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So tell me about your first club visit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A rabbit caught in headlights 
It was a daytime visit with a Fb.
Had my first experience of more than one pair of hands on me at once.
Loved the sensation.
Was hooked on the endorphins of it from that day.  |
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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago
Welwyn garden city |
We were lucky enough to join a club takeover by the Bedhoppers and Wanderlust swingers. They had a group chat and pre event drinks, so got to know a few people before we arrived. Didn't get to play, but had a great time. Not sure we would have plucked up the courage to go otherwise. Definitely going to more clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First club was partners at a BDSM event I had done socials for weeks first so was fine going in. Did the kink events for 5 years before swing
First swing event was PURE at townhouse, I already knew everyone from the kink. I watched all night in awe then late on ended up in a 3some 
Never looked back since! Absolutely love the clubs they are my social life I don't have vanilla friends! |
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Kestrels on a sunday, very relaxing and spa like
The Attic on a party night, lots of fun
I like both as they provide different experiences, and now lots of socials are leading onto clubs, I'm hoping to try a few new ones this year  |
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The old Kestrels with a former FB. Both never been before and quite nervous. After a quick dip we decided to just go for it and went down to the old stables where we fucked in front of about 10 ppl and we both discovered a love of exhibitionism!
Certainly broke the ice and we enjoyed lots of days of fucking and fun there |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Xtasia for us many years ago, met a couple on holiday who told us about it, they held our hands and took us, Will was nervous to how it would be and if I’d be ok, I was fine just had visions of a very dark room with tall tables with red lights on, not sure why lol I didn’t expect it to be just like a regular club with extra friendly people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arranged to meet a friend there, had it planned for weeks.
The knobhead was off to Barcelona to watch the football....And knobhead got stuck out there.
Pissed off I decided to go anyway, absolutely shat myself walking towards the doors, was about to turn around and the owner spotted me, asked if I was going in. I explained what happened and how nervous I was with it being my first time. He was lovely, talked to me for ages before offering to show me round, if I didn't like it I could just leave...
So he showed me round, everyone was friendly and welcoming. I decided to stay and had a great time.
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"Arranged to meet a friend there, had it planned for weeks.
The knobhead was off to Barcelona to watch the football....And knobhead got stuck out there.
Pissed off I decided to go anyway, absolutely shat myself walking towards the doors, was about to turn around and the owner spotted me, asked if I was going in. I explained what happened and how nervous I was with it being my first time. He was lovely, talked to me for ages before offering to show me round, if I didn't like it I could just leave...
So he showed me round, everyone was friendly and welcoming. I decided to stay and had a great time.
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Good for you, that’s really brave and brill you had a great time |
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Chams Newport for BBW night. Was going alone, but noticed post from another lady also going alone and we agreed to meet up. Had social few days before, went along, with a male friend of hers. Got chatting with another couple there, who were very interested in my strap-on. Ended up with the two other ladies being played with by 3 guys and myself.
Having come from years in the BDSM scene, I wasn't bothered about going to clubs alone as single female, and have since travelled to several alone.
Obviously I don't go with any expectations, but as female looking to play with other females, I don't really get much opportunity to play at clubs, so spend a lot of my night just people watching, which I don't mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was Decadent Nights back in 2014. I was so scared. Totally out of my comfort zone. Turned out It was a great evening,, everyone was really kind and respectful. Didn’t play that night, but most definitely did the next time. Became quite regular. Shame it’s gone now. It was a great club |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
I attended Pleasures with a close male friend- it was the 1st time either of us had been, so we didn't play, just scoped the place out & absorbed the atmosphere. I would like to go back & get a bit more involved sometime though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Arranged to meet a friend there, had it planned for weeks.
The knobhead was off to Barcelona to watch the football....And knobhead got stuck out there.
Pissed off I decided to go anyway, absolutely shat myself walking towards the doors, was about to turn around and the owner spotted me, asked if I was going in. I explained what happened and how nervous I was with it being my first time. He was lovely, talked to me for ages before offering to show me round, if I didn't like it I could just leave...
So he showed me round, everyone was friendly and welcoming. I decided to stay and had a great time.
Good for you, that’s really brave and brill you had a great time "
Thank you! I love it, not been in ages Xx |
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My first club was Legs800, I'd seen it mentioned on a few TV sites. Have to admit I was but nervous, but soon started enjoying myself. Then I joined here and saw the bi night a VA on here. Didn't live too far away at the time. Just before I was due to go I a female asking if anyone wanted to share a hotel room near by. Messages her and met her at the hotel. Fun started before we even got to the club. Sadly she's non longer on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Libertys was an eye opener lol ...everyone was really friendly .. we was abit shy and didn't join with anyone but was naughty together ... May our next club visit we will be braver  |
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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago
Birmingham (3nts) |
Cj's in Glasgow, 2 venues back...
Trans events to begin with then the Fun for all events.
Have been to several clubs around the UK and have always found them safe welcoming environments in the whole. |
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Not great, felt and looked like Butlins, I was quite surprised as it just all felt a bit run down and naff. Wouldn't go again as part of a 3 single girl group to a club.
Went to another in North London was much better, (even with unsolicited gropings), but that bothered me less than it might others. Certainly, the decor and music were better. |
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Was lucky enough to have arranged a first meet at the club. She showed me around, we got followed by the silent wankers (she called them "the wanking dead"). They put me off a bit so we only played in the private room. It was good overall, but it put me off ever going as a single guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was hellfire for a meet and had great fun with them didn't use much of facilities but enjoyed watching others.
I then went to Kestrels on a Sunday and loves it got to know a few people and countiue to go once a month |
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