When we got together we had a frank, open and honest discussion about what we liked. That gave us our fantasy list and then eventually we decided to swing.
My being bi and her bi-playful was just part of that open discussion and is the basis of our relationship. Everything is in the open, even our phones  |
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We just have open conversations about everything past, present and future there's nothing that I can't tell her nor her to me.
I don't think either of us has specifically come out and said it directly that we're bi/bi-cur |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I didn't have to.We met on Fab so Mandy was well aware that I love cock!
Mike"
This.
I do feel for couples who get together via normal 'vanilla' channels where once things start to get a little more serious they have to have the awkward chat about how one loves to get whipped on the arse with celery and the other has a thing about shoving garden veg up their chuff.
It's so much easier when someone's already read your profile and seen photos of you in a few compromising positions......   
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It took us a while to get to these type of details. We started off with another guy joining us which was great and it led into more discussion about past experiences and future fantasy. I (Alex) found it much harder than J to be open about my past because she was from a very traditional family and I had a lot of history with other men. I took it one step at a time though and she was totally cool with it, and actually loves watching gay sex |
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I didn't know I was bi until my new partner (still is) said if I ever had any fantasies about men, to go for it. Now after having a couples profile for 4 years, I also have my single profile. Yes, having my cake and eating it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think it's ever been a specific conversation. I'm not shy about letting anyone know what I like. I'm generally attracted to equally open people so it's never been an issue."
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