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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Can I get a general cencus on this ..

If I see a new lady on my searches ie only just joined , I won't message them as I think that as soon a they pop up they get 20,000 messages straight away ..any other guy think like that ? Or do you go for a punt?

Also ladies ...am I right or wrong about this . If you are newly joined do you get an influx straight away ? X just curious xx love you all :0)

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By *il sub princessWoman  over a year ago

West Midlands


"Can I get a general cencus on this ..

If I see a new lady on my searches ie only just joined , I won't message them as I think that as soon a they pop up they get 20,000 messages straight away ..any other guy think like that ? Or do you go for a punt?

Also ladies ...am I right or wrong about this . If you are newly joined do you get an influx straight away ? X just curious xx love you all :0)"

I'm not new, but yes women do & it continues

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair

I don't send messages.

But I agree, your approach makes sense.

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By *luffy FairyWoman  over a year ago

west LDN

Best to wait for at least a week if you actually want a chance of her reading it lol I still have loads of unread, as my inbox went mental and I can’t go back, it’s actually annoying me as I can’t clear them.

Unless you think you’ve got a very good chance, send a great message and hopefully she will check out your profile.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

For me it's dependant on the profile.

I won't take a punt simply because they're new.

But yes I'd imagine when a woman signs up on here, the influx of messages is probably quite a lot, and it probably won't let up either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I feel many don't share that sentiment. I'd had some issues with my current profile, so had set up a new one. Totally blank, no pics/bio... I think within the space of 24hrs that it was up, I got more messages than I get within a collective week on my current profile (obviously when not hidden). So either I'm a total minger. Or blokes spot fresh meat and give it a punt before they think someone snatches em up

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I feel many don't share that sentiment. I'd had some issues with my current profile, so had set up a new one. Totally blank, no pics/bio... I think within the space of 24hrs that it was up, I got more messages than I get within a collective week on my current profile (obviously when not hidden). So either I'm a total minger. Or blokes spot fresh meat and give it a punt before they think someone snatches em up "

Just what I thought is the case ...why message a blank profile just cos it's female ..that stinks of desperation x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel many don't share that sentiment. I'd had some issues with my current profile, so had set up a new one. Totally blank, no pics/bio... I think within the space of 24hrs that it was up, I got more messages than I get within a collective week on my current profile (obviously when not hidden). So either I'm a total minger. Or blokes spot fresh meat and give it a punt before they think someone snatches em up

Just what I thought is the case ...why message a blank profile just cos it's female ..that stinks of desperation x

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I get messages from men......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I feel many don't share that sentiment. I'd had some issues with my current profile, so had set up a new one. Totally blank, no pics/bio... I think within the space of 24hrs that it was up, I got more messages than I get within a collective week on my current profile (obviously when not hidden). So either I'm a total minger. Or blokes spot fresh meat and give it a punt before they think someone snatches em up "

It's the fresh meat thing. Hoping to get a promiscuous woman before she's shagged too many people.

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By *ussle SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

I don’t use the search function or send messages so I can’t offer an opinion on that.

What i will say is hold back on sending a message because more often than not the profile will be gone within a week.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Women do get overwhelmed with messages here 24/7 but give it a go I would say x

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By *ull English with teaMan  over a year ago

London

As I general rule I won’t message someone unless they have been on here a while and have a couple of veris.

I do imagine new women profiles get bombarded.

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