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"is it just me or does anyone else feel oral is overated and dull? lol
It’s definitely not….
And, for the person I’m with, it’s one reason I got my tongue pierced.  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It very much depends on who is doing it.
And if they themselves enjoy it for themselves.
Nothing worse than getting a clear feeling that they're only doing it because they feel it's expected.
If I know the pleasure goes both ways I'll relax and happily take my pleasure before or after returning the favour |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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Great oral is the absolute bomb. I adore giving and receiving and I certainly have my most intense orgasms from oral. But... The giver needs to know and love what they are doing and to tune themselves in to what the receiver likes. Otherwise I would rather they just didn't bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it x one of my favourite things lol xxx i love giving and receiving x probably rather be giving than receiving x is anyone else out there that likes the same x  |
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"is it just me or does anyone else feel oral is overated and dull? lol "
I enjoy it on very rare occasions. To be honest on meets I'd rather not 99% if the time.
I would much rather give than get. And get fed up of guys telling me its because I've not had it right.. trust me with the right connection I totally adore it but for random encounters it's rare I'll even tolerate it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it just me or does anyone else feel oral is overated and dull? lol "
All depends on who you are doing it with..
are you or them feeling sexy enough..
What is the mood like..
I love to give & receive.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's rare I fully enjoy it as most guys are a one trick pony. Just because the last girl you slept with enjoyed you going at it like a hamster on a lettuce doesn't mean I will.
Watch her reactions, listen to her body and slow and steady wins the race! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's rare I fully enjoy it as most guys are a one trick pony. Just because the last girl you slept with enjoyed you going at it like a hamster on a lettuce doesn't mean I will.
Watch her reactions, listen to her body and slow and steady wins the race!"
I’ll be down there like a dog licking peanut butter from a spoon. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"It does nothing for me, despite several men claiming I just haven't "had it done right". 
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I think when somethings been done without pleasure so many times it’s normal to think it does nothing for you. The same could be said about any type of sex for men and women. In my experience though every now and then you get really surprised.
Sometimes though that type of stimulation just doesn’t work physically , some women are really into riding guys, grinding and the spot is deep or sometimes not so deep but definitely inside not outside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It does nothing for me, despite several men claiming I just haven't "had it done right".
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 I tolerate it if they enjoy it but it annoys me like they were licking my elbow. |
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I enjoy it but can also leave it, depends entirely on my partner and their wants and desires. Oral on me I find pleasurable but rarely enough to cum, however I find it's the play factor that really heightens the intensity. So take the time to play, explore different touch sensations don't ignore other parts of the body and feed off the reactions.
To me sex should be a smorgasbord of a sexual banquet where the whole purpose is to explore. You do need time though and perhaps it's an age thing where that overwhelming desire to climax takes more time to build than it did in my 20/30/40's  |
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I used to think (a very long time ago) that I want bothered by it. Turns out the guys I'd been with were unobliging and lazy.
Then had a guy who performed it right. Now it's a must. Cba with selfish meets. |
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From certain people, it's an absolute must. The people who are really into it, who get off on the reactions and genuinely enjoy doing it.
If someone is doing it just because they feel obliged to, I'd really rather they didn't bother. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It can be. The vast majority end up doing that truffle pig hunting thing - my clit really doesn't appreciate being snouted repeatedly and aggressively.
That being said, on the rare occasion it's good, it's very good. I'd still rather give oral than receive. |
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Absolutely love it (done properly) love it when it gets to that point it I'm wriggling around and can't take anymore, then the moment Hubby slides in the feeling is amazing...
A great start to proceedings xxx
Kate |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"It can be. The vast majority end up doing that truffle pig hunting thing - my clit really doesn't appreciate being snouted repeatedly and aggressively.
That being said, on the rare occasion it's good, it's very good. I'd still rather give oral than receive. "
This exactly! (also made me laugh actually visualising)  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"From certain people, it's an absolute must. The people who are really into it, who get off on the reactions and genuinely enjoy doing it.
If someone is doing it just because they feel obliged to, I'd really rather they didn't bother."
This is kind of my enjoyment of giving.
I do want to do it, I enjoy giving. For me it comes down to a selfless (though not completely) act. I never feel obligated to do it, or something that just has to be done.
I want to give 100% focus on your pleasure, full attention on you and allowing you to just enjoy it. I gain my own pleasure from giving. Being the reason for it. A way for me to selflessly (again not completely) physically share my own desire, pleasure and enjoyment for you.
Plus the taste, the feeling sensation on my lips and tongue, and position of thighs either side of my head.
I feel blow jobs are overrated, though I still fucking enjoy getting them! I just put my own view about giving oral and enjoy them that much more because (I assume) my partner is enjoying giving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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LOVE giving so much
Receiving is hard work. Because I am not like every other women. We like different things ! Love receiving after sex and/or kink , hate it as foreplay
HATE it when men who say "you haven't had it done right" urgh I'm 42 I know how I like it ffs
Overated in most circumstances for me but I am a freak
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"LOVE giving so much
Receiving is hard work. Because I am not like every other women. We like different things ! Love receiving after sex and/or kink , hate it as foreplay
HATE it when men who say "you haven't had it done right" urgh I'm 42 I know how I like it ffs
Overated in most circumstances for me but I am a freak
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"I can make any woman squirt" also makes me nod off  |
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Totally depends on the person giving it 90% I'd just want it over and done with, but someone who knows what they are doing it's amazing!
The Mr always makes me multiple when giving me oral, it leaves me craving his cock afterwards too.
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I really enjoy giving oral to a woman I’m with. It’s my way of giving pleasure during sex that’s as much about the other person only as it can be.
That said my ex-fwb told me early on it did nothing for her, so I didn’t do it from then on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not overly fussed for it on me , however, will never get bored of giving, it's without a doubt my favourite thing to do ever.
The secret to not getting bored with it for me is to mix it up every time  (Ms Fox) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was a late bloomer when it comes to oral (either way). Most girls in my youth either were not interested, begrudged doing it (or having it done to them) or said outright no. Then wife number 3 opened my eyes to a lot of things (especially swinging), that includes oral.
She loved it, and it was the only way she could orgasm (her words not mine). I got the taste for it (excuse the pun) and any lady now who likes it I'm happy to oblige. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Absolutely love giving it if I know the person I'm with enjoys it.
As for receiving it until a couple of months ago I'd have said it does absolutely nothing for me, but I've been lucky enough to have found someone that really knows what she is doing and she has completely changed my mind about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recieving has never done anything for me tbh .. just about every girl I've been with has tried, maybe just not met the right one yet .. lol.. I enjoy giving . A wet pussy is lovely but I'd just as happily avoid oral altogether and do other things tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great oral is the absolute bomb. I adore giving and receiving and I certainly have my most intense orgasms from oral. But... The giver needs to know and love what they are doing and to tune themselves in to what the receiver likes. Otherwise I would rather they just didn't bother"
Agree completely. I for one, absolutely love giving oral, possibly, if not more than, then definitely on par with receiving |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love oral both giving and receiving and I do meet up with some guys who are very good. I do agree that bad oral is the worst. Some guys don’t have a clue.
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Agree with this too!! Works both ways as well! I've had some god damn awful oral  |
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I love oral with Mr KC. He knows exactly what I like and how to get me off. I also love giving oral, sucking cock gets me incredibly turned on
I'd only enjoy oral from someone else if they listen to what I want and need, rather than going off doing what they think they should do. Any mention of making me squirt will result in the ending of whatever is going on, for example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it just me or does anyone else feel oral is overated and dull? lol "
I agree. It's okay as a short intense appetiser amongst other things, but nothing beats, as above , a good hard seeing-to |
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By *arkedMan
over a year ago
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OMG, I can't imagine a meet without it. I absolutely adore giving and love how your whole body reacts as I change my 'approach' (even) slightly.
But as others have said it needs both of us to want it, and preferably with a passion.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"is it just me or does anyone else feel oral is overated and dull? lol "
I don't enjoy receiving it, as I've had bad very vanilla experiences from it, there was only one lady that I use to love receiving it from and the only one that use to make me cum from it, but giving oral to females I absolutely love, definitely had some amazing experiences giving it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely not if done correctly by someone actually willing to invest time in doing it properly. "
see I understand this, as a teenager I thought I was the best at it. But I learnt it's not a power game you have to take your time |
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Clitoral orgasms can't really hold a candle to g spot and a spot orgasms.
Orgasms from penetration are mindblowing body shuddering... sometimes they go on and on.
A clitoral orgasm... I'm too sensitive afterwards plus it's hard work... I mean I'm technically not doing any of the work but I have to think up all of these complex subversive scenarios to get turned on... the sensation alone isn't enough.
With penetration I'm really in the moment.
Plus oral sex is cheapened on here with all the offers to lick any random pussy for an eternity.... takes all the intimacy out of it.
Don't even get me started on face sitting.... what a snoozefest. |
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