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Is a massage suitable for a first meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. "
I couldn't disagree more, if that's your mindset of a massage then you're setting yourself up for disappointment and dishonourable intentions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet.
I couldn't disagree more, if that's your mindset of a massage then you're setting yourself up for disappointment and dishonourable intentions"
Never been disappointed yet  |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. "
Advocating a massage, otherwise would have just said sex! |
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. "
That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage. "
Indeed. Sex comes in many guises. |
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage.
Indeed. Sex comes in many guises."
Some just want a massage to help with muscle issues etc lol most people like a happy ending.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage.
Indeed. Sex comes in many guises. Some just want a massage to help with muscle issues etc lol most people like a happy ending. "
ISeeing as this is ‘fab’ I didn’t assume the OP was talking about Lymphatic drainage massage  |
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"A ‘massage’ to me is just a euphemism for sex.
I have used it myself plenty of times myself.
So i would assume you’re advocating sex on a first meet. That's normally discussed beforehand? It's not always a sexual thing, That's usually a happy ending type of massage.
Indeed. Sex comes in many guises. Some just want a massage to help with muscle issues etc lol most people like a happy ending.
ISeeing as this is ‘fab’ I didn’t assume the OP was talking about Lymphatic drainage massage "
Probably not no. Lol  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"What’s alls thoughts on a massage for a meet up?"
I think it's like anything else when arranging a Fab meet- discussing what all parties want before the meet is pretty essential. I would be very happy to receive a massage. If this was going to be a prelude to sex, or the masseur wants to give it without anything in return, I'd be happy with either, providing I knew what to expect beforehand |
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By *odders88 OP Man
over a year ago
Northampton |
"What’s alls thoughts on a massage for a meet up?
I think it's like anything else when arranging a Fab meet- discussing what all parties want before the meet is pretty essential. I would be very happy to receive a massage. If this was going to be a prelude to sex, or the masseur wants to give it without anything in return, I'd be happy with either, providing I knew what to expect beforehand "
It could be a prelude to sex, but I think you’d get a feel from each other is it was going to end that way wouldn’t you? |
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I’d say guys that offer massages are just being as subtle as a brick by just looking an in for sex
We did meet a guy on a first time meet and both of us ended up massaging C but it wasn’t billed as a massage and he wasn’t chosen for his massage technique.
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"I’d say guys that offer massages are just being as subtle as a brick by just looking an in for sex
We did meet a guy on a first time meet and both of us ended up massaging C but it wasn’t billed as a massage and he wasn’t chosen for his massage technique.
K"
Yeah, it's not something I think of as a plus when looking for people here |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
No it wouldn't be my ideal first meet. Especially as so many on here use the offer of massage meaning they expect more. So there is no way I would be taking anyone up on that offer. If I wanted a massage I would go to a professional and pay for one knowing there is no hidden agenda. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s alls thoughts on a massage for a meet up?"
No... I don't want someone to rock up with expectations, I don't want someone to harm my 'dodgy' shoulder more. No, I don't want someone I'd be looking for a chat/social with expectating to get my kit off |
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