I often ponder this when I should be sleeping…
Are our kinks and our turn ons automatically a part of our genetic make up or are they caused by something we’ve seen/felt (smelt… whatever) in early years?
I know, with something I’m into it was there early… I just didn’t know it was kink til an adult. |
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For me, I’m led by an image, a story or something visual. But it’s not always like that. I use the expression that I improvise, so it is also a moment when I get all sexy and go with the flow too.
Just giving my thoughts to your thoughts.  |
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"For me, I’m led by an image, a story or something visual. But it’s not always like that. I use the expression that I improvise, so it is also a moment when I get all sexy and go with the flow too.
Just giving my thoughts to your thoughts. "
So do yours change? Based on what you are doing?
There’s not a go to porn or fantasy that returns? |
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"For me, I’m led by an image, a story or something visual. But it’s not always like that. I use the expression that I improvise, so it is also a moment when I get all sexy and go with the flow too.
Just giving my thoughts to your thoughts.
So do yours change? Based on what you are doing?
There’s not a go to porn or fantasy that returns? "
I don’t do much porn. That would just normaly be a ffm video.
Yes, mine does change, my mood but more to do with who I’m vibing with. I suppose it a person that can and would put me in a certain mood. |
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Like most things kinky & naughty..
Got worse as I get older..
Not sure if it stems from when I was a kid.. 10/11/12
but my stepmom use to walk round the house naked amongst other things..
from what I can remember she was a good looking woman..
in today’s world she would get it.. |
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My sexual kinks have been there since exploring in a first relationship.
But in themselves they are pretty vanilla. In being lingerie and outdoor sex.
My bdsm is a different matter. That is non sexual and definitely nutured from past experiences in life. |
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over a year ago
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"I often ponder this when I should be sleeping…
Are our kinks and our turn ons automatically a part of our genetic make up or are they caused by something we’ve seen/felt (smelt… whatever) in early years?
I know, with something I’m into it was there early… I just didn’t know it was kink til an adult. "
I would say it depends on the kink.
Some are nurtured through life experiences, porn, erotica etc. others are natural and part of who you are.
No one is born with a desire to be fucked in the arse while having their head flushed down the toilet!! |
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OP...
I think that's actually quite true!
As a young lad in the days when all women wore stockings and skirts with black patent stilettos... to church, I was enamoured by them.
I'm pretty sure that's why I was a bit more curious and was trying on things at an early age.
After that it was all onwards and upwards.  |
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"I often ponder this when I should be sleeping…
Are our kinks and our turn ons automatically a part of our genetic make up or are they caused by something we’ve seen/felt (smelt… whatever) in early years?
I know, with something I’m into it was there early… I just didn’t know it was kink til an adult.
I would say it depends on the kink.
Some are nurtured through life experiences, porn, erotica etc. others are natural and part of who you are.
No one is born with a desire to be fucked in the arse while having their head flushed down the toilet!! "
Made me proper giggle… but, how do u know!!! Lol |
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