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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
Rejection, Ghosting, Self Hate
I write words all the time saying I am Enough
But still there are times I hate and loath myself
No self worth no self love
But I know I am enough
Time cures the hate
It makes me feel better
But yet right now I hate me |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"Rejection, Ghosting, Self Hate
I write words all the time saying I am Enough
But still there are times I hate and loath myself
No self worth no self love
But I know I am enough
Time cures the hate
It makes me feel better
But yet right now I hate me "
Ask why you hate yourself |
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I find myself in a constant state of juxtaposition and contradiction.
Simultaneously the most amazing person and less than something unpleasant stuck to the bottom of a shoe. The shy exhibitionist. So prone to making sure the truth is known though lies.
I think sometimes everyone slips into the darker side of what they know to be true. But you're good Arty. Don't let the bastards grind you down  |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"I find myself in a constant state of juxtaposition and contradiction.
Simultaneously the most amazing person and less than something unpleasant stuck to the bottom of a shoe. The shy exhibitionist. So prone to making sure the truth is known though lies.
I think sometimes everyone slips into the darker side of what they know to be true. But you're good Arty. Don't let the bastards grind you down "
I've battled before with myself in the past ups downs believing in yourself but annoyed with yourself.. reason I asked him is because if you go through a phase of feeling like that you have to ask yourself why and most of the time we know the answer.. it's about changing that part we are not happy with.. level up .. a lot of the time with men it's about work, career, achievements and money.. men need to feel respected in life it's a genuine need.. |
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"Rejection, Ghosting, Self Hate
I write words all the time saying I am Enough
But still there are times I hate and loath myself
No self worth no self love
But I know I am enough
Time cures the hate
It makes me feel better
But yet right now I hate me "
Ffs so many people hateing themselves pack it in there plently of people out there can do it for you .the minds a real pain at times .hope you overcome it . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rejection, Ghosting, Self Hate
I write words all the time saying I am Enough
But still there are times I hate and loath myself
No self worth no self love
But I know I am enough
Time cures the hate
It makes me feel better
But yet right now I hate me "
Sometimes the internal shitty committee takes over. Acknowledge it and respectfully tell it you don't want to listen.
Try not to speak/think about yourself in a way you wouldn't tolerate someone else else speaking about your best friend. You owe yourself that much x |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
Your born with the cards your dealt with .. if your 5.5" you need to be successful strong interesting charismatic.. if your 6.5" again the same .. to sit and complain is asinine.. your viewing yourself in this way. ! People don't understand how lucky they are You could of been in a car crash and lost your legs it's pure luck that life has got you are able bodied and capable of learning .. use this advantage level up and be the man |
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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
I know I am enough it is just a point in time
I am enough
When you look in the mirror
The mirror of self doubt
The reflection of you looking at me
You have that feeling of not being enough
Flawed by society the media your peer
You feel not worthy not fitting their design
They tell you that you need this and that to shine
When that reflection looks back at you
Tell it you love it that’s it the best you
Self love we’re told is vanity and ego
Learn to love yourself as you love others
You’re worth it all and so much more
Love your self to the core
If you can not love yourself with no fear
Then how can you love those you hold dear
Forget the bullshit that you don’t fit
Ignore that blemish stray hair or zit
Society tells us how we should be
It’s bullishit and lies that feeds wet eyes
Wipe those tears and say to yourself
I am enough for me and for you
The you is your inner self l
Self love self care make them be
The number one thing top priority
I AM ENOUGH |
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"Rejection, Ghosting, Self Hate
I write words all the time saying I am Enough
But still there are times I hate and loath myself
No self worth no self love
But I know I am enough
Time cures the hate
It makes me feel better
But yet right now I hate me "
Self love is easier said than done as we can be our own worst enemies.
Just tell yourself no one can say or make you feel bad as much as your own mind.
Words do cut deep it’s how we deal with them that matters.
I used to be affected by any thing negative I’m trying to turn my reactions around and not let the words sink deep within me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've spent a long time trying to love myself and my body, so much so I finally got to that point, after my husband helped me with loving myself, however it took one club visit back last summer to instantly take it all back.
I thought I looked pretty damn hot myself, however I came home that night after zero interest and haven't really been the same since. |
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Sorry your feeling this way op, loving yourself is easier said than done when the self hatred is there.
Don’t be too harsh on yourself, it’s ok to have days of self doubt. Try to keep smiling, because you do have a lovely smile! |
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Someone spat at me in the street on Sunday. The spit nearly hit me but the hatred didn’t. Boundaries. His hate was his to give not mine to take. I leave it with him.
Do not carry the mountains you intended to climb. It’s a choice. |
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By *rtyIan OP Man
over a year ago
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"Someone spat at me in the street on Sunday. The spit nearly hit me but the hatred didn’t. Boundaries. His hate was his to give not mine to take. I leave it with him.
Do not carry the mountains you intended to climb. It’s a choice. "
If it’s outside my circle of control it goes in the fuckit bucket, well it’s more of a skip than a bucket. Others thoughts and words are just that. The mind can be a cruel Mistress at times x |
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Hated myself for way 2 long due to an abusive husband that told me daily I was fat/ugly and no-one would ever want me! I now love myself and how I look to the point of vanity maybe? But I'm good with that x |
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"Someone spat at me in the street on Sunday. The spit nearly hit me but the hatred didn’t. Boundaries. His hate was his to give not mine to take. I leave it with him.
Do not carry the mountains you intended to climb. It’s a choice. "
Love to you. People can be dicks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"His hate was his to give not mine to take. I leave it with him.
That is a fucking beautiful, and powerful, way to think about hate. Massive respect to you for that. "
Thank you. |
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