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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago
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Inspired by a forum friend
Have you ever been won over, ignored your instincts, went against your usual, or simply had your taste changed by another fab user? In fact doesn't have to be fab, just anyone. Or at least gone from loathing to comfortable tolerance... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and whilst it was briefly good and served me well at the time.... I do wonder if it was worth the way it ruined me and how it ended.
I'm done with ever ignoring a gut feeling again.
Done with feels. |
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No because I don't have the time, the energy or the inclination to give second chances.
I have done in the past and always without fail discovered that my original assessment had been correct.
On here there is even less chance because I'm not here to pander to other peoples whimsy. |
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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago
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"Nope. It takes a lot to make me dislike someone. But once I’m there I’m never coming back. "
What about the reverse?
I don't mean from dislike to like, but sort of indifferent or not your usual to something you never thought you would enjoy company of/converse with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, one of my best female friends (just friends) married a complete twat.after a year with her he became a rather nice chap… I’m sure it was her wonderfulness but well done him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope.
I can never get them to change their mind either
Its not you, its their narrow mindedness and refusal to change and see what's good. "
No. They are right |
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"Yes, one of my best female friends (just friends) married a complete twat.after a year with her he became a rather nice chap… I’m sure it was her wonderfulness but well done him!"
Actually, outside of fab this has happened to me and now one of my best mates, didn’t like each other amongst our wider group at university (as both I guess very similar and kinda in competition) for the best part of a year but then just bonded and became a a double act and thick as thieves. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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i can in the flesh get on with anyone im just that type of person i chat with anyone and everyone ... however swinging / fab wise then no i stick within my preference i know what i like sexually and what i dont when it comes to people i would never have sex with someone i dont at the very least find sexually attractive and yes of course that not it all but it deffo my starting point ..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. It takes a lot to make me dislike someone. But once I’m there I’m never coming back.
What about the reverse?
I don't mean from dislike to like, but sort of indifferent or not your usual to something you never thought you would enjoy company of/converse with. "
I’m very open minded about people. If anything I’m the one people tend to be a bit unusual to. So I’m somewhat dependent on others making that leap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. It takes a lot to make me dislike someone. But once I’m there I’m never coming back. "
Same.
All in or all out.
I'll be an adult and civil or professional if it's required but I do file people away under 'dead-to-me' or 'acquaintance' to move on. Basically, they're out of my trust, out of my circle. |
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"Yes and whilst it was briefly good and served me well at the time.... I do wonder if it was worth the way it ruined me and how it ended.
I'm done with ever ignoring a gut feeling again.
Done with feels."
Same. Same. Same  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes and whilst it was briefly good and served me well at the time.... I do wonder if it was worth the way it ruined me and how it ended.
I'm done with ever ignoring a gut feeling again.
Done with feels."
It's hell when you put your trust in someone and you're really a " come into my web said the spider to the fly " , l personally will always trust my gut..my feelings..l didn't do it once and paid the price, the way l look at it , no act of kindness goes unpunished, an asshole will always be an asshole, if a thing doesn't feel right it's usually not .l understand exactly what you mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone in my life gets a clean slate .. everyone...what they do with or what they put on that slate depends wether they remain in my life ,life is way to short to try and humour the wrong type of people , my time is way too precious,if l don't get on with a person or visa versa that's life but l won't spend my life trying to appease someone that will always be an asshole in my life , if a person makes a fool of you once shame on them , if they make a fool out of you twice shame on you . |
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