imagine messages) I don’t need to add my two penneth |
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