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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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love. Yep, had to do it. Not sorry.
Anyway, what feelings do you find addictive? Are there certain emotions/feelings that you find thrilling and you can't get enough of them?
Do you find it quite easy to find people who ignite those feelings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm addicted to feeling appreciated and praised. Not being told directly though, but by hearing it said to someone else about me. Somehow it just feels better, almost as if they actually meant it because they told someone else  |
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"I'd quite like some self worth.
I could get used to that"
awwww but it would be empty on here...... So they say....... You've got to love yourself before anyone can love you, that be a true saying that be, said in my best country accent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m well, I might as well face it….
. Love was lovely, and to say I don’t enjoy would be stupid. Of course it was nice and the reason I can’t let go.
Addicted? Hell no, I don’t want to take that hit ever again, but if someone slipped it into my cup without me knowing…..what could I do about it?
*not the safest analogy, I know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"love. Yep, had to do it. Not sorry.
Anyway, what feelings do you find addictive? Are there certain emotions/feelings that you find thrilling and you can't get enough of them?
Do you find it quite easy to find people who ignite those feelings? "
I find feelings overwhelming and alien, I used to want to run away from them but discovered if I step left they step left with me...
So I can't say I'm.addicted to any feelings |
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"love. Yep, had to do it. Not sorry.
Anyway, what feelings do you find addictive? Are there certain emotions/feelings that you find thrilling and you can't get enough of them?
Do you find it quite easy to find people who ignite those feelings? "
I think I’ve only ever been truly in love twice in my life. One woman I had a relationship with which she finished, the other never went anywhere.
I’d love to be addicted to love. I’d love to make myself vulnerable to someone and experience that total connection.
Until that time, I’m addicted to lust. That feeling you get when you just have to have someone. I’d say I’m only average in finding those people, but there are some people on fab that have given me a hint it’s there.
I also like people noticing me. Sometimes I feel pretty anonymous on fab and in life, so it’s heartening to feel noticed and appreciated (not a cry for sympathy!)  |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm addicted to feeling appreciated and praised. Not being told directly though, but by hearing it said to someone else about me. Somehow it just feels better, almost as if they actually meant it because they told someone else "
Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.
I understand this completely though - if someone wants to talk so positively about you to another, you must have had a good impact on them. It's like enjoying a film - you know you're really enjoying it when you recommend it to another. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I'm addicted to feeling appreciated and praised. Not being told directly though, but by hearing it said to someone else about me. Somehow it just feels better, almost as if they actually meant it because they told someone else
Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.
I understand this completely though - if someone wants to talk so positively about you to another, you must have had a good impact on them. It's like enjoying a film - you know you're really enjoying it when you recommend it to another. "
Fully agree with Joe on that one too.
They have no reason to praise you to another person, it's extra effort for almost zero benefit to them. Other than they mean that praise, and it's high enough to "brag" about to another person. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m well, I might as well face it….
. Love was lovely, and to say I don’t enjoy would be stupid. Of course it was nice and the reason I can’t let go.
Addicted? Hell no, I don’t want to take that hit ever again, but if someone slipped it into my cup without me knowing…..what could I do about it?
*not the safest analogy, I know. "
Woody. 
I think love is a tad addictive. How it makes us feel. The people we become when we're loved by someone and happy in that love.
Opening up to being loved is scary. All of the what ifs, the cup slipping might be a good idea (although yeah, slightly awful analogy!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Praise
I like feeling appreciated and being told when I’ve done something good. Not just during sex but in everyday life as well.
That’s a really good post, Mrs. "
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When i was a professional musician i always found praise difficult to know how to respond to - if someone said you’re an amazing guitar player - thankyou that’s really appreciated was my stock reply because I actually felt uncomfortable but some were waaaay over the top and that was more difficult because off stage I was/am quite happy in my own company and that just made me a bit embarrassed. Its good to get recognition for a job well done though. |
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That balance of love and lust
I love those butterflies when I'm looking forward to spending time with one of my favourite people. That sharp bright lust and need that bites through everything, but softened with the edges of genuine affection. That glazed over literally drooling at the thought of tasting them again while still just feeling genuine joy at the prospect of being in their company and enjoying who they really are and not just the things they do to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm addicted to feeling appreciated and praised. Not being told directly though, but by hearing it said to someone else about me. Somehow it just feels better, almost as if they actually meant it because they told someone else
Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.
I understand this completely though - if someone wants to talk so positively about you to another, you must have had a good impact on them. It's like enjoying a film - you know you're really enjoying it when you recommend it to another. "
Exactly, I think having a good enough impact on someone for them to then tell someone else really can be the highest compliment they can pay you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm addicted to feeling appreciated and praised. Not being told directly though, but by hearing it said to someone else about me. Somehow it just feels better, almost as if they actually meant it because they told someone else
Joe you're so lovely. Truly are.
I understand this completely though - if someone wants to talk so positively about you to another, you must have had a good impact on them. It's like enjoying a film - you know you're really enjoying it when you recommend it to another.
Fully agree with Joe on that one too.
They have no reason to praise you to another person, it's extra effort for almost zero benefit to them. Other than they mean that praise, and it's high enough to "brag" about to another person. "
Exactly this, they don't have to praise you or talk about you in a kind way to anyone else but hearing stories about someone who did it just makes me feel all warm inside |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was, at one point, addicted to no strings, ad-hoc, anonymous sex
I don't mean like once in a while, I mean like several times a week, every week
No planning, no forethought, no flirting, no foreplay, just meet and get it on
I often think I have largely passed the stage and then wham, the urge is back again
I guess it is the equivalent of a relapse for an ex drinker
Being here helps to stem the urge to be fair - whereas joining somewhere where I know that kind of sex would be easy to access would be too much of an opportunity
Fab levels me
And you won't hear that very often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am trying to get myself addicted to the feelings of when you are organised and get all the work done in on time and that mad relief you feel, but to get it a week before the bloody deadline at least. That sweet happiness that you are free and organised and efficient and amazing, and now have earned your rest. Those feelings. I am doing it with all sorts of little tasks too, and I think I am finally getting it. Saves me falling back on the longing ache of lust that would be my usual go to
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Being in lust. That feeling of excitement you get when you just have to look at them and the juices starts flowing, when you could straddle them and smooch their face for days.
I do like that. |
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