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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant."
Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style?
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"Always touching and hugging lickety x
I gesticulate a lot as well, hands are very important to my body language 
Have you always been handsy, or has it grown with age?"
Always been handsy, has come from growing up with farm animals, which is extremely hands on constantly |
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style?
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Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted. |
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style?
Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted."
Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ?
Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m all about the touching, teasing, stroking, squeezing … If you’re not then things are probably gonna get awkward.
Mind you, awkward can be fun sometimes. Just occasionally."
Where is the awkward boundary?
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I’ve always been a very tactile guy. Even in a friendly way, I like to do little arm touches etc to communicate that I care. With guys I might do a cheeky mock punch on the arm if I’m rubbing them.
Romantically it’s how I show I got the feels. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Personally a little rejected but I respect the boundaries. I'll put a caveat on though in that I'm touchy feely with a lover not with family or colleagues etc"
Thank you for sharing your feelings of rejection.
Why don't you feel touchy-feely with family? |
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style?
Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted.
Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ?
Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ? "
Nope, it's a way of 'reclaiming' the incident/sex in general apparently. Counselling taught me a lot about why I behave like I do, very interesting.
Anyway this is a bit serious, so moving on  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style?
Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted."
I'm sorry you experienced assault. I can see how that affects your adult attachment style.
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"Personally a little rejected but I respect the boundaries. I'll put a caveat on though in that I'm touchy feely with a lover not with family or colleagues etc
Thank you for sharing your feelings of rejection.
Why don't you feel touchy-feely with family?"
Feels odd, too intimate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?"
Don't touch. I don't like it. I used to put up with hugs but I stopped a few years ago and now just say no if I don't want to. Some friends get huffy or take the piss but that says more about them than me. |
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over a year ago
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"Am very tactile by nature. So hugs or an arm round a shoulder when needed are part of who I am.
How do you judge when it's needed?
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I would only do that with people I know well enough. The specific situation will determine whether it's needed. Obviously you respect people's boundaries. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
This. Same applies to dance floor "
In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise?
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?"
depends
I am a survivor of parental physical and emotional abuse, so not usually,
however, with the right person, in the right context, the barriers sometimes come down  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Hate being touchy felt.
Keep your fucking hands to yourself unless you’re invited thank you please.
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Is this H or S?
Do you two have the same approach or is one more touchy-feely than the other? |
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission
Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style.
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Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable? |
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"I’m all about the touching, teasing, stroking, squeezing … If you’re not then things are probably gonna get awkward."
"Where is the awkward boundary?
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I was just talking in terms of meeting people from here. So there’s already a connection and intimacy established if we’ve got as far as meeting up. And if there’s an ‘awkwardness boundary’ then it’s going to spring from one of us being more tactile than the other. And that’s going to be a different vibe with every person (or couple) you meet, right? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I’ve always been a very tactile guy. Even in a friendly way, I like to do little arm touches etc to communicate that I care. With guys I might do a cheeky mock punch on the arm if I’m rubbing them.
Romantically it’s how I show I got the feels."
That's very clear. Do you often rub guys and then give them a mock punch? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style?
Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted.
Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ?
Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ?
Nope, it's a way of 'reclaiming' the incident/sex in general apparently. Counselling taught me a lot about why I behave like I do, very interesting.
Anyway this is a bit serious, so moving on "
Thank you for sharing. I didn't anticipate it getting so serious and I should have. Keep looking after yourself.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I hate being touched...
Unless I'm okay with the person, then i cant get enough...
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Do you feel the same about touching yourself? I don't mean masturbation, necessarily, but self-massage or soothing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all
I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some
As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me
Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
This. Same applies to dance floor
In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise?
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Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?
Don't touch. I don't like it. I used to put up with hugs but I stopped a few years ago and now just say no if I don't want to. Some friends get huffy or take the piss but that says more about them than me. "
I can see this with you. A nod for a greeting is ample.
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"I’ve always been a very tactile guy. Even in a friendly way, I like to do little arm touches etc to communicate that I care. With guys I might do a cheeky mock punch on the arm if I’m rubbing them.
Romantically it’s how I show I got the feels.
That's very clear. Do you often rub guys and then give them a mock punch?"
Oh FFS!!! Haha *mental note to proof read my posts
RIBBING them!! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?
depends
I am a survivor of parental physical and emotional abuse, so not usually,
however, with the right person, in the right context, the barriers sometimes come down "
I'm sorry you experienced abuse from those who were supposed to provide love and care. It's great that you have found people with whom you can lower your barriers.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission
Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style.
Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable? "
No, but I have been thinking about entitlement and whether my natural huggy style is appropriate or makes people feel uncomfortable.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I’m all about the touching, teasing, stroking, squeezing … If you’re not then things are probably gonna get awkward.
Where is the awkward boundary?
I was just talking in terms of meeting people from here. So there’s already a connection and intimacy established if we’ve got as far as meeting up. And if there’s an ‘awkwardness boundary’ then it’s going to spring from one of us being more tactile than the other. And that’s going to be a different vibe with every person (or couple) you meet, right?"
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission
Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style.
Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable?
No, but I have been thinking about entitlement and whether my natural huggy style is appropriate or makes people feel uncomfortable.
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I think about this, too, and only ever touch people I know won’t feel uncomfortable ie good friends, long term fab friends, partners etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?
Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt
Is this welcomed by people around you?"
In 12 step it's positively encouraged, so now I tend to hug ppl, do say giz a squeeze |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Not at all
I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some
As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me
Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety"
I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
This. Same applies to dance floor
In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise?
Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage "
I enjoy a massage too. Paying for touch is the only touch I experience these days.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I’ve always been a very tactile guy. Even in a friendly way, I like to do little arm touches etc to communicate that I care. With guys I might do a cheeky mock punch on the arm if I’m rubbing them.
Romantically it’s how I show I got the feels.
That's very clear. Do you often rub guys and then give them a mock punch?
Oh FFS!!! Haha *mental note to proof read my posts
RIBBING them!!"
It was an amusing picture. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
This. Same applies to dance floor
In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise?
Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage
I enjoy a massage too. Paying for touch is the only touch I experience these days.
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More for Thai and deep tissue not hanky pankie |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?
Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt
Is this welcomed by people around you?
In 12 step it's positively encouraged, so now I tend to hug ppl, do say giz a squeeze "
I know 12-step has not worked for some because of this encouragement to hug. If it works for you, that's a good thing.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Tactile during coitus; hands off at other times.
I would probably run my hands through the hair of a man who had his head in my lap.
I love cuddling my great-grandchildren.
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You are not someone I would hug without asking. If I have, I apologise - I must have been caught up in the moment of all the other huggers.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all
I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some
As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me
Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety
I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line.
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It's to do with regularity of touch, and where
I think you need to read the room too - I wouldn't just hug anyone
I'd think if they were meeting me socially, we'd have read enough into each other pre-meet to know if it was safe ground or not
A hug, to me, is a relatively quick a fleeting affair, with no wandering hands
Having someone consitently touch my leg or hands or face in a social situation would be too personal
I find those areas too intimate with someone you barely know
Obviously, if the meet is going well, one would start to accept such touches but not from the get go |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"With close friends I can be touchy feely but not with random sexual encounters. I do the touching and don't want touching in return. Quite avoidant and very conscious of it"
You have reminded me of seeing you at play with a small group of men. I can see that control.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
This. Same applies to dance floor
In that you can tolerate touch when dancing (and sex) but not otherwise?
Some folks don’t wash their hands or arse. Forgot to ad I love a massage
I enjoy a massage too. Paying for touch is the only touch I experience these days.
More for Thai and deep tissue not hanky pankie "
I do like a deep tissue massage.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Tactile during coitus; hands off at other times.
I would probably run my hands through the hair of a man who had his head in my lap.
I love cuddling my great-grandchildren.
You are not someone I would hug without asking. If I have, I apologise - I must have been caught up in the moment of all the other huggers.
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I'm fine with people I know hugging me. I understand that some people are huggers.
None of us are particularly huggy in my family but my sister in law and some of my nieces are. Some of my inlaws hug goodbye, some don't.
It doesn't offend me, it's just something we didn't do growing up.
I only hugged my friend of 50 years once, when she told me her mum had passed away.
We're a "See ya later" kind of friendship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?
Love hugs bigger hugger hug a tree in pvt
Is this welcomed by people around you?
In 12 step it's positively encouraged, so now I tend to hug ppl, do say giz a squeeze
I know 12-step has not worked for some because of this encouragement to hug. If it works for you, that's a good thing.
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It's personal choice to who I hug, I dont hug everyone in 12 step as some are dicks |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Not into hugging strangers of doung that pretend kissing on the cheek nosence .when you meet .but those I'm it mate with I'm very hand on and allow equal access ."
The air kiss is a odd, isn't it? I do with some as there is a sort of stiffness to it that stops a hug.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The power of healing in a hug is vastly underrated, I believe.
I've never had an adult I can hold close, to make me empty my emotions into.
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Appropriate touch/hugs release oxytocin, there is a lot of healing potentially available with a hug.
I wonder how much physical and mental pain has been stored up because of that long period of not being able to touch people during the pandemic?
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"No, I absolutely hate people touching me outside of sex. My attachment style is most definitely avoidant.
Is this a long-held attachment style, from childhood, or a change in style?
Bit of both really, but moreso from my teens when I was assaulted.
Interesting that you are okay with it during sex though ?
Would you say that it is because you miss intimacy and sex allows it to happen ?
Nope, it's a way of 'reclaiming' the incident/sex in general apparently. Counselling taught me a lot about why I behave like I do, very interesting.
Anyway this is a bit serious, so moving on "
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I prefer others to be tactile as its not natural for me to keep my hands to myself especially the more relaxed I am with that person. But you just know some people arnt comfortable with it and I have to make a conscious effort to keep my hands to myself which makes it hard for me to relax with them |
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"Touchy feely can get you trouble, only do this with permission
Thanks for raising consent. It is in my thoughts about my own touchy-feely style.
Has someone said something to make you feel uncomfortable?
No, but I have been thinking about entitlement and whether my natural huggy style is appropriate or makes people feel uncomfortable.
I think about this, too, and only ever touch people I know won’t feel uncomfortable ie good friends, long term fab friends, partners etc"
This is why I do an open armed, from a personal space distance, question for a hug first, and we can move in together. If they give me don't approach me body language, then we can both skip contact happily without awkwardness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all
I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some
As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me
Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety
I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line.
It's to do with regularity of touch, and where
I think you need to read the room too - I wouldn't just hug anyone
I'd think if they were meeting me socially, we'd have read enough into each other pre-meet to know if it was safe ground or not
A hug, to me, is a relatively quick a fleeting affair, with no wandering hands
Having someone consitently touch my leg or hands or face in a social situation would be too personal
I find those areas too intimate with someone you barely know
Obviously, if the meet is going well, one would start to accept such touches but not from the get go"
Neither of you have made me feel uncomfortable. You must both assess the situation correctly without realising. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I prefer others to be tactile as its not natural for me to keep my hands to myself especially the more relaxed I am with that person. But you just know some people arnt comfortable with it and I have to make a conscious effort to keep my hands to myself which makes it hard for me to relax with them"
I think we can only offer our true selves when we are relaxed.
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"Not at all
I think a hug is a re-assuring and friendly greeting, but recognise it's too much for some
As for touchy hands or constant need to be touching / against someone just isn't me
Others doing it to me can bring on little stifled spikes of anxiety
I suppose the judgement of when it's reassuring and welcome and when it will induce anxiety is a very fine line.
It's to do with regularity of touch, and where
I think you need to read the room too - I wouldn't just hug anyone
I'd think if they were meeting me socially, we'd have read enough into each other pre-meet to know if it was safe ground or not
A hug, to me, is a relatively quick a fleeting affair, with no wandering hands
Having someone consitently touch my leg or hands or face in a social situation would be too personal
I find those areas too intimate with someone you barely know
Obviously, if the meet is going well, one would start to accept such touches but not from the get go
Neither of you have made me feel uncomfortable. You must both assess the situation correctly without realising. "
Thank heavens for that
Cos I'm sure both yourself and Lickety got hugs from the get go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm definitely an affectionate type of girl. I will hug friends, put my hand on an arm or shoulder, if I'm feeling flirty I will do slight touches to let the person know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you a touchy-feely person or a don't-touch person?
Wnat makes you so?"
I'm a very affectionate and touchy-feely person with people I am very close to. I just enjoy the human contact. With people I don't know, I don't want them in my personal space lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm definitely an affectionate type of girl. I will hug friends, put my hand on an arm or shoulder, if I'm feeling flirty I will do slight touches to let the person know."
Think that's pretty much how I am |
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I am touchy feely generally , hello and goodbyes comes with 4 kisses , 2 on each cheeks and/or a hug, it’s a cultural “inbred” thingy. My friends are used to it and my family were raised the same.
I don’t kiss every work colleagues or no work would ever get done but it is common custom where I am originally from.
I also hug for reasons like showing support, comfort, empathy, reassurance, congratulations, good wishes etc… |
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"I am touchy feely generally , hello and goodbyes comes with 4 kisses , 2 on each cheeks and/or a hug, it’s a cultural “inbred” thingy. My friends are used to it and my family were raised the same.
I don’t kiss every work colleagues or no work would ever get done but it is common custom where I am originally from.
I also hug for reasons like showing support, comfort, empathy, reassurance, congratulations, good wishes etc… "
A lot
Of touching and feeling required |
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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago
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Some years ago I was browsing a local saleroom and a woman started chatting to me and as she did she placed her hand on my bare arm I still vividly remember the bolt of pleasure that shot through my body at the time, I really liked it. |
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I wont touch anyone without consent. I ask them if they want a hug but i always close my fists whilst doing it and if they say no thats fine.
If someone wants to get touchy feely with me thats fine but i will never put myself in a situation where i make someone feel uncomfortable.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm quite tactile with someone I know and feel comfortable with. Or I'm getting to know.
But with someone unknown, I can sometimes feel very uncomfortable with people touching/hugging me.
I like simple touches when I'm getting to know someone - a touch of the arm, fingers interlocking. Little brushes of hair away from the face. Physical contact/ intimacy is important to me. |
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