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Ideal first social
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me it’s a drink or coffee. Just simple and relaxed.
Starbucks or Costa?"
Has to be Costa. Starbucks coffee is too weak. Like my coffe like my men. Strong, sweet, and available. |
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By *rDxx OP Man
over a year ago
Blackpool |
"To me it’s a drink or coffee. Just simple and relaxed.
Starbucks or Costa?
Has to be Costa. Starbucks coffee is too weak. Like my coffe like my men. Strong, sweet, and available. "
Good choice, I prefer costa  |
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Walking.
Like, a stroll or a nature walk or wandering around a city. Something like that, something with movement, probably with coffee because I like to stay on brand.
But yeah. I just find people talk easier when they walk together, as opposed to being sat still opposite each other.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ideal? Pottering around some local independent bookstores. Couple of drinks after.
Or going to an interactive exhibition followed by a jazz night.
Cocktail classes are a lot of fun but maybe best suited to more a date vibe.
Or foraging for wild garlic/elderflower with a walk in the woods. Something to do, talk about.
I don't mind coffee socials/first dates but I like... doing things. I get nervous energy and it's a good thing to pour it into. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ideal? Pottering around some local independent bookstores. Couple of drinks after.
Or going to an interactive exhibition followed by a jazz night.
Cocktail classes are a lot of fun but maybe best suited to more a date vibe.
Or foraging for wild garlic/elderflower with a walk in the woods. Something to do, talk about.
I don't mind coffee socials/first dates but I like... doing things. I get nervous energy and it's a good thing to pour it into."
Great ideas. Shared experiences are definitely a great way to generate conversations and get a vibe as to what the person you're with is like. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Walking.
Like, a stroll or a nature walk or wandering around a city. Something like that, something with movement, probably with coffee because I like to stay on brand.
But yeah. I just find people talk easier when they walk together, as opposed to being sat still opposite each other.
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I can relate to that and wonder if that is because we are not directly facing each other when walking - it tends to facilitates the initial process of getting to know the unknown person I think.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always opt for a no obligation social as a first meet, in a place of the woman’s choosing because I want her to be comfortable.
Chat in a bar/ coffee shop. One time we went for a walk which turned into a passionate snog.
Another time, one lady changed the venue to her house at short notice. I was hardly through the door before she was all over me. What’s a chap to do?….  |
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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago
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"What would your ideal social be , not talking about ending in sex ,but first meet what would you like ? Drink or coffee, maybe crazy golf or theme park for a laugh "
A walk with the option of coffee; something that is casual and not time dependent. If the meet is awful, it's easy to exit after a respectable time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lego shop. That way even if they are a bore I get something out of it! "
This is in fact the perfect answer. You can tell a lot about a person from their pick a brick selection! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Lego shop. That way even if they are a bore I get something out of it!
I had a social in a Lego shop once. When we got there it was very busy and couldn’t get in. We were queuing for blocks "
Lego shop is where you find all the studs! |
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"Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers
Can we add in 10 pin bowling?
I have to warn you, I play to win  "
That’s the only way to play!  |
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"Crazy golf, chips and a walk on the beach. The person who suggests that to me has just found their way into my knickers "
Crazy golf and chips, now that’s perfect. Quick trip round the arcades in a frankly valiant effort to win a cuddly toy and that sounds perfect
Perfect first meet. - no pressure, no expectations, full of laughter, genuinely interesting, and left wanting to do it again and comfortable around one another. |
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