"Like I don’t get it don’t be on here if you ain’t guna show face or body "
I didn't for awhile when I first joined - joined on a whim, nearly got round to it then landed in hospital.
I'd say most instances it's not a good sign that people are who they say they are. There are exceptions |
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By *elen999Woman
over a year ago
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I find this rude, people have lives and discretion is needed, I’ve sent pics to a handful of people out of 2000+ messages /interactions . As I say if you need a photo before there’s interest than move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own reason for being here and their own reason for having a profile they way they want it.
If you find it suspicious just move on to a person that you’re more compatible with, easy.
A quick word to the wise though, judging others for their reasons doesn’t tend to come off too well |
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"We don't send face pictures to everyone who asks.
You already have a picture on your profile thou "
Oh I see what you were saying now, I misread.
I'd find it a sign of them not being who they say they are or not interested in us. Then I'd have a chocolate digestive and move on to my next vict...er I mean person |
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"I find this rude, people have lives and discretion is needed, I’ve sent pics to a handful of people out of 2000+ messages /interactions . As I say if you need a photo before there’s interest than move on "
100%agree with you on that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find this rude, people have lives and discretion is needed, I’ve sent pics to a handful of people out of 2000+ messages /interactions . As I say if you need a photo before there’s interest than move on "
2000 interactions? 
I’ve never been interested in minimal profiles. It lacks effort…..
Oh sorry, your a woman.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone find it suspicious when no photo profile makes excuses about sending a picture  "
Not really. I’d have guessed much earlier than that I’m not convinced.  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Don't interact with blank profiles if it annoys you. Lots of people won't send face pics early on I know I won't.And yes I know I have pics up but I also don't interact with blank profiles anymore. Because I don't see the point if they can't make an effort at all with their profile I can't be bothered chatting to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It annoys me more when they demand pics prior to talking but refuse to send any in return "
I turned a meeting with a couple I was getting on well with (ikr) because they wouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't send face pictures to everyone who asks. If I like them and can see a connection building or possible meet sure.
If I'm unsure and just wasting time chatting then no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone find it suspicious when no photo profile makes excuses about sending a picture "
I usually say either "you have no photos" or " can I have a photo please"
If they don't send one, it's conversation over ... |
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By *istalloverCouple
over a year ago
Pays de la Loire -Normandie -Brittany borderFrance |
We ask for fade pics before a meet
Had a persistent shadow once ask why we wouldn't meet without a pic .
We replied you could look like Jimmy Saville
He then blocked us
Beware there may a be long blonde haired shell suit wearing cigar smoking perv on here amongst us . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not suspicious no, but I'd not be interacting with them. I'm not going to invest time and effort on a prolonged exchange with someone with a view to meeting them for sex unless there's an initial physical attraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone find it suspicious when no photo profile makes excuses about sending a picture "
If they want to send one they can but l don't find it a bit suspicious if they don't , when they don't want to meet etc then it's road up, l certainly won't keep chatting when they're not interested in meeting. |
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"I don't understand why someone would interact with a blank profile in the first place"
There's other insights into people and their character.
I would interact with someone if I was enjoying what they were saying but then if I get to wanting to meet .... i have to see them first and understand that they need to see me.
That doesn't mean that when someone says you should have a pic on your profile that I oblige and it doesn't mean that when someone sends a message saying ... you got a pic .... that I rush to send one.
I tend to let folk know if I have an interest in them and then we 'voice' and then see each other on camera.
I've always worked that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand why someone would interact with a blank profile in the first place
There's other insights into people and their character.
I would interact with someone if I was enjoying what they were saying but then if I get to wanting to meet .... i have to see them first and understand that they need to see me.
That doesn't mean that when someone says you should have a pic on your profile that I oblige and it doesn't mean that when someone sends a message saying ... you got a pic .... that I rush to send one.
I tend to let folk know if I have an interest in them and then we 'voice' and then see each other on camera.
I've always worked that way"
Of course there are other insights, a pretty picture isn't all, I might chat with someone who displays only a silhouette if I think they have something interesting to say, but I will never arrange a meet. |
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