One of the most used lines on veris is…
‘Until next time’
Or a variation of.
It got me thinking how many times do people write this without there ever being a next time.
Wouldn’t it be more honest to write ‘completed’?
What else could you write if you were being completely honest? |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it' |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Completed. 
That's actually brilliant, well played.
I tend to write exactly how I feel. When I first started attending socials I couldn't remember names so I'd get a friend to describe them to me. I'd always put some generic statement like "the sort of person you wouldn't quickly forget".
Think it was a way of appeasing my guilt. |
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I had one or two after which i could have written - soap 0 dodger 1 or ‘my cock didn’t deserve that!!’  but mostly I just say what a lovely time Ive had and if we plan on
Meeting again then its - see you soon! No details thats just not right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications can be something of a spectrum. The more I enjoy myself, the more positive and glowing the veri becomes. Simple.
I may have "forgotten" to write veris for certain meets if I felt uncomfortable.
Whilst we're talking verification clichés, I find "Hands off X, they're mine" pretty generic. Sharing is caring! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it' "
Same.
My filtering process means that I wouldn’t meet anyone if I’m not 100% convinced, and I wouldn’t bother with a veri if i weren’t really interested in seeing them again. 99% of the times there is a “next time”. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it'
Same.
My filtering process means that I wouldn’t meet anyone if I’m not 100% convinced, and I wouldn’t bother with a veri if i weren’t really interested in seeing them again. 99% of the times there is a “next time”. "
I think the longer I’m here the less likely a one off is, so this problem goes away. Social only, social veri, no expectations to meet again…. Sex on first date only if 99.9% sure it won’t be a one off |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
Bath |
"Mediocre shag, would not do again.
I would laugh so hard if I read that
Beard"
Problem is they would never display it
I did once write one saying he was boring and watching paint dry was more exciting.
It was a inside joke though. |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Belfast |
I'll write myself an honest verification if I was to meet myself....
I met this olive on a cocktail stick, lockdown has been harsh on him. He turned up late, flustered, reeking of Brut and desperation whilst apologising for a "work emergency". A shag that was midway between mediocre and average, plenty of enthusiasm and yet uninspiring. In his head he is a selfish fucker, in reality he lives up to his name. Best avoided. |
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HONEST VERIS
“I’m writing this because I really hope they’ll write me one back.”
“I came far too quickly but I’m hoping a positive veri means they’ll overlook that when writing mine.”
“They looked nothing like their pictures but I’m not saying that because nor do I.”
“I’m writing something a bit negative here so they won’t publish this veri because I’m a bit embarrassed about shagging them. But not too negative because I want to do it again.” |
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"I will only write honest veris. If the meet was a shit show I won't do one or it would just say I confirm they are real. A few would have said 'wouldn't touch with a barge pole if my life depended on it' "
I’m sure you would never get a veri like that
Beard |
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"Completed.
That's actually brilliant, well played.
I tend to write exactly how I feel. When I first started attending socials I couldn't remember names so I'd get a friend to describe them to me. I'd always put some generic statement like "the sort of person you wouldn't quickly forget".
Think it was a way of appeasing my guilt."
I was going to go for mission accomplished
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I only verify people if I fully expect to see them again. Generally in the same sort of tone that we use together.
Pretty sure I left a veri that said "Would tolerate again" for one of my favourite people. |
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