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By *tsJustKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

London

Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Counter block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!"

Silly little men, I've had a few, I just counterblock them so they can't look at my profile again lol, hope you're ok x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Proof that he was one to avoid so it's a win for you. x

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By *tsJustKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Counter block and move on "

Did just that, but wanted to have a little rant lol!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me. "

Was it you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't understand why anyone would be like that, waste of oxygen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/03/23 14:42:29]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me.

Was it you?"

fucking hell pete didn’t even you were online !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh I love those …… makes me ( )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh I love those …… makes me ( )"

Literally?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh I love those …… makes me ( )

Literally? "

Literally

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I just think of it as the trash taking itself out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just think of it as the trash taking itself out "

Yep

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By *enrietteandSamCouple  over a year ago

Staffordshire

Noel need for it

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By *ull English with teaMan  over a year ago

London


"Noel need for it"

Especially if its Christmas…

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

bloody rotters..

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Easily avoided.

We block everyone who messages that we'll never be interested in. 100% guarantee there'll be no ranty messages.

A

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Noel need for it"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Just as long as you don't start a thread about it O.P. Cos that's like pissing in the wind really.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Before anyone asks, it wasn’t me.

Was it you?"

Has his paw prints all over it

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By *onnie 90Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!"

At least you know there's a butthurt weasel out there tending to his dented ego lol.

Let me guess. It was along the lines of the following...

Male - hi. You're gorgeous. Fancy a meet?

You - thanks for the offer but no thanks

Male - You're fat ugly sl@g anyway and nobody wants to meet you (then they hit the block button).

Dent a Male ego at your peril lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite. "

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same. "

I think it's more kind of posturing.

Definitely a bit of a power trip thing.

You block etc you don't get repeated messages either which some will say is why they reject reply.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same. "

Because then you get the moaning of guys saying it's rude not to reply at all and even a thanks but no thanks would be better. Damned if you do...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

Because then you get the moaning of guys saying it's rude not to reply at all and even a thanks but no thanks would be better. Damned if you do..."

Why you want the false hope of getting a reply for it to be a rejection.

Like them on the Apprentice when Alan Sugar sacks them and they say thanks.

I wouldn't say anything, just leave.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

Because then you get the moaning of guys saying it's rude not to reply at all and even a thanks but no thanks would be better. Damned if you do... Why you want the false hope of getting a reply for it to be a rejection.

Like them on the Apprentice when Alan Sugar sacks them and they say thanks.

I wouldn't say anything, just leave. "

I don't know, closure, a definite answer, the fact some guys are so attention starved that even a reply saying no thanks is just a reply. This place is probably a psychologists wet dream for the behaviour of certain people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

Because then you get the moaning of guys saying it's rude not to reply at all and even a thanks but no thanks would be better. Damned if you do... Why you want the false hope of getting a reply for it to be a rejection.

Like them on the Apprentice when Alan Sugar sacks them and they say thanks.

I wouldn't say anything, just leave.

I don't know, closure, a definite answer, the fact some guys are so attention starved that even a reply saying no thanks is just a reply. This place is probably a psychologists wet dream for the behaviour of certain people."

Have had several meets before, by being persistent over a period of time, trying again in a couple of months has worked though.

Yeah just doesn't make much sense to me

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By *rlandoMan  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

if you "rejected him" whats you complaining about ?

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"if you "rejected him" whats you complaining about ?"

I did not read the entire thread, so could be wrong here but...

I have had (not too many fortunately or I might be in therapy ..... guys message me with a nasty comment on my profile or a contribution on a thread. This was a first message and then they blocked me. To me that is a bit cowardish .

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

Because then you get the moaning of guys saying it's rude not to reply at all and even a thanks but no thanks would be better. Damned if you do... Why you want the false hope of getting a reply for it to be a rejection.

Like them on the Apprentice when Alan Sugar sacks them and they say thanks.

I wouldn't say anything, just leave.

I don't know, closure, a definite answer, the fact some guys are so attention starved that even a reply saying no thanks is just a reply. This place is probably a psychologists wet dream for the behaviour of certain people."

Oh god yeah it is!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite. "

I try to reply if a man has made an effort to write a nice message. And I have actually had some really good conversations even though they know I won't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had a couple ladies do that to me. Talk for ages we exchange external links Kik etc. Then they start being a little wierd and then block for no unknown reasons. I mean I know it's different when guys said an abusive message then block but I just find it wierd

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on "

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a theory that the nasty messages are just projecting self loathing on to other people. Once the recipient has been blocked they disintegrate psychologically.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a reflection upon themselves.

It shows true weakness, lashing out.

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By *esi_maverickMan  over a year ago

Solihull

Men will be men if they dont get the response they’d anticipate fair play to you for rejecting those

You should have blocked them as soon as you responded if that was the case x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile "

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile "

Why would you bother wanting to block them if they’ve blocked you though. I don’t think either can see the profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure. "

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Why would you bother wanting to block them if they’ve blocked you though. I don’t think either can see the profiles. "

Agreed. The person I was messaging apparently lived in the USA but their distances was showing 90miles away. Very wierd

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lol I get blocked all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lol I get blocked all the time."

How come?

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By *esi_maverickMan  over a year ago

Solihull


"Lol I get blocked all the time."

Who in their right mind would want to block a sexy specimen like you

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Lol I get blocked all the time."

I’ve only ever noticed one person blocked me and he’s left now. Probably others I don’t know of

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x"

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to

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By *onnie 90Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to "

Go to their profile. It will say you can't see it because you're blocked. Ignore that and press the menu button top right. You'll see the block option there x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to "

I tried to message you to explain how to do it but your filters have me blocked unfortunately. There are 3 lines in the top right hand corner that you can click on and it has an option to block.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to "

It's the top right hand corner. Three lines. It might say menu

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got a message from a guy last week apologising and said he had to block me

Never ever had any previous message or interaction

Strange folks

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By *onnie 90Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to

It's the top right hand corner. Three lines. It might say menu "

I have both on mine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm a lazy fucker can never be arsed to reply to anyone ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to

Go to their profile. It will say you can't see it because you're blocked. Ignore that and press the menu button top right. You'll see the block option there x"

I found it now, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to

I tried to message you to explain how to do it but your filters have me blocked unfortunately. There are 3 lines in the top right hand corner that you can click on and it has an option to block."

Do I?

I have sorted it now, anyway. Thank you for trying x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I try to reply if a man has made an effort to write a nice message. And I have actually had some really good conversations even though they know I won't meet them. "

Why are chatting to people on a sex site with no intention of meeting them?

They probably think they had a chance because you carried on the conversation.

Just very pointless and wasting time to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

Because then you get the moaning of guys saying it's rude not to reply at all and even a thanks but no thanks would be better. Damned if you do... Why you want the false hope of getting a reply for it to be a rejection.

Like them on the Apprentice when Alan Sugar sacks them and they say thanks.

I wouldn't say anything, just leave.

I don't know, closure, a definite answer, the fact some guys are so attention starved that even a reply saying no thanks is just a reply. This place is probably a psychologists wet dream for the behaviour of certain people.

Have had several meets before, by being persistent over a period of time, trying again in a couple of months has worked though.

Yeah just doesn't make much sense to me "

Ahhh but where's the line between being persistent and not taking the damn hint?

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By *onnie 90Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Yes you can, I think it's possible through messages and also there's somewhere on that blocked page that allows us to block, I think that might be three little dots, though not quite sure.

Thanks for that. I just counter blocked x

How did you do it, please? I can't see anything...no three dots or nothing.

I would like to counter block someone as that person still can see my updates on my profile status and see me online. I hate that he knows what I'm up to

Go to their profile. It will say you can't see it because you're blocked. Ignore that and press the menu button top right. You'll see the block option there x

I found it now, thank you x"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

Because then you get the moaning of guys saying it's rude not to reply at all and even a thanks but no thanks would be better. Damned if you do... Why you want the false hope of getting a reply for it to be a rejection.

Like them on the Apprentice when Alan Sugar sacks them and they say thanks.

I wouldn't say anything, just leave.

I don't know, closure, a definite answer, the fact some guys are so attention starved that even a reply saying no thanks is just a reply. This place is probably a psychologists wet dream for the behaviour of certain people.

Have had several meets before, by being persistent over a period of time, trying again in a couple of months has worked though.

Yeah just doesn't make much sense to me

Ahhh but where's the line between being persistent and not taking the damn hint?"

Like applying for a job.

Just give it a bit of time and try again.

Always try to message when they are online too. Can get snowed under otherwise.

If you have improved and met others, have new pics etc it can help too.

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By *onnie 90Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I try to reply if a man has made an effort to write a nice message. And I have actually had some really good conversations even though they know I won't meet them. Why are chatting to people on a sex site with no intention of meeting them?

They probably think they had a chance because you carried on the conversation.

Just very pointless and wasting time to me. "

Maybe it's pointless to you, but she's entitled to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. If both parties are happy just to have a chat then it's nothing lost nothing gained. There's nothing wrong with being friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know, closure, a definite answer, the fact some guys are so attention starved that even a reply saying no thanks is just a reply. This place is probably a psychologists wet dream for the behaviour of certain people.

Have had several meets before, by being persistent over a period of time, trying again in a couple of months has worked though.

Yeah just doesn't make much sense to me

Ahhh but where's the line between being persistent and not taking the damn hint? Like applying for a job.

Just give it a bit of time and try again.

Always try to message when they are online too. Can get snowed under otherwise.

If you have improved and met others, have new pics etc it can help too. "

I think my pride would get in the way of that to be honest. If they can't handle me at my 1 dick pic and 0 verifications, they don't deserve me at my teasing photos with 30 verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I try to reply if a man has made an effort to write a nice message. And I have actually had some really good conversations even though they know I won't meet them. Why are chatting to people on a sex site with no intention of meeting them?

They probably think they had a chance because you carried on the conversation.

Just very pointless and wasting time to me.

Maybe it's pointless to you, but she's entitled to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. If both parties are happy just to have a chat then it's nothing lost nothing gained. There's nothing wrong with being friendly."

Just don't think it's nice giving false hope to people, because that's what that is in my opinion.

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Report them if it's abusive

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By *un-n-frolicsMan  over a year ago

London


"Counter block and move on "

What’s the point in counterblocking? Would they ever know?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know, closure, a definite answer, the fact some guys are so attention starved that even a reply saying no thanks is just a reply. This place is probably a psychologists wet dream for the behaviour of certain people.

Have had several meets before, by being persistent over a period of time, trying again in a couple of months has worked though.

Yeah just doesn't make much sense to me

Ahhh but where's the line between being persistent and not taking the damn hint? Like applying for a job.

Just give it a bit of time and try again.

Always try to message when they are online too. Can get snowed under otherwise.

If you have improved and met others, have new pics etc it can help too.

I think my pride would get in the way of that to be honest. If they can't handle me at my 1 dick pic and 0 verifications, they don't deserve me at my teasing photos with 30 verifications."

Got to swallow that pride sometimes, you are single man. Lowest of the low in the swinging hierarchy.

Don't have to sacrifice your self respect though.

Some might just missed your message.

Depends how high you're aiming too.

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Counter block and move on

After they block you can't block them can you? Can't visit there profile

Why would you bother wanting to block them if they’ve blocked you though. I don’t think either can see the profiles. "

So they can't unblock and send more abuse

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone has a opinion . Some will message you and instantly block like a child. I just picture them with fingers in their ears with a bicycle foam helmet on banging on a keyboard like they matter. It helps...

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By *tsJustKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite. "

It wasn't really a rejection message, as we were chatting I just told him I prefer hung guys but didn't say I wasn't interested.

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By *tsJustKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same. "

We're not all the same!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some guys are lucky to even get a reply hahaha. As a grown man I don't see why people act like spoilt kids or be weird. Maybe if I put more hours on here I will get the replies? But in the mean time always smile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

It wasn't really a rejection message, as we were chatting I just told him I prefer hung guys but didn't say I wasn't interested. "

Yeah you've made him feel a bit insecure then.

If I was talking to a curvy woman and said I prefer women who are size 8.

Do you think that would go down well or like a lead balloon?

A lot of this is just common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All I can say is

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

It wasn't really a rejection message, as we were chatting I just told him I prefer hung guys but didn't say I wasn't interested. "

THAT'S what the rejection message was? I'm not saying there's any justification for sending abusive messages but pretty sure that probably provoked it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I try to reply if a man has made an effort to write a nice message. And I have actually had some really good conversations even though they know I won't meet them. Why are chatting to people on a sex site with no intention of meeting them?

They probably think they had a chance because you carried on the conversation.

Just very pointless and wasting time to me.

Maybe it's pointless to you, but she's entitled to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. If both parties are happy just to have a chat then it's nothing lost nothing gained. There's nothing wrong with being friendly. Just don't think it's nice giving false hope to people, because that's what that is in my opinion. "

That's a reflection upon yourself.

There are a few guys that pop up occasionally for a chat, knowing we'll not meet.

This site can be more than a shag, to many.

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By *wingin CatMan  over a year ago

London

Welcome to the world of free membership, where every flotsam and jetsam weirdo can join and not have to pay a penny.

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By *m3232Man  over a year ago

maidenhead

Wankers remorse lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!"

They must be stupid doing that ! Dammmm you look amazing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's all a blocking game .. great fun ..

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By *airyboxMan  over a year ago

sheffield

What a sad pathetic creature….

So he couldn’t handle being rejected.. god there’s some egos around aren’t there..

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By *andy2123Couple  over a year ago

Portsmouth

Men!!!!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I agree. I’ve never messaged back if I’m not interested. Deleted and blocked. Never had a nasty message in 8 years. Every time I see the numerous threads like this I wonder why people don’t do the same.

We're not all the same!"

Did I say we were? Just showing a way to ensure you won’t have to put up with that again.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan  over a year ago

Okehampton

Nice tits Kate!

((What was this thread about, I got distracted))

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Welcome to the world of free membership, where every flotsam and jetsam weirdo can join and not have to pay a penny."

That isn't the issue.

I've noticed several complain they haven't yet had a meet when they're site supporters.

A paid site may well boost self entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kate fuck the haters! Not literally obviously you should actively avoid that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I try to reply if a man has made an effort to write a nice message. And I have actually had some really good conversations even though they know I won't meet them. Why are chatting to people on a sex site with no intention of meeting them?

They probably think they had a chance because you carried on the conversation.

Just very pointless and wasting time to me.

Maybe it's pointless to you, but she's entitled to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. If both parties are happy just to have a chat then it's nothing lost nothing gained. There's nothing wrong with being friendly. Just don't think it's nice giving false hope to people, because that's what that is in my opinion.

That's a reflection upon yourself.

There are a few guys that pop up occasionally for a chat, knowing we'll not meet.

This site can be more than a shag, to many.

"

Maybe so, I don't join a join a sex site to make platonic or virtual friends though.

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By *oxy jWoman  over a year ago

somerset


"I just think of it as the trash taking itself out "

the perfect way of saying it ...

dont let it get to you i just laugh now and think easy block and thanks for letting me know your an asshole

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!"
So you started a thread about it...... Why? Just move on thats an everyday occurrence here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never understood rejection messages though.

What is the point in them?

It is some kind of power trip.

Just don't reply and delete message, people get the hint.

No way a woman can reply to all so it's not just being polite.

I try to reply if a man has made an effort to write a nice message. And I have actually had some really good conversations even though they know I won't meet them. Why are chatting to people on a sex site with no intention of meeting them?

They probably think they had a chance because you carried on the conversation.

Just very pointless and wasting time to me.

Maybe it's pointless to you, but she's entitled to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. If both parties are happy just to have a chat then it's nothing lost nothing gained. There's nothing wrong with being friendly. Just don't think it's nice giving false hope to people, because that's what that is in my opinion.

That's a reflection upon yourself.

There are a few guys that pop up occasionally for a chat, knowing we'll not meet.

This site can be more than a shag, to many.

Maybe so, I don't join a join a sex site to make platonic or virtual friends though.

"

I get that, though some do. Look at how people connect through the forums, friendships begin and grow.

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By *onestjohn1962Man  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!"

They want shagging with a pineapple.

How dare they?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!So you started a thread about it...... Why? Just move on thats an everyday occurrence here "

Maybe because she felt like having a rant about it and getting it off her chest??

I think that's allowed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some people call it a swinger's site. Some people call it a sex site (i wish I had some clarification of what the creator wanted the site to actually be lol) Some use it just for fucking. Some use it for the social side, some like to fuck today without any knowledge of the other person , others like to know more than that.

OP wanted to rant, Everyone wanted to comment, everyone's entitled to their opinion.

So rant on OP

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By *onnie 90Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some people call it a swinger's site. Some people call it a sex site (i wish I had some clarification of what the creator wanted the site to actually be lol) Some use it just for fucking. Some use it for the social side, some like to fuck today without any knowledge of the other person , others like to know more than that.

OP wanted to rant, Everyone wanted to comment, everyone's entitled to their opinion.

So rant on OP "

Well said!!

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!So you started a thread about it...... Why? Just move on thats an everyday occurrence here

Maybe because she felt like having a rant about it and getting it off her chest??

I think that's allowed"

More negativity on top of negativity, bad news sells so they say but nobody's buying lets keep it positive, you get blocked they weren't for you move on

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By *hogun300Man  over a year ago

Dundee

When this happens on couples profile I will sometimes report as well, depending on what has been sent.

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By *tsJustKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!So you started a thread about it...... Why? Just move on thats an everyday occurrence here

Maybe because she felt like having a rant about it and getting it off her chest??

I think that's allowed"

Yes, that was what I wanted to do, thanks!

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By *tsJustKate OP   Woman  over a year ago

London


"Yet another rejected coward leaves a message and then blocks. So pathetic, grow up!So you started a thread about it...... Why? Just move on thats an everyday occurrence here "

Because I wanted to. Did it affect you in any way??

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By *mwirralMan  over a year ago

wirral

Always seems silly to block someone for saying no thanks

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