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Anyone had any ‘bunny boiler’ experiences from here?
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By *aytie0 OP Woman
over a year ago
Seaham |
Considering we never really know who we’re meeting as they’re usually strangers on here, I was just wondering if anyone’s had any strange or bunny boiler-esque experiences on here? Especially since some people are married / have partners but still have people come to their homes etc.
I’ve had a few creepy guys turn up at my work and reference this site and stuff but nothing serious. On the flip side, I myself did get a bit attached to a married guy I had a fling with as well… |
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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago
Fife/ Newcastle |
I had an experience with a lady I met through fab who I invited to my home twice for fun meets, but she seemed to think she could just show up unannounced at various times of the day and night afterwards which was awkward when I had family or friends visiting. I had to be very very blunt to put a stop to it.
Hence why I prefer hotel meets until I an comfortable that people are fairly sane before I would consider inviting them to my home.
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I've had someone get creepy in messages and posting status updates naming me with suggestions for what I should wear in new pics.
I blocked her and many months later I looked at my block list and she was doing exactly the same with another male fabber.
I've also had someone contact some of my verifications asking them to persuade me to get in touch as she was outside my age filters. When they refused she started a thread in my name hoping I would react positively.
Someone I used to think was a fab friend has all the traits based simply on her obsession with what everyone else is doing and the fact she keeps files on everyone she chats to, including screenshots of messages and facepics.
So no bunnies were hurt to the best of my knowledge but the pot has been simmering for a long time. |
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On my 1st profile, a female who got nasty towards me because she had wanted by a gent that was a fb of mine.
And I've had a male friend who was pissed off at me because of someone that I had met.
Both found out via my veris.
I don't show my veris anymore |
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"I had one Princess demand money as December was an expensive month and they needed to sort their budget!  "
Only one?
I dread the festive season. They all expect value added Christmas cards.
Only a couple of days ago I got a text message from a self crowned 'Queen'(not a mere Princess) stating 'Christmas you didn't give me notting(sic) why?'
I was tempted to reply with 'God loves triers' but thought it better not to inflame the situation. Some questions don't need answering. |
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over a year ago
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"I've had someone get creepy in messages and posting status updates naming me with suggestions for what I should wear in new pics.
I blocked her and many months later I looked at my block list and she was doing exactly the same with another male fabber.
I've also had someone contact some of my verifications asking them to persuade me to get in touch as she was outside my age filters. When they refused she started a thread in my name hoping I would react positively.
Someone I used to think was a fab friend has all the traits based simply on her obsession with what everyone else is doing and the fact she keeps files on everyone she chats to, including screenshots of messages and facepics.
So no bunnies were hurt to the best of my knowledge but the pot has been simmering for a long time. "
Keeps files on people?!!!  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I had one Princess demand money as December was an expensive month and they needed to sort their budget!
Only one?
I dread the festive season. They all expect value added Christmas cards.
Only a couple of days ago I got a text message from a self crowned 'Queen'(not a mere Princess) stating 'Christmas you didn't give me notting(sic) why?'
I was tempted to reply with 'God loves triers' but thought it better not to inflame the situation. Some questions don't need answering."
They do get around. It wouldn’t surprise me in the slightest if it was the same person given the stories I have heard from others who had dealings with the same Fab Royal! |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
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One lady that my husband had met 3 times messaged me to tell me how much she cared about him and was worried about his self esteem..
Ok petal....I'll let him know... she then messaged me again after he cut contact, asking me to speak yo him on her behalf  |
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"I had one Princess demand money as December was an expensive month and they needed to sort their budget!
Only one?
I dread the festive season. They all expect value added Christmas cards.
Only a couple of days ago I got a text message from a self crowned 'Queen'(not a mere Princess) stating 'Christmas you didn't give me notting(sic) why?'
I was tempted to reply with 'God loves triers' but thought it better not to inflame the situation. Some questions don't need answering.
They do get around. It wouldn’t surprise me in the slightest if it was the same person given the stories I have heard from others who had dealings with the same Fab Royal! "
Mine was not a Fabber. No way would I start naming and shaming other users.
I couldn't imagine a quicker way of exacerbating an already sensitive situation. |
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We had someone turn up at our house and knocked on the door, saying he'd been told he'd find "fun" at our house. He didn't reference our username but he did ref the site. The even weirder thing was we've never given our address to anyone on Fab at all. It was very unsettling because the man wasn't for leaving. Mr KC stood on the drive talking to him and trying to make him go away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had persistent individuals that still pop up under new profiles.
Some more disturbing than others.
In real life, my exhusband stalked me for a long time both online and in person. It stopped for a while but restarted recently. Probably because our divorce completed.
People need to learn to move on as far as their actions go even if they can't move on emotionally. |
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"I've had someone get creepy in messages and posting status updates naming me with suggestions for what I should wear in new pics.
I blocked her and many months later I looked at my block list and she was doing exactly the same with another male fabber.
I've also had someone contact some of my verifications asking them to persuade me to get in touch as she was outside my age filters. When they refused she started a thread in my name hoping I would react positively.
Someone I used to think was a fab friend has all the traits based simply on her obsession with what everyone else is doing and the fact she keeps files on everyone she chats to, including screenshots of messages and facepics.
So no bunnies were hurt to the best of my knowledge but the pot has been simmering for a long time.
Keeps files on people?!!! "
Exactly that. I mentioned it in another thread about how she was able to send me unsolicited facepics and personal details of people she had met 2 years previously.
It's all currency to be used at will and the strangest or funniest part is that they are all forum besties and I would be curious to know how the others feel about their details being shared.
They can't be stupid enough not to know because she has obviously shared stuff with them too. |
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over a year ago
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"I've had someone get creepy in messages and posting status updates naming me with suggestions for what I should wear in new pics.
I blocked her and many months later I looked at my block list and she was doing exactly the same with another male fabber.
I've also had someone contact some of my verifications asking them to persuade me to get in touch as she was outside my age filters. When they refused she started a thread in my name hoping I would react positively.
Someone I used to think was a fab friend has all the traits based simply on her obsession with what everyone else is doing and the fact she keeps files on everyone she chats to, including screenshots of messages and facepics.
So no bunnies were hurt to the best of my knowledge but the pot has been simmering for a long time.
Keeps files on people?!!!
Exactly that. I mentioned it in another thread about how she was able to send me unsolicited facepics and personal details of people she had met 2 years previously.
It's all currency to be used at will and the strangest or funniest part is that they are all forum besties and I would be curious to know how the others feel about their details being shared.
They can't be stupid enough not to know because she has obviously shared stuff with them too. "
Have you let the people in the pics/info know? |
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"I've had someone get creepy in messages and posting status updates naming me with suggestions for what I should wear in new pics.
I blocked her and many months later I looked at my block list and she was doing exactly the same with another male fabber.
I've also had someone contact some of my verifications asking them to persuade me to get in touch as she was outside my age filters. When they refused she started a thread in my name hoping I would react positively.
Someone I used to think was a fab friend has all the traits based simply on her obsession with what everyone else is doing and the fact she keeps files on everyone she chats to, including screenshots of messages and facepics.
So no bunnies were hurt to the best of my knowledge but the pot has been simmering for a long time.
Keeps files on people?!!!
Exactly that. I mentioned it in another thread about how she was able to send me unsolicited facepics and personal details of people she had met 2 years previously.
It's all currency to be used at will and the strangest or funniest part is that they are all forum besties and I would be curious to know how the others feel about their details being shared.
They can't be stupid enough not to know because she has obviously shared stuff with them too.
Have you let the people in the pics/info know?"
No they are all people I've had blocked for years. |
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Yes! At first it was just a load of messages so I blocked him, then he started turning up at the gym, when I was doing my shopping and once when I was trying to eat a bacon cheese turnover in my car. The distress caused me to get crumbs everywhere and I was doing well to avoid making a mess up until that point.
That truly was the worst part of it all. |
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"Yes! At first it was just a load of messages so I blocked him, then he started turning up at the gym, when I was doing my shopping and once when I was trying to eat a bacon cheese turnover in my car. The distress caused me to get crumbs everywhere and I was doing well to avoid making a mess up until that point.
That truly was the worst part of it all. "
Now when you say everywhere... |
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"Yes! At first it was just a load of messages so I blocked him, then he started turning up at the gym, when I was doing my shopping and once when I was trying to eat a bacon cheese turnover in my car. The distress caused me to get crumbs everywhere and I was doing well to avoid making a mess up until that point.
That truly was the worst part of it all.
Now when you say everywhere..."
A crumby cleavage, Mag. A very crumby cleavage. I am still finding crumbs to this day |
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"Yes! At first it was just a load of messages so I blocked him, then he started turning up at the gym, when I was doing my shopping and once when I was trying to eat a bacon cheese turnover in my car. The distress caused me to get crumbs everywhere and I was doing well to avoid making a mess up until that point.
That truly was the worst part of it all.
Now when you say everywhere...
A crumby cleavage, Mag. A very crumby cleavage. I am still finding crumbs to this day"
*Doing that weird hand-fanning myself thing. |
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Had one woman message me saying my partner was having an affair with her, he had met her a couple of times I was aware off because we tell each other everything, she had also met quite a few guys I had met and I feel like she was trying to compete a little. I basically told her if my partner was having an affair she kinda ruined it for herself by telling me lol cause he certainly won't be meeting her again |
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over a year ago
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"Had one woman message me saying my partner was having an affair with her, he had met her a couple of times I was aware off because we tell each other everything, she had also met quite a few guys I had met and I feel like she was trying to compete a little. I basically told her if my partner was having an affair she kinda ruined it for herself by telling me lol cause he certainly won't be meeting her again "
I had something similar! No affair as I was single, but a girl I knew on here kept meeting all the lads I'd had verify me on my previous account. She'd then ask them details about having sex with and how she compared to me, if she was better etc.
It got really uncomfortable  |
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"Had one woman message me saying my partner was having an affair with her, he had met her a couple of times I was aware off because we tell each other everything, she had also met quite a few guys I had met and I feel like she was trying to compete a little. I basically told her if my partner was having an affair she kinda ruined it for herself by telling me lol cause he certainly won't be meeting her again
I had something similar! No affair as I was single, but a girl I knew on here kept meeting all the lads I'd had verify me on my previous account. She'd then ask them details about having sex with and how she compared to me, if she was better etc.
It got really uncomfortable "
Yeah I think she did the same asking for details etc as she described my physical features too. I would meet someone then a couple of days later she had met them, starting avoiding the men she had met after that and hid my veris. I'm still with my partner and we are celebrating 7 years next month.
I also had someone message of my veris around the same time that was happening. |
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3 times. 3 FUCKING TIMES!
Last one involved deleting my account here, email, chucking the sim from my phone and going UNLOS for 6 months, then cautiously rejoining under an entirely different name and basically stalking all the posters here for a few weeks, to make sure the crazy had gone away.
and this is why i rarely meet forum people now...i shouldn't join a club that would have me as a member!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to. |
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to. "
How the feck does someone turn up at our house expecting "fun" when we've never given our address to anyone from the site, nor discussed our use of the site with anyone other than Fab members? I.e none of our friends or family know we have a profile. But this exact thing happened to us - see earlier post. |
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Had one incident where I had to contact the police due to a complete nutter who stalked me at work and used to sit outside my house when he found out where I lived, hence the main reason no-one ever comes to my house. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to.
How the feck does someone turn up at our house expecting "fun" when we've never given our address to anyone from the site, nor discussed our use of the site with anyone other than Fab members? I.e none of our friends or family know we have a profile. But this exact thing happened to us - see earlier post."
I wonder if he used the who's near function and took a guess. |
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to.
How the feck does someone turn up at our house expecting "fun" when we've never given our address to anyone from the site, nor discussed our use of the site with anyone other than Fab members? I.e none of our friends or family know we have a profile. But this exact thing happened to us - see earlier post.
I wonder if he used the who's near function and took a guess."
He said a person called X told him. We don't have any friends or family by the name he used BUT someone who works for a local trade has that name and would know our address BUT that person shouldn't know about our profile! But we had no other explanation....... |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to.
How the feck does someone turn up at our house expecting "fun" when we've never given our address to anyone from the site, nor discussed our use of the site with anyone other than Fab members? I.e none of our friends or family know we have a profile. But this exact thing happened to us - see earlier post.
I wonder if he used the who's near function and took a guess.
He said a person called X told him. We don't have any friends or family by the name he used BUT someone who works for a local trade has that name and would know our address BUT that person shouldn't know about our profile! But we had no other explanation......."
He might be on here and recognised you from your pics and profile.
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to.
How the feck does someone turn up at our house expecting "fun" when we've never given our address to anyone from the site, nor discussed our use of the site with anyone other than Fab members? I.e none of our friends or family know we have a profile. But this exact thing happened to us - see earlier post.
I wonder if he used the who's near function and took a guess.
He said a person called X told him. We don't have any friends or family by the name he used BUT someone who works for a local trade has that name and would know our address BUT that person shouldn't know about our profile! But we had no other explanation.......
He might be on here and recognised you from your pics and profile.
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Yeah. Anyway, we have moved now! |
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Not on here but had one woman who started ok but then was wildly possessive and started behaving really unpredictably… i put a stop to it and a cple Months later she messaged me to explain she had taken some
New Meds which had Made her go a bit loopy - but she was Fine now…. Was still a no!! |
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"Yes! At first it was just a load of messages so I blocked him, then he started turning up at the gym, when I was doing my shopping and once when I was trying to eat a bacon cheese turnover in my car. The distress caused me to get crumbs everywhere and I was doing well to avoid making a mess up until that point.
That truly was the worst part of it all. "
OMG, that's criminal! Making you drop bits of your bacon cheese turnover!! Under the circumstance I feel sure that any judge would understand if you ran him down and backed the car over him just to be certain... |
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to. "
Mine started off innocently enough with a Facebook request with someone that I vaguely knew and we shared dozens of mutal friends. |
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to. "
Well that's nonsense. |
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Arranged a meet with a lady once. We had spoken and messaged a while before meeting. So I turn up and go up to her house. Invites me in, we chat I have a brew. Then we go upstairs and things get hot in the bedroom.
We finish and while lying in bed talking she's already planning the wedding. Wants to meet the parent and my kids. Planning on having kids. And making other plans.
As hard as I tried to leave the more she talked and insisted I stop the night.
It went from something good to a nightmare. Eventually I forced myself to leave making excuses.
Oh my god WTF worst ever meet I was so relieved running to the car and getting off quickly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a guy that stalked us briefly but we’d seen from his verifications before we blocked him that he seemed to regularly attend a certain club.
We went along to that club for a few weeks till Diego eventually found him. |
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I had a few notes pushed through the letterbox from 1 person. Bad enough but they weren't even within envelopes, so they were open for anyone to read the sender's traumatic situation of how they were now sex starved, because of my withdrawal
I don't do pity fucks and if someone stokes my anger, by disrespectful intrusion, there's no redemption for them |
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"Arranged a meet with a lady once. We had spoken and messaged a while before meeting. So I turn up and go up to her house. Invites me in, we chat I have a brew. Then we go upstairs and things get hot in the bedroom.
We finish and while lying in bed talking she's already planning the wedding. Wants to meet the parent and my kids. Planning on having kids. And making other plans.
As hard as I tried to leave the more she talked and insisted I stop the night.
It went from something good to a nightmare. Eventually I forced myself to leave making excuses.
Oh my god WTF worst ever meet I was so relieved running to the car and getting off quickly lol"
But I'd planned a beautiful wedding dress, my heart was set on it  |
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Not from here but another popular V-et life (F) site, we declined a meet with a women who was attached, that turned into constant harassment, threats to myself & kids, by threats I mean extremely detailed ins and outs of how she was going to end me (Mrs) while the kids watched, along with phone calls through the night, it was quite scary tbh, I had to get their legal department involved, we removed all accounts here and on there.
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"I had an experience with a lady I met through fab who I invited to my home twice for fun meets, but she seemed to think she could just show up unannounced at various times of the day and night afterwards which was awkward when I had family or friends visiting. I had to be very very blunt to put a stop to it.
Hence why I prefer hotel meets until I an comfortable that people are fairly sane before I would consider inviting them to my home.
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I had a social with a guy recently who had the same problem. I can't believe it. Don't know what's wrong with people.
I was talking to a guy through the chat who thought he owned me and could tell me what to do and then tried to use what he knew against me... scary but taught me to be more careful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be a minefield so we now use a seperate mobile phone for this site, also very careful before inviting someone to the house. We have had unwanted callers, hate texts, threats etc so be careful out there! |
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"On my 1st profile, a female who got nasty towards me because she had wanted by a gent that was a fb of mine.
And I've had a male friend who was pissed off at me because of someone that I had met.
Both found out via my veris.
I don't show my veris anymore"
People go crazy with them!! One of my last meets got lots of messages asking questions about me etc. I like reading veris but not to be a post afterwards! |
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In my early twenties i was seduced by a friends wife. We ended up having an affair and she was insatiable with a thing for fucking outside.
Her friend used to cover for and we had threesomes and more with her and others ... I learned a lot!
Anyway, her husband found out and I thought that was the end of it but apparently not! She would turn up at my house, work and bars etc when i was out but i had moved on and got a girlfriend but couldn't shake her off.
That was until one night i was out with a mate, who knew all the details, and he was telling me I should keep fucking her.
A little later she turned up and I stuck to my guns and told her we were done. To 'retaliate' she said she was going to fuck my mate in the toilet ... I guess an attempt to make me jealous?
Anyway, a year later my mate was still trying to get rid of her as she latched on to him instead of me!
We had some wild sex but she was defintely a bunny bolier! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading through this thread is quite scary!
It's another valid reason why I wouldn't invite anyone back to our house, until I'd known them for years, or divulge where I work.
There is no need to take unnecessary risks. Value your privacy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a guy who wanted more than just swinging. I didn't. He then left notes on family cars and on neighbours cars telling then i was a swinger. He must have followed me home because i didn't tell him where i lived. Had to involve the police to stop him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. A few online stalkers and one crazy lady who tried to stop me leaving her apartment so I couldn’t leave - because nothing is sexier than imprisonment!  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to.
How the feck does someone turn up at our house expecting "fun" when we've never given our address to anyone from the site, nor discussed our use of the site with anyone other than Fab members? I.e none of our friends or family know we have a profile. But this exact thing happened to us - see earlier post."
Your face is in your pic, people aren't stupid they recognise you, maybe live local to you |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Had woman whom i had an affair with, she got a bit too attached over a tear ago... then out of nowhere a friends request on fb the other week."
I’ve accepted a few in the past. But then had ones that then go comment on every single picture of you ‘gorgeous, hot etc’ |
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"No. I'm careful about revealing my identity and can't say I'm inclined to get attached to anyone on here. These things don't happen by accident. They happen because you allow them to.
How the feck does someone turn up at our house expecting "fun" when we've never given our address to anyone from the site, nor discussed our use of the site with anyone other than Fab members? I.e none of our friends or family know we have a profile. But this exact thing happened to us - see earlier post.Your face is in your pic, people aren't stupid they recognise you, maybe live local to you "
The pic in question wasn't there when that happened. And it's blurred  |
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