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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well my pic is actually pretty covid put about a stone on since so I'm a little over weight I do prefer to keep my self in a bit better shape but I'm happ to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Basically on Fab atm to fuck the Dad bods until I get back in shape myself. (That is the sex plan, not the fitness one!). Then I'll need them fit, but not obsessively protein shakey, again... I am happy being the least fit person in the bed by a range of margins tho  |
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"The person inside is far more relevant 
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters. "
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Athletic  "
It is of course an individual choice and everybody here looks at things differently and chooses to their own needs , it as after all their life ..their choices ..do not choose a particular type because everyone else does , fair play . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?"
Nope you're not wrong , you're fully correct , you have to be physically attracted to them to fuck them, it's only natural. |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters. "
But not for all.
Unless someone is genuinely physically repulsive to me I don't care how they look at the beginning. And I think I've only felt that absolute no a couple of times in my lifetime.
When I know someone enough to be attracted to their personality, their body becomes beautiful to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?"
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods. |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods."
I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
But not for all.
Unless someone is genuinely physically repulsive to me I don't care how they look at the beginning. And I think I've only felt that absolute no a couple of times in my lifetime.
When I know someone enough to be attracted to their personality, their body becomes beautiful to me."
And that I think is the key if you're looking to establish a deeper more lasting arrangement with someone. |
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Fit bods are lovely to look at but I prefer a guy with a bit of padding over his muscles, I like the squeezy squidgy feel of having my arms full when I cuddle someone so a softer body is my preference. If you look like you belong on the front row of a scrum then you’re for me   |
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I don't class myself as either.
Don't like the gym culture so I'm not a member. Couldn't stick out for more than a month.
I call myself athletic on here because I promised myself a few years ago I'd never refer to myself as average ever again but I don't run or train at all.
I've never had any complaints or negative comments hence why I've never been too worried about sticking a label on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ripped mind,shredded thought process,plump heart!!
Cant beat the face to face =
"Chat,flirt,eye-contact,smell of Cologne, body language,voice tone,skin touch lightly,"
Iam at my best inperson tbh.
On here its 1% of me!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree we are all attracted to certain types but for me their personality is more important than pure physical shape. Just upsets me when people body shame, if you don't like someone's body then just move on, no need to get nasty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree we are all attracted to certain types but for me their personality is more important than pure physical shape. Just upsets me when people body shame, if you don't like someone's body then just move on, no need to get nasty."
100% this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a competition, although some would have you believe it very much
Preferences considered and despite the cliques, swinging is more inclusive than it is exclusive
There's space here for all of us
We just won't appeal to everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't class myself as either.
Don't like the gym culture so I'm not a member. Couldn't stick out for more than a month.
I call myself athletic on here because I promised myself a few years ago I'd never refer to myself as average ever again but I don't run or train at all.
I've never had any complaints or negative comments hence why I've never been too worried about sticking a label on it. "
More fooking labels than one in the world atm.
They sprout out overnight like s!
Created by very people and Jilted mindsets!
But have the masses singing to the chorus its "preferences/Choices " but built and formed by what info!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr inks body is perfect for me … I would say he is more than athletic….
He has a 6 pack ( doesn’t work hard for it the bugger) gorgeous shoulders and strong arms ….
I’ve not experienced many other males as I prefer females …. But I wouldn’t say no to extra timber but very large men aren’t a turn on for me , I’m also not into very slim men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watching this closely to know if I have to eat more or train more so as to feel accepted
Your left arm has a tiny bit too much fat on at the top for my liking "
I use the right one to wank that’s why |
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If everyone was the same, it would be a very boring world. People on line usually base their opinions on visual images which they would not necessarily do in real life. Face to face, there are plenty of other factors that influence someone's judgement. Not judging but from mere observations there seem to be quite a few people with narcissistic tendencies on here and quite a few followers too as often are on any kind of site like this but each to their own of course |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods."
Nah I wouldn’t say that |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.
I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t "
And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped
Beard |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.
I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t
And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped
Beard"
It’s fine. I don’t expect everyone to agree with me. It’s actually rare they do  . I 100% stick by what I said though. |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.
I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t
And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped
Beard"
I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.
The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.
I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.
Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue. |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.
I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t
And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped
Beard
I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.
The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.
I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.
Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue."
Definitely agree with that last paragraph x |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.
I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t
And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped
Beard
I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.
The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.
I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.
Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue."
I was only really highlighting the fact that some peoples words and actions don’t align.
Obviously Nora is a wonderful exception to this
Beard |
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"The person inside is far more relevant
Totally agree. But for many it's the initial visual that matters.
I don’t think that’s unusual though. I couldn’t have sex with someone I’m not physically attracted to. Is that not normal then?
I think it is normal. So in the context of the thread I'd say that there will be a tendency for women to go for the ripped bods rather than the dad bods.
I disagree. Having seen lots of these threads before. I think you’ll find they don’t
And I will disagree with you from a male perspective. The males who are fawned over the most are gym fit and ripped
Beard
I've been to a handful of group socials and some of the most popular guys there haven't been near a gym in years.
The comment above also about women judging by age rather than body type is so far off the mark too.
I've seen lots of forum comments about being ignored because of their age and yet I'm almost 60 and never once had a conversation on here about my age.
Age and body type are only issues if you continually highlight them yourself and make them an issue.
I was only really highlighting the fact that some peoples words and actions don’t align.
Obviously Nora is a wonderful exception to this
Beard"
Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here "
I find myself constantly thinking “I can’t believe what you say because I see what you do” when it comes to some! |
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"Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here
I find myself constantly thinking “I can’t believe what you say because I see what you do” when it comes to some! "
The problem is so many are dazzled by the shiny things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel like these threads only really have two observations:
1. Allows those with dad bods to feel good about themselves knowing women women fancy their type (even if it isn't themselves women fancy)
2. It's more likely for women to comment that they prefer dad bods as it's seen to be less shallow that saying they prefer gym fit bods.
I've also noticed that it's very rarely gym fit men that start these threads... Ok, that's 3 observations. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Couldn't agree more about the discrepancy between words and actions on many topics on here
I find myself constantly thinking “I can’t believe what you say because I see what you do” when it comes to some!
The problem is so many are dazzled by the shiny things. "
I prefer to make 'things' shiny myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel like these threads only really have two observations:
1. Allows those with dad bods to feel good about themselves knowing women women fancy their type (even if it isn't themselves women fancy)
2. It's more likely for women to comment that they prefer dad bods as it's seen to be less shallow that saying they prefer gym fit bods.
I've also noticed that it's very rarely gym fit men that start these threads... Ok, that's 3 observations."
i keep saying,things really are way deeper than many will or care to admit so!
Most wording is coated it comes from the fore of the Brain, but the deeper part of the brain has other info's imbedded in there,that play and seep through in our actions! |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
"I feel like these threads only really have two observations:
1. Allows those with dad bods to feel good about themselves knowing women women fancy their type (even if it isn't themselves women fancy)
2. It's more likely for women to comment that they prefer dad bods as it's seen to be less shallow that saying they prefer gym fit bods.,,
I've also noticed that it's very rarely gym fit men that start these threads... Ok, that's 3 observations."
,, i agree,, |
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I think it's essential for you to be happy within the body that you have. Your personality is important to partners and you'll be more comfortable if you're self-accepting and content within yourself and with your body.
The great thing about life is that it's not static. We can evolve under our own direction. Our physical selves are malleable.
What we often overlook until too late, is our potential loss of health. Cultivation of positive physical and psychological health is priceless. People like that in others. |
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