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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got into a heated debate a few days ago about fighting (womens bitch fights)
someone called an aqquantance a fat cow (think was the cunt word) over christnas and new year peroid and ended up being a silly bitch fight hair pulled and other friends joining in!
I have saw friends killed and scarred for life so fighting makes me feel uneasy in bars and clubs. I wasnt there btw
2 wrongs dont make a right and me personslly I would have walked away, but now I dont want nothing to do with her
question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate violence and when a fight breaks out i do get scared and make sure everyone i am with is safe. The town where i live is shocking for it,. people getting stabbed in pubs,.glasses, half beaten to death. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate violence and when a fight breaks out i do get scared and make sure everyone i am with is safe. The town where i live is shocking for it,. people getting stabbed in pubs,.glasses, half beaten to death. "
Mostly alcohol-related too. The demon drink has a lot to answer for - but then people think they can drink more than they can handle, to the point where they are no longer in control or able to rationalise  |
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Yrs ago I had a bad temper I hate bullies so if I ever saw to friends pickin on 1 person I used to give my friends a smack. Nowdays I can't be bothered with it. I prefer to teach my grandaughter the wrongs of bullyin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate violence and when a fight breaks out i do get scared and make sure everyone i am with is safe. The town where i live is shocking for it,. people getting stabbed in pubs,.glasses, half beaten to death.
Mostly alcohol-related too. The demon drink has a lot to answer for - but then people think they can drink more than they can handle, to the point where they are no longer in control or able to rationalise "
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question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed?"
If there is a valid reason for an action then the action is also valid by default... the question is what would make it valid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed?
If there is a valid reason for an action then the action is also valid by default... the question is what would make it valid."
Glad to say I've not yet found an answer to that one....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't see a valid reason for two people to use violence over name calling. There's not much that I could see a valid reason for which violence would be acceptable.
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tHANK YOU
this was also my view and they thought i was being jumped up over it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got into a heated debate a few days ago about fighting (womens bitch fights)
someone called an aqquantance a fat cow (think was the cunt word) over christnas and new year peroid and ended up being a silly bitch fight hair pulled and other friends joining in!
I have saw friends killed and scarred for life so fighting makes me feel uneasy in bars and clubs. I wasnt there btw
2 wrongs dont make a right and me personslly I would have walked away, but now I dont want nothing to do with her
question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In self defense or in the defense of family members, then yes every time.
I would never start a fight though and most people that know me know not to try. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"In self defense or in the defense of family members, then yes every time.
I would never start a fight though and most people that know me know not to try."
You give them a Paddington hard stare and they take a step back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed?
If there is a valid reason for an action then the action is also valid by default... the question is what would make it valid."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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of anyone hurt one of my family or friends then yes I would not only condone it but I would be the over doing it, I have a crippled left hand to show for it :/
But name calling, no thats just silly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fighting is a last resort in my book, unless it is for self preservation. Then, and only then, must you do what you have to do and make a good job of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hate it - grew up with a mum who shouted, threw things, walloped for no reason , my marriage ended cos of violence - i will do anything to avoid confrontation as it scares me witless |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
Fighting is only ever justified in self defense or when protecting one's children or family and only as a very last resource when there is no other option.
I dislike violence, name calling, nullying in any shape or form and would rather walk away from it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got into a heated debate a few days ago about fighting (womens bitch fights)
someone called an aqquantance a fat cow (think was the cunt word) over christnas and new year peroid and ended up being a silly bitch fight hair pulled and other friends joining in!
I have saw friends killed and scarred for life so fighting makes me feel uneasy in bars and clubs. I wasnt there btw
2 wrongs dont make a right and me personslly I would have walked away, but now I dont want nothing to do with her
question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed?"
I never condone violence in any circumstance (and now I don't mean soldiers etc, just general public).
I want nothing to do with it, or people who think it is the way to earn respect or that it is acceptable.
The better person be it male or female walks away every time imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never condone violence in any circumstance (and now I don't mean soldiers etc, just general public).
I want nothing to do with it, or people who think it is the way to earn respect or that it is acceptable.
The better person be it male or female walks away every time imo.
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Its interesting you mention soilders, Whislt they have my respect War is simply politically sanctioned murder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the reason. I've never started a fight but I've got into quite a few because I'll stand my ground. It came with the territory. Where I grew up backing down was seen as a sign of weakness and you'd wind up getting a kicking anyway. I learnt at school that the best way to get people to leave you alone was to convince them you were a nutter. That required some examples of it tho.Last one was years ago tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would fight the devil himself for my daughter, but not for any other reason, mothers instinct I guess. I abhor any type of violence, so it's a contradiction I know, but it's what we'd do for our kids. People of a certain age should know better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't beat a good catfight
On a serious note though drink has a large part to play and people seem to think they are invincible when under the influence.Best thing to do is walk away the justice system never seems to be in favour of the victim these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't condone fighting and will always try to walk away, however I have been in fights before now...not for many years though.
Looking back now they were usually over something insignificant and tensions grew, but at the time I felt they were justified as I was defending myself/a friend/a family member. I never started them, and all the fights I have been in would be a result of someone hitting me...often whilst my back was turned...and where I grew up if you didn't fight back you became a target so I guess it almost became reflex to retaliate.
I still would never start a fight but I would defend myself/friends/family if I needed to...hopefully though not because of a bit of name calling! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be a doorman (bouncer don't like that word) in Manchester in the mid 90s, seen people very badly hurt and even shot for the most trivial things, during the drug wars! Now I hate violence of any kind, if you cross the wrong person you could be signing your on death warrant. Just not worth it. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I got into a heated debate a few days ago about fighting (womens bitch fights)
someone called an aqquantance a fat cow (think was the cunt word) over christnas and new year peroid and ended up being a silly bitch fight hair pulled and other friends joining in!
I have saw friends killed and scarred for life so fighting makes me feel uneasy in bars and clubs. I wasnt there btw
2 wrongs dont make a right and me personslly I would have walked away, but now I dont want nothing to do with her
question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed?"
Even if I do FEEL violent and aggressive towards someone I never act on it. Walk away always. I would only ever fight if it was genuine self-defence and I was in danger of injury or further injury.
Adults fighting is just poor behaviour which we should have grown out of by the age of 15 or 16, or even younger. |
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"i saw something which upset me the other night... a fight in a fish and chip shop, some poor fish got well battered !!!
i know i know, not funny!"
I thought it was funny............ the fish didn't |
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"i saw something which upset me the other night... a fight in a fish and chip shop, some poor fish got well battered !!!
i know i know, not funny!
I thought it was funny............ the fish didn't"
ha ha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's only acceptable with a couple of gallons of baby oil. "
Now being serious... Adults shouldn't be fighting. No need at all. It freaks me out and I have to get out the way. Like someone else said, people in the past have been killed by a single punch. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got into a heated debate a few days ago about fighting (womens bitch fights)
someone called an aqquantance a fat cow (think was the cunt word) over christnas and new year peroid and ended up being a silly bitch fight hair pulled and other friends joining in!
I have saw friends killed and scarred for life so fighting makes me feel uneasy in bars and clubs. I wasnt there btw
2 wrongs dont make a right and me personslly I would have walked away, but now I dont want nothing to do with her
question:do you condone fighting if its a validreason or do u think its not needed?
Even if I do FEEL violent and aggressive towards someone I never act on it. Walk away always. I would only ever fight if it was genuine self-defence and I was in danger of injury or further injury.
Adults fighting is just poor behaviour which we should have grown out of by the age of 15 or 16, or even younger."
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By *teborahCouple
over a year ago
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Have worked door security most of my adult life and can confirm the worst fights are when pissed up females are involved. they grow bollocks the size of space hoppers and don't know when to stop  manys the time I have had to lend them my jacket as they have ripped their clothes to pisces. Nutters everyone of ya's |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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"Have worked door security most of my adult life and can confirm the worst fights are when pissed up females are involved. they grow bollocks the size of space hoppers and don't know when to stop manys the time I have had to lend them my jacket as they have ripped their clothes to pisces. Nutters everyone of ya's "
blokes have a fight and an hour later there best mates and sharing a pint girls have a fight and all there mates join in then its on facebook in the bus que at the till in aldi then finnaly on jeremy kyle ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it takes a bigger person to walk away from trouble than it does to turn round and slap someone
Ive never hit anyone in my life and i never will, even when people have had a go at me i will not lower my standards and fight, they can call me all the cawards in the world i dont care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it takes a bigger person to walk away from trouble than it does to turn round and slap someone
Ive never hit anyone in my life and i never will, even when people have had a go at me i will not lower my standards and fight, they can call me all the cawards in the world i dont care"
I think that's a great view to take and I totally agree but there are times I would make a stand and fight for example if i had to defend my daughter or my home. |
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I've always been brought up to "fight smart" and never let a bully push someone else around.
I'd happily take the piss and humiliate a bully for picking on someone weaker or smaller than them - that usually works. But if I see someone smacking around a weaker or smaller person, I'll step in to help stop the bully.
I've once watched a bloke back hand a woman (pretty hard too) because she didn't want anything to do with him in a club - nobody stepped in so I stepped in and lamped him, picked him up and hauled him over to one of the bouncers with his arm up his back.
Doesn't always pay to be the good guy though - little shit tried to have me done for assault.
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By *xpresMan
over a year ago
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"Nothing good ever comes from it. I'd be the bigger person and walk away "
But if you turn your back to walk away the kids nowadays will glass or bottle you from behind (saw it happen last xmas eve)
People will fight its human nature... stay clear n stay safe |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Nothing good ever comes from it. I'd be the bigger person and walk away
But if you turn your back to walk away the kids nowadays will glass or bottle you from behind (saw it happen last xmas eve)
People will fight its human nature... stay clear n stay safe"
No, I disagree. SOME people will fight as they have little self-control. Many people walk away. |
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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago
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Many are too illiterate and socially inept to win an arguement by using words alone so they resort to bad mouthing someone to get a reaction which they can stand a chance of winning. In turning around and walking away you win and they lose because their words have no meaning and their sense of self importance is seriously damaged beause their words have no value. If it gets taken to the next level, then, they win because their words do have a value. Always best to walk away, it takes two to argue and neither one comes out on top. |
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"Many are too illiterate and socially inept to win an arguement by using words alone so they resort to bad mouthing someone to get a reaction which they can stand a chance of winning. In turning around and walking away you win and they lose because their words have no meaning and their sense of self importance is seriously damaged beause their words have no value. If it gets taken to the next level, then, they win because their words do have a value. Always best to walk away, it takes two to argue and neither one comes out on top."
I agree with this apart from if there is paddling pool full of mud and the women are wearing swim wear. Then it is game on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It only takes one punch to equal life imprisonment or a bit less for manslaughter equals your life and your families life ruined as well as the victims family |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
Blackpool |
"I hate violence and when a fight breaks out i do get scared and make sure everyone i am with is safe. The town where i live is shocking for it,. people getting stabbed in pubs,.glasses, half beaten to death. "
are from blackpool then ? |
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Put it to good use elsewhere, and yes I'd give them all a very wide berth in future 
