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"I was never all that popular, but when I first joined it was hundreds and hundreds a day. After I'd been here a year, it was 30 to 150+ a day.
(My filters mean that no longer happens)"
Same here. Filters is where it's at! I get maybe 20 - 30 a day if I'm on line.
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"I was never all that popular, but when I first joined it was hundreds and hundreds a day. After I'd been here a year, it was 30 to 150+ a day.
(My filters mean that no longer happens)
Same here. Filters is where it's at! I get maybe 20 - 30 a day if I'm on line.
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My filters are set so no one new can message me. On average less than ten a day, all from people I want to talk to |
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Haha was just a question because I was thinking how do you siv through the shit , but filters narrow it down significantly durrrr .. but just shows how many off us guys are actually on this site maybe their should be a fabswingers sister account for us single swingers , but then again is it even swinging if your just meeting singles with no couple ?  |
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If I'm not online and don't have a status or new pictures up, around 30 randoms and a couple from people I like to talk to.
On days I'm active and posting in the forums or adding photos well over 100. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"If I'm not online and don't have a status or new pictures up, around 30 randoms and a couple from people I like to talk to.
On days I'm active and posting in the forums or adding photos well over 100."
That’s not many at all.
Considering you can see the profile pic and gist of the message without even opening it, it can’t take more than a couple of minutes each day to quickly scan and delete them one by one ? Then maybe open read one or two that look promising before deleting them too?
Guys can all stop complaining now they aren’t getting laid because women get too many messages. |
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When I first joined I was getting between 500 - 1000+ and just started to bulk delete as that’s not manageable.
Now that I have filters on and actively use block function for those that aren’t my type, abusive, pushy etc it can range from 20 if I’m not on to 200/400+ if I pop up a meet
Being a size 16 with no public face pics I can’t even imagine what some of the other ladies that are literally stubby with perfect figures get hit with |
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over a year ago
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"If I'm not online and don't have a status or new pictures up, around 30 randoms and a couple from people I like to talk to.
On days I'm active and posting in the forums or adding photos well over 100.
That’s not many at all.
Considering you can see the profile pic and gist of the message without even opening it, it can’t take more than a couple of minutes each day to quickly scan and delete them one by one ? Then maybe open read one or two that look promising before deleting them too?
Guys can all stop complaining now they aren’t getting laid because women get too many messages. "
Or start complaining they don't get a response to a message ?? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Usually between 0 and 2 a day thanks to tight filters or else no one likes my profile  Whichever it is it suits me I don't want a load of messages,sometimes if I add a new pic it might go up to about 7 or 8 .But that's usually the most in any day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hundreds when I first joined but I started blocking out things like new and no pics. If if I'm online and unhidden messages are a steady stream until I log off but when I'm hidden I just get messages from friends or from forum chat which are usually welcome anyway
I'd love to block single men because 99% are thirsty or gross but the 1% I can have a convo with make me smile so I ignore the 99% instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha was just a question because I was thinking how do you siv through the shit , but filters narrow it down significantly durrrr .. but just shows how many off us guys are actually on this site maybe their should be a fabswingers sister account for us single swingers , but then again is it even swinging if your just meeting singles with no couple ? "
I have most of the filters on and think my age limits are 27 to 40ish x |
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The number of messages I get varies depending on how long I’m on line etc. if I post a pic - particularly a face pic - it increases exponentially. I very rarely post pics now as the extra messages from all over the uk rarely turn into a great meet - and that’s what I’m here for. |
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"The number of messages I get varies depending on how long I’m on line etc. if I post a pic - particularly a face pic - it increases exponentially. I very rarely post pics now as the extra messages from all over the uk rarely turn into a great meet - and that’s what I’m here for.
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Judgeing by your pics I could offer
you a great meet. The things I could do to that wonderful body . but you have your own criteria of what your looking for. I'm sure there younger men that would be of more interest to you. But thank god you post your. Pics and its great see and to read what you post on forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can depend, when our profile expresses we're not looking, the amount of messages do drop, a lot.
Which leads me to believe there are more profile readers than we may realise. 
When we're looking, it can easily be around 200.
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I don't get any most days.
Sometimes people message me for advice. Not wise really.
Sometimes a random sends a message instead of commenting in the forum.
Sometimes people take me serious and want to ask a question.
Today ... I got 4! cos I used the word anal in the forum.
Cocks must be like antennae |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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currently on this profile its zero as my filters are all up so no one can contact me ... on our couples account anything from 5 to 20/30 a day unless we are actively looking to meet then that number shoots up alot ... when you have regular guys to meet then youy dont need to be looking most of the time |
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P had her own account to chat to women only, but she was inundated with messages from guys. Just as soon as she deleted messages, she'd receive more back. In the end she gave up. Didn't keep the profile long enough to bother with filters |
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"I don't get any most days.
Sometimes people message me for advice. Not wise really.
Sometimes a random sends a message instead of commenting in the forum.
Sometimes people take me serious and want to ask a question.
Today ... I got 4! cos I used the word anal in the forum.
Cocks must be like antennae "
So that’s why I got that random stiffy!! |
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It very much varies for me, too. As I have my filters up, for example non-verified people cannot message me - it does not take a rocket scientist to get photo verified. I think this one, plus no newbies, helps the most with keeping my inbox highly manageable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question is, how many women that posted to this topic received a DM relating to this thread ???
I’ve sent a cock pic to them all…"
Thank You, that's a very clever angle you got yourself in. |
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