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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both either or. But if younger I only find it hot if they're around 5 years younger at least.
Depends on the woman and how hot they are though obviously! |
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Age really doesn’t bother me. And that’s not a “I’ll shag anyone” thing, it’s more that I’m attracted to the person not the age. I’ve been with 30somethings and 50somethings and had equal fun with both.
As long as they’re fun and sexy I’m happy! |
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"When it comes to sex partners, which do you prefer?"
Younger men for everything for me. Don't need or want an older man talking like he's my father with all his "friendly advice" I carry alot of wisdom on my shoulders from the age of 18 and at 34 I have grown and developed more and still learning to cope with understanding others as humans
I just refrain from older men they have never piqued my interest xx |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"When it comes to sex partners, which do you prefer?"
It depends. I love a younger man for stamina, enthusiasm & fun, but when it comes to a guy being unselfish, understanding how to give pleasure & really enjoying doing that, I usually find that in a man nearer my own age.
I have found a complete gem of a 26 year old who fulfills both, but unfortunately we don't get the chance to meet very often |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer slightly younger, but not by much, just a few years variance is enough. Max 10 years for sure or you risk being far too far apart in your life stages.
Older isn't a draw for me in and of itself.
But if I meet someone away from here I don't ask their age up front, you can get a feel for sour attitudes and Victor Meldrew dispositions very quickly and easily. |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
I don't have a preference, I've played with women from 18 to mid 50s, and had good and not-so-good experiences with ones from both ends of the scale. I'm quite picky about who I play with in terms of attitude, personality, character as well as looks, but if we get on then age itself isn't a huge factor. |
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"Both  "
Same so far both.
I think I'm more matched in stamina to someone my age obviously.
But If a 30-year-old guy wants to have 3 rounds I'm hardly going to say no.
and if a 60-year-old guy is just going to pleasure me all night long with toys I'm not going to say no either.
I know people have their preferences but the age hasn't been a barrier for me for sexual pleasure and exploration.
In the past, we had sexual partners who were out age so we made accommodations but now life partners for life are rare so we meet a whole range of partners and it's understanding their perspectives capabilities and drives.
I find in my 40s pleasure with guys in their 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s. I haven't attempted a guy in his 20s as I have all kinds of preconceived ideas about corrupting our youth. Lol! |
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"Prefer slightly younger, but not by much, just a few years variance is enough. Max 10 years for sure or you risk being far too far apart in your life stages.
Older isn't a draw for me in and of itself.
But if I meet someone away from here I don't ask their age up front, you can get a feel for sour attitudes and Victor Meldrew dispositions very quickly and easily."
Lol at Victor Mildrew. I can be quite grumpy until I'm at it. Lol! Then I forget all the things that make me grumpy. Lol!  |
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"I don't have a preference, I've played with women from 18 to mid 50s, and had good and not-so-good experiences with ones from both ends of the scale. I'm quite picky about who I play with in terms of attitude, personality, character as well as looks, but if we get on then age itself isn't a huge factor. "
40s is really a sweet spot isn't it. |
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"Don’t really mind, as long as they are hot and know what they are doing "
I must admit I'm neurodivergently confused at this "know what they are doing"
As I've asked a fellow meet: does that mean if they know that the penis goes in the vagina or...if they are trying to put the penis in the earhole or the armpit...although there may be a kink that I haven't discovered of sticking it in those unconventional places.
My brain thinks men will stick their penis anywhere given half the chance. Logically I know this is not true but it doesn't override my neuordivergent eww. |
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All of my sexual partners have been older than me and all of them have been pretty good.
The only exception is one who was about 20 years old and honestly it was my worst sexual experience.
I guess I prefer them older than me |
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