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Where does your kink come from?
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By *ack688 OP Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
Do you think you were born with it, is it innate? Or do you think you can remember something developmental that may have sparked it, or did you learn to enjoy it from a previous partner? |
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I don't know. I enjoy giving up control totally to Mr KC, and am something of a masochist. I love seeing how much he wants and needs me, in an almost animalistic way.
He enjoys dominating me and being in control. He has sadistic tendencies.
In vanilla life, I'm super independent, a bit of a leader in professional situations, very confident and social. He is much more reserved and quiet, he's autistic and often struggles in social situations. He's also a natural leader but in a much less obvious way to me.
Would anyone like to psychology the fuck out of the ^^^above?!  |
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I remember trying on lingerie as a kid, and loved the feeling of it on. From there I started to try on dresses, make up, etc.
The thought of having sex as the reciever only grew on my in my 20's, but I never acted on it till later. |
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"I remember trying on lingerie as a kid, and loved the feeling of it on. From there I started to try on dresses, make up, etc.
The thought of having sex as the reciever only grew on my in my 20's, but I never acted on it till later."
That pretty much echos my story too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never born with them! A sex psychologist I once had the absolute delight of chatting with told me 95 percent of them develop from younger experiences. Whatever they may be!
So I believe we are all kinky sons of bitches because of our thoughts or awareness of naughty stuff when we were young. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore being worshipped and have men doing what I tell them to do 
this could come from previous bad relationships and precious self confidence... or it could just be my personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I adore being worshipped and have men doing what I tell them to do
this could come from previous bad relationships and precious self confidence... or it could just be my personality "
Or if like me, it's because you like having what you want |
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By *arehamMan
over a year ago
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My kink is watching women have a piss ,
I saw my cousin have one outside she pulled her skirt up she had a white basque with nylons and white knickers and I’ve been hooked ever since I love seeing a woman pissing.  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Never born with them! A sex psychologist I once had the absolute delight of chatting with told me 95 percent of them develop from younger experiences. Whatever they may be!
So I believe we are all kinky sons of bitches because of our thoughts or awareness of naughty stuff when we were young."
I agree with this totally. My very first girlfriend was from a strict catholic family and used to get me to collect her and her friends come in miniature Jameson bottles and then display them all around her parents house. |
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By *lashyMan
over a year ago
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Growing up through puberty and into my late teens I lived in the same street as my much older cousin and his blonde bombshell wife, they were in their late thirties and had kids around my age. I witnessed first hand her regular infidelity and serial cheating ( whether my cousin knew or not I don’t know), I even had a snog and grope with her myself when I was 19. This started my love of Hotwives which carries on to this day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never born with them! A sex psychologist I once had the absolute delight of chatting with told me 95 percent of them develop from younger experiences. Whatever they may be!
So I believe we are all kinky sons of bitches because of our thoughts or awareness of naughty stuff when we were young."
Or various forms of abuse in the case of some.
I don't believe I have any kinks, but then kinky is entirely subjective, so naturally I'm going to think I'm normal |
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They arise out of developemental phases as we grow up. After some investigation, I've discovered where all mine come from. I enjoy them more now I understand why those kinks arouse me.
Some of our experiences when younger, were innocent, others were abusive, but the experience shapes our lives into adulthood . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I adore being worshipped and have men doing what I tell them to do
this could come from previous bad relationships and precious self confidence... or it could just be my personality
Or if like me, it's because you like having what you want "
That could also be it |
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"I remember trying on lingerie as a kid, and loved the feeling of it on. From there I started to try on dresses, make up, etc.
The thought of having sex as the reciever only grew on my in my 20's, but I never acted on it till later.
That pretty much echos my story too.
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And same here. Although I love having my boundaries pushed by people I've met in this lifestyle. I started dressing only, now I'm doing all sorts of things
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you think you were born with it, is it innate? Or do you think you can remember something developmental that may have sparked it, or did you learn to enjoy it from a previous partner? "
Past life. No other way to explain it really!  |
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