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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's been 16 days for me and counting.
I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden
Nothing
Like a fucking dessert.
She won't even discuss it.
How long do you go without sex ?
This is doing fucking head in |
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"It's been 16 days for me and counting.
I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden
Nothing
Like a fucking dessert.
She won't even discuss it.
How long do you go without sex ?
This is doing fucking head in "
I can go for months no bother...  I'm pretty good with my hands.lol
Now...how long would I survive without playing?!I would be dead second day I'd say |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not longer than a week currently.
Op... maybe there's something more serious going on with her? Or her libido has dropped. These things happen sadly. Can you find ways to be intimate/enjoy being around her without bringing it back to sex? It's more likely to happen if there are less bad feelings surrounding it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have gone 6 months no sex hands where so bad had to use hand cream to sort out , but HRT tablets now on getting there slowly never demanded or forced her in her own time xx all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should be more concerned that she won't discuss it. Good, open communication is key. "
I am very concerned as I have brought it up and she just says that makes it worse?
I have said that something is wrong and she said she doesn't want to discuss it.
I just said sorry and won't mention it again.
But it's a big change and IDK WTF I have done  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not longer than a week currently.
Op... maybe there's something more serious going on with her? Or her libido has dropped. These things happen sadly. Can you find ways to be intimate/enjoy being around her without bringing it back to sex? It's more likely to happen if there are less bad feelings surrounding it."
Part of the discussion was
She doesn't want to kiss me
No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)
Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.
So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
"Not longer than a week currently.
Op... maybe there's something more serious going on with her? Or her libido has dropped. These things happen sadly. Can you find ways to be intimate/enjoy being around her without bringing it back to sex? It's more likely to happen if there are less bad feelings surrounding it.
Part of the discussion was
She doesn't want to kiss me
No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)
Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.
So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side "
This is so sad , sorry to read this x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not longer than a week currently.
Op... maybe there's something more serious going on with her? Or her libido has dropped. These things happen sadly. Can you find ways to be intimate/enjoy being around her without bringing it back to sex? It's more likely to happen if there are less bad feelings surrounding it.
Part of the discussion was
She doesn't want to kiss me
No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)
Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.
So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side
This is so sad , sorry to read this x"
Thank you x |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
"Not longer than a week currently.
Op... maybe there's something more serious going on with her? Or her libido has dropped. These things happen sadly. Can you find ways to be intimate/enjoy being around her without bringing it back to sex? It's more likely to happen if there are less bad feelings surrounding it.
Part of the discussion was
She doesn't want to kiss me
No cuddles in bed (not linked to wanting sex)
Doesn't want to talk to me watching TV.
So yes communication Is open from me (very open) but closed her side
This is so sad , sorry to read this x"
Sorry indeed OP. Not wanting sex is one thing but not wanting intimacy is a sure sign that something is wrong. I hope you get things back on track OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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16 days? What is this, amateur hour? Try months!! Many many months.  but it only frustrated me because the way I saw it was a had wasted a lot of time sulking when I should have been enjoying life. Yolo and all that.
I don’t crave sex, I only want sex when I feel sexy and it’s rare nowadays.
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Since early November at the moment. My body decided it would be a good idea to tear my Achilles tendon (not during naughty time i hasten to add) and was operated on in early January.
Currently learning to walk again. Was invited to my first party but couldn’t attend, it’s like the Universes way of tormenting me haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not had sex with my wife for well over 9 years and that was a one off. Twice in 14 years.
She just didn't want it anymore. I tried but then felt guilty. People say we should talk about it. Why
She doesn't want sex, makes her uncomfortable. Not her fault |
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"It's been 16 days for me and counting.
I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden
Nothing
Like a fucking dessert.
She won't even discuss it.
How long do you go without sex ?
This is doing fucking head in "
16 days ffs  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"It's been 16 days for me and counting.
I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden
Nothing
Like a fucking dessert.
She won't even discuss it.
How long do you go without sex ?
This is doing fucking head in "
Jeez, 16 days?? That's nothing!!
If you are both usually more active (I mean with each other...) I might be inclined to think that there's something wrong that she doesn't want to talk about yet. Maybe it's health or menopause related,maybe she's not as ok about you being on here as you think...whatever it is, if you love her, you're going to have to give her time & space until she's ready to talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should be more concerned that she won't discuss it. Good, open communication is key.
I am very concerned as I have brought it up and she just says that makes it worse?
I have said that something is wrong and she said she doesn't want to discuss it.
I just said sorry and won't mention it again.
But it's a big change and IDK WTF I have done "
How often have you been asking her for sex in the last 16 days?
Who suggested sex before? Was it always you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was 6 years ago 
you should change your name to SleepTonight shags! 
ShaggedYearsAgo
Aww  No, its fine, mine are ok
They must be like watermelons "
He's happy, we all do our own thing Col
 he's not missing out on much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been 16 days for me and counting.
I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden
Nothing
Like a fucking dessert.
She won't even discuss it.
How long do you go without sex ?
This is doing fucking head in "
Abundance is the way to go! If the tap gets shut, walk and do your own thing!' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's been 16 days for me and counting.
I don't know WTF has gone wrong had great kinky sexy fun time but all of a sudden
Nothing
Like a fucking dessert.
She won't even discuss it.
How long do you go without sex ?
This is doing fucking head in I can go for months no bother... I'm pretty good with my hands.lol
Now...how long would I survive without playing?!I would be dead second day I'd say "
Best hand in the world,no aggro,no drama, dont even have to wash them fingers and they still will work!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should be more concerned that she won't discuss it. Good, open communication is key.
I am very concerned as I have brought it up and she just says that makes it worse?
I have said that something is wrong and she said she doesn't want to discuss it.
I just said sorry and won't mention it again.
But it's a big change and IDK WTF I have done "
..silent treatment.
Youtube the behaviours. And line up your actual situation from there.
On here it will confuse you further more.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A menopausal Mrs is playing havoc with our sex life… it’s probably easier to walk across a field of land mines ..:-/ "
Duck n jump. Sametime! Total nitemare! |
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