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Meetting after 2 years of messaging on here
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Yes was talking to a guy on here for two years. Couldn't meet for reason or another. For the most life styles don't match. There no time scale to this you cant assume anything
Its has to find it self for most of the time
A good 50% of the time it don't happen
Not everyone one here you message and talk to will lead to sex
This isn't porn we not sex workers
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, there's something refreshing about being able to enjoy talking to someone and there being no pressure to meet. Sometimes things align and you do, other times you don't.
I can understand why some choose to meet quickly, that's fair enough. I'm not always against it. It doesn't mean either party views you as a sex worker. But I like talking to people. As a person. Not a sexual object for my gratification. |
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It's rare I meet anyone off here in less than 6 months. Usually longer.
It's happened a lot faster than that on occasion, someone I met within 24 hours of the first message years ago is still one of my favourite people. But I'm generally happy to get to know a little more about someone before meeting in the flesh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, there's something refreshing about being able to enjoy talking to someone and there being no pressure to meet. Sometimes things align and you do, other times you don't.
I can understand why some choose to meet quickly, that's fair enough. I'm not always against it. It doesn't mean either party views you as a sex worker. But I like talking to people. As a person. Not a sexual object for my gratification. "
Still on for Coffee? Weekend?
After 5yrs (approx) of exchanging the odd comments.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. Ive messaged a guy on and off for 3 years. We have each others phone numbers but just not in any rush to meet, even though we keep saying we need to get filthy together. I'm sure it will happen eventually, maybe, someday  |
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"It happens as life gets in the way but the good people worth meeting have no problem waiting until the time is right."
This! If what you’re looking for is that truly memorable experience and someone you’re going to have a great time with, then why rush it. It’ll happen when it happens and it is fantastic to be able to develop a ‘relationship’ with someone here without the pressure of ‘when are we meeting’ |
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