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Can you really find love on this site?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just putting this out there really. As the title says, can you really find love on this site?
I'm single and have been for a while now. Would love to meet someone and explore together.
I've been on dating sites such a tinder etc but generally have no luck. |
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"Just putting this out there really. As the title says, can you really find love on this site?
I'm single and have been for a while now. Would love to meet someone and explore together.
I've been on dating sites such a tinder etc but generally have no luck. "
of course you can you can find it anywhere we are all human beings, a lot like to think they are special here but they are the same as you or i  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just putting this out there really. As the title says, can you really find love on this site?
I'm single and have been for a while now. Would love to meet someone and explore together.
I've been on dating sites such a tinder etc but generally have no luck. "
Yup. .you can ..but just make sure the other person thinks and wants the same as you, you can fall for someone and unfortunately they don't feel the same way , if that happens it's best to leave things because it can ...and does ..hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love tends to show up when you're not actively seeking it  "
Yes! I've always said that by going out with ya girl bait underwear on you get nothing but with day old undies on you meet someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. No. Not a chance!
Romance? I spit in the eye of romance (and not that eye!) *spits dramatically*
Bah humbug! "
Eh is it December already and Ebenezer back on our screens..?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just putting this out there really. As the title says, can you really find love on this site?
I'm single and have been for a while now. Would love to meet someone and explore together.
I've been on dating sites such a tinder etc but generally have no luck. of course you can you can find it anywhere we are all human beings, a lot like to think they are special here but they are the same as you or i "
Spot on fellow fabber! 
Lets all get grounded again! If we can or care to. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think I'm a closeted romantic so may be a tad biased. But yes OP, I truly believe you can. Love isn't something you force to happen, it springs up on you when you're not expecting it, when you're open to it but not actively forcing it into existence.
Sometimes on sites like these it can feel disheartening - you have hopes and they're not immediately met. Or met in ways you didn't think they would be. You can find a myriad of love - it might be soulmates, it might be the love you have for friends or maybe a sense of loving and being loved by someone you adore.
But I think, if you step away from looking for love and focus on looking for joy. Things that bring you joy, spark you. It might not happen, it might. But don't lose hope. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I'm a closeted romantic so may be a tad biased. But yes OP, I truly believe you can. Love isn't something you force to happen, it springs up on you when you're not expecting it, when you're open to it but not actively forcing it into existence.
Sometimes on sites like these it can feel disheartening - you have hopes and they're not immediately met. Or met in ways you didn't think they would be. You can find a myriad of love - it might be soulmates, it might be the love you have for friends or maybe a sense of loving and being loved by someone you adore.
But I think, if you step away from looking for love and focus on looking for joy. Things that bring you joy, spark you. It might not happen, it might. But don't lose hope. x"
I completely agree. First off it would be nice to find a regular playmate who I have lots in common with and see how things progress from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it finds you, can't be forced.
Just have to be working towards becoming the best version of yourself and enjoy what's in your life already whilst it unfolds.
Some say be that which you hope to attract as like is drawn to like.
Who knows.
I just think you can risk wasting your days, months, years searching and missing out on what is already happening in front of you.
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"Love tends to show up when you're not actively seeking it
Yes! I've always said that by going out with ya girl bait underwear on you get nothing but with day old undies on you meet someone "
If your undies are neither beautiful or make you proud to be seen in them , they should be thrown out.
When you respect your underpants you will find love ...... and always be in the right pants. |
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"Love tends to show up when you're not actively seeking it
Yes! I've always said that by going out with ya girl bait underwear on you get nothing but with day old undies on you meet someone
If your undies are neither beautiful or make you proud to be seen in them , they should be thrown out.
When you respect your underpants you will find love ...... and always be in the right pants. "
Haha. I like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love tends to show up when you're not actively seeking it
Yes! I've always said that by going out with ya girl bait underwear on you get nothing but with day old undies on you meet someone
If your undies are neither beautiful or make you proud to be seen in them , they should be thrown out.
When you respect your underpants you will find love ...... and always be in the right pants. "
And be ready for a Briefs Encounter.. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think I'm a closeted romantic so may be a tad biased. But yes OP, I truly believe you can. Love isn't something you force to happen, it springs up on you when you're not expecting it, when you're open to it but not actively forcing it into existence.
Sometimes on sites like these it can feel disheartening - you have hopes and they're not immediately met. Or met in ways you didn't think they would be. You can find a myriad of love - it might be soulmates, it might be the love you have for friends or maybe a sense of loving and being loved by someone you adore.
But I think, if you step away from looking for love and focus on looking for joy. Things that bring you joy, spark you. It might not happen, it might. But don't lose hope. x
I completely agree. First off it would be nice to find a regular playmate who I have lots in common with and see how things progress from there. "
I have hope you will OP. I won't say good luck or wish you luck because sentiment has never sat well with me when it comes to this kind of thing. But yes, I think you sound genuinely lovely Op, it will happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I'm a closeted romantic so may be a tad biased. But yes OP, I truly believe you can. Love isn't something you force to happen, it springs up on you when you're not expecting it, when you're open to it but not actively forcing it into existence.
Sometimes on sites like these it can feel disheartening - you have hopes and they're not immediately met. Or met in ways you didn't think they would be. You can find a myriad of love - it might be soulmates, it might be the love you have for friends or maybe a sense of loving and being loved by someone you adore.
But I think, if you step away from looking for love and focus on looking for joy. Things that bring you joy, spark you. It might not happen, it might. But don't lose hope. x
I completely agree. First off it would be nice to find a regular playmate who I have lots in common with and see how things progress from there.
I have hope you will OP. I won't say good luck or wish you luck because sentiment has never sat well with me when it comes to this kind of thing. But yes, I think you sound genuinely lovely Op, it will happen. "
Awww thanks Meli. That's nice to hear x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes you can, it's about who you meet, not where you meet them. We meet on here 14 years ago and we are stronger now than ever "
Fantastic guys and you look so happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes OP, you absolutely can
i met the love of my life on here four years ago, after he sent me a random message once morning.. and now he's sat on our sofa cuddling our babies.
my best friend, and still the best sex i've ever had.  Px |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"yes OP, you absolutely can
i met the love of my life on here four years ago, after he sent me a random message once morning.. and now he's sat on our sofa cuddling our babies.
my best friend, and still the best sex i've ever had. Px "
Congratulations guys. Not jealous......not jealous at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been here many years and have seen many couples get together. Some get married and leave the site and some stayed. It's lovely to see"
Yes there are success stories out there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve found love several times on this site, turns out I also lost my mind several times.
Best to stay safe and put a condom on your heart. "
Who I'm their right mind would treat you badly!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We did. Chatted on here during one of the lockdowns, met when we were free and that was that.
Disclaimer: Ape wrote this post so it doesn’t sound at all romantic. "
Ha ha nice one ape |
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Glad you agree OP.
To be honest, and I know it’s going back over old ground and everyone will deny it, but if you’re not in the popular group in the forum, ie. You never get a response to your posts or answers anyone taking any notice, you’re not going to be successful.
It doesn’t matter how much you read profiles and weather or not you send intelligent sincere opening messages.
Most don’t even get read.
It’s a shame. Because there’s some lovely ladies on here.
Unfortunately it’s just top heavy with insincere guys sending copied and pasted generic messages giving said ladies a mountain of mail to sort through.
Just my opinion entitled by freedom of speech. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"“….Watches the tumble blow through the room and hears the distant of a church bell signaling the death of the thread….”
Gent strikes again!!!! "
I completely get you there. I think its true to be fair. Kinda like me at school |
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It is true.
At school I played a lot of rugby and carried that on to almost England level.
Being popular or not has never made one jot of difference to me.
A lot of people on here talk the talk about kindness and inclusivity for all.
But when it comes to walking the walk it’s a different story.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yup. .you can ..but just make sure the other person thinks and wants the same as you, you can fall for someone and unfortunately they don't feel the same way , if that happens it's best to leave things because it can ...and does ..hurt."
^ this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met here & are now married. It happens, like anywhere.
If you are both open to it, ready to do the work to lay a foundation & build something.. It can work out great xo |
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Yep you can find love , we met as singles on here
Long story short
We had a social , she said your a nice guy but not for me
We kept in touch , we went to a club
Within weeks we had moved in together
Now very happily married |
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My dream would be to find love on fab. I love this lifestyle and it’s rare to find someone on dating apps that agrees.
Single women - form an orderly queue for inspection (I can’t think why I’m single) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is true.
At school I played a lot of rugby and carried that on to almost England level.
Being popular or not has never made one jot of difference to me.
A lot of people on here talk the talk about kindness and inclusivity for all.
But when it comes to walking the walk it’s a different story.
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Preach preach fellow fabber colleague! With you all the way.
To walk in action. = it truely takes a mindset and cut from a whole diff cloth!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Glad you agree OP.
To be honest, and I know it’s going back over old ground and everyone will deny it, but if you’re not in the popular group in the forum, ie. You never get a response to your posts or answers anyone taking any notice, you’re not going to be successful.
It doesn’t matter how much you read profiles and weather or not you send intelligent sincere opening messages.
Most don’t even get read.
It’s a shame. Because there’s some lovely ladies on here.
Unfortunately it’s just top heavy with insincere guys sending copied and pasted generic messages giving said ladies a mountain of mail to sort through.
Just my opinion entitled by freedom of speech. "
Speakers corner at best!
Not all is Hokass pokass!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve found love several times on this site, turns out I also lost my mind several times.
Best to stay safe and put a condom on your heart. "
This lady has a valid point infact!!
Read and understand how you wish to!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m beginning to believe love only exists in my mind.
Good luck op, it’ll find you before you can find it.  "
Everything starts on the mind !! Step one!
Intentions, then reason and action!
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"Love tends to show up when you're not actively seeking it
Yes! I've always said that by going out with ya girl bait underwear on you get nothing but with day old undies on you meet someone
If your undies are neither beautiful or make you proud to be seen in them , they should be thrown out.
When you respect your underpants you will find love ...... and always be in the right pants. "
Think you’re talking pants Granny |
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