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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone here like taken people with permission specifically more than single people? Is there a kink to it?
I love taken people! Makes me feel like a true don. Am I the only one? No. So reveal yourselves you dirty dogs! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I take my husband every week and I have to request permission. The paperwork is a fucking ballache
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How about you let me piledrive you, no paperwork required? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All about the person as per. The taken thing doesn't really change it.
I used to think it was hot and it was a bit of a turn on but sort of moved past that. "
I hope I don't age. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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When I first started swinging I did like it, with couples, flirting and seducing the Mrs while having dinner together and then taking her off for the night.
I think the attraction was I got the best bits with no risk of a relationship. With single people there’s the chance they will eventually want more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The novelty quickly wears off, I have found, from experience. And even worse, when I’ve played with a couple, adored them together, and then tried playing with either (or both  ), on a separate basis - the magic had gone 
I have a pretty good idea I know why that is/was. |
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I always used to actively avoid meeting anyone without their partner if they had one.
One of my partners is the first married one I've ever accepted, and that was after making sure the missus was definitely okay with it. I like it a lot more than I expected. There's a lot less pressure, a lot less worry that they're going to want more from me than I can give or find someone they want to be monogamous with and drop me entirely. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The novelty quickly wears off, I have found, from experience. And even worse, when I’ve played with a couple, adored them together, and then tried playing with either (or both ), on a separate basis - the magic had gone
I have a pretty good idea I know why that is/was."
I remember this story when you talked to me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take my husband every week and I have to request permission. The paperwork is a fucking ballache
F
How about you let me piledrive you, no paperwork required?"
Piledrive... Hmmmm, is that like pushing through my piles to fuck me in the ass? Because OK.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I take my husband every week and I have to request permission. The paperwork is a fucking ballache
F
How about you let me piledrive you, no paperwork required?
Piledrive... Hmmmm, is that like pushing through my piles to fuck me in the ass? Because OK.
F"
It's a date! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t mind meeting attached people who’s partners don’t know but I won’t meet those who’s partners do know. It’s not for me"
That seems the opposite attitude to many people on here. Interesting |
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"The novelty quickly wears off, I have found, from experience. And even worse, when I’ve played with a couple, adored them together, and then tried playing with either (or both ), on a separate basis - the magic had gone
I have a pretty good idea I know why that is/was."
I think you should divulge to me over a cuppa  |
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"No. I don’t mind meeting attached people who’s partners don’t know but I won’t meet those who’s partners do know. It’s not for me
That seems the opposite attitude to many people on here. Interesting "
It will be. It’s a swingers site. I’m not a swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never used to find it a turn on when I first joined as I still had a bit of a vanilla mindset that it was still someone's wife. Now I think I've moved past that psychologically where I can enjoy it and not think about that part of it too much. It doesn't get me going but it doesn't restrain me either  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t mind meeting attached people who’s partners don’t know but I won’t meet those who’s partners do know. It’s not for me
That seems the opposite attitude to many people on here. Interesting "
Cheaters gonna cheat
Haters gonna hate
Some people prefer to meet cheaters because the cheater stands to lose more if it gets out who they are meeting!
Others believe a cheater is unlikely to form emotional attachments.
Some just don’t care about the lives that can be ruined as they didn’t commit to the unknowing partner.
Ultimately, you do who you want! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend not to ask too many questions
I am of the opinion that most people here have some complexity in their personal life
If they choose to provide detail, that is their choice
I am quite open on my profile that I am not single and, on the occasions I do play, it isn't an issue at home
My OH plays too, but not from here. Again, that isn't a problem for me
It is neither a turn on nor a turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone here like taken people with permission specifically more than single people? Is there a kink to it?
I love taken people! Makes me feel like a true don. Am I the only one? No. So reveal yourselves you dirty dogs!"
My situation would blow a lot of minds if only they knew |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm taken.
As long as you're not a threat he will let you bang me.
Do you wanna bang?
I'm a threat but I also wanna bang. Can we negotiate?"
You're not a threat don't worry he has seen that you work at the local Bingo Hall so he ain't worried love |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm taken.
As long as you're not a threat he will let you bang me.
Do you wanna bang?
I'm a threat but I also wanna bang. Can we negotiate?
You're not a threat don't worry he has seen that you work at the local Bingo Hall so he ain't worried love "
If you checked your fuckin DMS you'd have a better idea of my work!
But also I'll take the fuck. Yes please. 2 nights in a hotel but no more unless you do all the freaky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm taken.
As long as you're not a threat he will let you bang me.
Do you wanna bang?
I'm a threat but I also wanna bang. Can we negotiate?
You're not a threat don't worry he has seen that you work at the local Bingo Hall so he ain't worried love
If you checked your fuckin DMS you'd have a better idea of my work!
But also I'll take the fuck. Yes please. 2 nights in a hotel but no more unless you do all the freaky"
I am sorry love I am also ignoring about 10 other people I am in the middle of a conversation with I promise I'll get around to it eventually before I am elderly and dry.
You want me for two nights? I feel so loved. We can make silly videos showing people how to clean toilets and twerk on rooftops. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm taken.
As long as you're not a threat he will let you bang me.
Do you wanna bang?
I'm a threat but I also wanna bang. Can we negotiate?
You're not a threat don't worry he has seen that you work at the local Bingo Hall so he ain't worried love
If you checked your fuckin DMS you'd have a better idea of my work!
But also I'll take the fuck. Yes please. 2 nights in a hotel but no more unless you do all the freaky
I am sorry love I am also ignoring about 10 other people I am in the middle of a conversation with I promise I'll get around to it eventually before I am elderly and dry.
You want me for two nights? I feel so loved. We can make silly videos showing people how to clean toilets and twerk on rooftops."
So romantic! 2 saucy nights indeed. I might even lick your nipple to show my glee at the occasion. Ignore me more it turns me on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I put a ring on it.
It's mine.
End of story."
I do find it interesting how people who openly admit they aren't swingers, joined a swingers website. I know this site can be for anyone and for whatever reason, but look at it this way, I don't crochet, so the last thing I'd join is a crocheting site. I'm not knocking anyone, just genuinely curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I put a ring on it.
It's mine.
End of story.
I do find it interesting how people who openly admit they aren't swingers, joined a swingers website. I know this site can be for anyone and for whatever reason, but look at it this way, I don't crochet, so the last thing I'd join is a crocheting site. I'm not knocking anyone, just genuinely curious."
The difference is sex with feelings versus sex without.
If I was a third it'd be the choice of the couple to share or not.
If I was in a couple I'd choose to never share.
I'm here in search of kink not ENM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I put a ring on it.
It's mine.
End of story.
I do find it interesting how people who openly admit they aren't swingers, joined a swingers website. I know this site can be for anyone and for whatever reason, but look at it this way, I don't crochet, so the last thing I'd join is a crocheting site. I'm not knocking anyone, just genuinely curious.
The difference is sex with feelings versus sex without.
If I was a third it'd be the choice of the couple to share or not.
If I was in a couple I'd choose to never share.
I'm here in search of kink not ENM"
Thank you for your reply  I've actually started a thread as I'm genuinely interested in people's thought processes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I put a ring on it.
It's mine.
End of story.
I do find it interesting how people who openly admit they aren't swingers, joined a swingers website. I know this site can be for anyone and for whatever reason, but look at it this way, I don't crochet, so the last thing I'd join is a crocheting site. I'm not knocking anyone, just genuinely curious.
The difference is sex with feelings versus sex without.
If I was a third it'd be the choice of the couple to share or not.
If I was in a couple I'd choose to never share.
I'm here in search of kink not ENM
Thank you for your reply I've actually started a thread as I'm genuinely interested in people's thought processes."
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