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By *ukeit17 OP Man
over a year ago
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I have a sort of issue I guess and looking for some advice:
I really want to penetrate a woman anally. Unfortunately my partner just can't do it, I've tried to park the idea in my head, but can't stop thinking about it.
Has anyone got any advice how I can find someone to help me out with my small problem and allow me to explore with them? As with most guys on here I struggle to get any responses.
Thanks,
Luke. |
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over a year ago
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Generally couples don't to anal play with strangers so that idea is a very long shot, single ladies are a hot ticket item and anal only play is niche so the chances are slim (but not non existent)
Best bet is probably a lady of a more professional nature. |
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As with most things the answer is nearly always talk.
Talk to her aviut how much you want to try it. Then work up to it using lots and lots of lube.
But if its still a no it's a no. |
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Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum) |
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"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum) "
Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal. |
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"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)
Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal. "
Funny man we know your not being serious as we've seen you on the forums and you seem pretty decent but there are those gobshites that can't tke no for an answer lol |
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"I have a sort of issue I guess and looking for some advice:
I really want to penetrate a woman anally. Unfortunately my partner just can't do it, I've tried to park the idea in my head, but can't stop thinking about it.
Has anyone got any advice how I can find someone to help me out with my small problem and allow me to explore with them? As with most guys on here I struggle to get any responses.
Thanks,
Luke. "
Some women just don't like it, they think its dirty, demeaning or just damn painful. As said before its about trusting your partner that they are not going to do anything that will take away the closeness of it. I am a lucky man my wife loves anal and mixed in with other sexy activities it is awesome. |
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I came here for the anal exploding too...
Does that say more about our minds I wonder?  
Op, training with toys, lube and taking it slow at your partners pace is the way to go. Just the tip rimming is a sensual way to start 
Cherry x  |
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"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)
Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal. "
Fuck me your profile just had me laughing! |
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"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)
Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal.
Fuck me your profile just had me laughing!"
Thank you Chicken, that’s very forward of you! |
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If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..
If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.
Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?
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"As with most things the answer is nearly always talk.
Talk to her aviut how much you want to try it. Then work up to it using lots and lots of lube.
But if its still a no it's a no. "
Its already a no ... |
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"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum) "
Maybe 3 things. Maybe if the woman wants anal sex is important too. |
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"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..
If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.
Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?
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No, but that sounds like a very clever approach to getting lots of oral! |
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"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..
If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.
Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?
No, but that sounds like a very clever approach to getting lots of oral! "
Okay sonny assume the position ! |
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"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..
If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.
Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?
No, but that sounds like a very clever approach to getting lots of oral!
Okay sonny assume the position !"
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I love the title of the post is missing a letter. I had.to.click to see if.it was anal exploring,anal exploding or anal exploiting. Either way had promise so I figured I could t lose. Lots of lube and I don't know if you know about pah pourss but they will solve your problem.i can't say the word it won't let me but it would be an extention of pop |
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"I have a sort of issue I guess and looking for some advice:
I really want to penetrate a woman anally. Unfortunately my partner just can't do it, I've tried to park the idea in my head, but can't stop thinking about it.
Has anyone got any advice how I can find someone to help me out with my small problem and allow me to explore with them? As with most guys on here I struggle to get any responses.
Thanks,
Luke. "
another single with a couple issue, speak to her like you just did to a load of strangers |
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"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum)
Damn. Was just about to DM you both asking for anal.
Fuck me your profile just had me laughing!
Thank you Chicken, that’s very forward of you! "
You’re very welcome! Never backwards in coming forward, me. Also been known to come sideways. And by anal actually which now makes this comment vaguely relevant |
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It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques  |
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I can never get why a guy would want to ass fuck a lady who wasn’t really into it?? My pleasure isn’t in her ass (tbh it does feel that much different to pussy) but it seeing and feeling how much pleasure she is getting from it ! |
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"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques "
Jezzz that sounds more like a women in labour lol  |
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"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques "
4 fingers in the arse,  |
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"Having anal with your partner is all down to 2 things lots and lots of lube and 100% trust we feel it makes our connection closer and the orgasms are mind blowing. (remember replies should be kept in the forum) "
And patience!
Some men just have no idea and want to rush straight in. |
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"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques
4 fingers in the arse, "
Not the fucking kitkat again ! Can I have the orange one this time please |
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"If someone does not want anal sex ..... they do not need anal 'training' ..
If anal sex is that important to you O.P. I really do hope that you get that experience with someone who wants that experience too.
Has anyone ever heard of a bloke who says he doesn't do oral ..... then being 'trained' ?
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I am so with you on this one Granny. I find it almost infuriating how so many people are advising him to presure his partner into it. If she doesn't want it, she doesn't want it. Period.
My husband and I have tried to give it a go many times, in many ways with lots of time and patience (and lube) and it still hurts and makes me uncomfortable. I can't imagine someone would push me to do it just because they really want it.
Maybe it's time to look for a new partner if getting anal with someone else is more important for you than she is
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"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques
4 fingers in the arse,
Not the fucking kitkat again ! Can I have the orange one this time please"
that’s twice people have misquoted and gone along with it! 3 fingers I said and being about the girth of a cock it should make sense |
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"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques
4 fingers in the arse, "
struggling to see where I said feed the pony to the arsehole… 3 fingers slowly and incrementally shouldn’t be a problem for anyone really but each to their own |
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By *ukeit17 OP Man
over a year ago
Bristol |
It's not really an issue between us... We've tried a few times but she's just very tight and we've got to a point that she doesn't want to go further. I have no problem with that, I would never force anyone into pursuing something that isn't for them. But I still want to try it, so I'm just after someone that can help me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can’t be a wham bam sort of approach when it comes to anal I’ve found and have had no issues when eased in gently! By that I mean oral while slowly easing a finger in and taking it from there, by the time things have relaxed and they are able to take three fingers your generally at a stage where things become much more comfortable for penetration. A lot comes down to being relaxed, comfortable and breathing techniques
4 fingers in the arse, struggling to see where I said feed the pony to the arsehole… 3 fingers slowly and incrementally shouldn’t be a problem for anyone really but each to their own "
Please stop going on about how many fingers it will take to stretch a bum hole  you’ve went into more than enough detail now  |
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"It's not really an issue between us... We've tried a few times but she's just very tight and we've got to a point that she doesn't want to go further. I have no problem with that, I would never force anyone into pursuing something that isn't for them. But I still want to try it, so I'm just after someone that can help me... "
Just your wife mind you finding a bumhole to fuck. |
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