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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all looking for advice on best way to write to people etc not had a meet I do try I’m always polite respectful don’t send cock pics etc but I’m going wrong somewhere maybe I’m just not people’s cup of tea that I get and cool about |
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Look for things in their profile to connect over, if they match your preferences and they match yours.
Most people will check the profile before responding. I find only one public photo off-putting. And the profile doesn't tell me anything about what you want or what you offer, so even the best crafted message would likely get a no thanks from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grammar I’m not good at I admit yes but I try my best "
It’s not ideal but people will exclude you for this. It’s unfortunate but you’ll have to find other ways to stand out. |
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OP a good starting point is to use the forum search function and look for threads on this topic. You’re not alone as there have been hundreds of guys seeking advice and they usually get good feedback.
See if you can pick up some tips from that. |
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"Thanx for advice appreciate it "
Press reply + quote so we know who youre responding to.
As for messaging, come up with a short generic but witty message, then copy and paste and blanket bomb.
Works far better and far more economical than agonising over what to write each time etc
Also put more pics on your profile |
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"Hi all looking for advice on best way to write to people etc not had a meet I do try I’m always polite respectful don’t send cock pics etc but I’m going wrong somewhere maybe I’m just not people’s cup of tea that I get and cool about "
You don't need advice on how to write to people. It's not you. It's just how things are.
Being polite, considerate and a decent human being never got anyone laid. Neither did good looks or uber shagability. Believe me some of the adonis' on here can't make everything line up either.
To get sex you need to be what someone else is looking for , at the second they are looking for it, in the place they are looking for it and you have to fancy them too ! Near on impossible.
Carry on being you and go to a meet or two to get known etc.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi all looking for advice on best way to write to people etc not had a meet I do try I’m always polite respectful don’t send cock pics etc but I’m going wrong somewhere maybe I’m just not people’s cup of tea that I get and cool about
You don't need advice on how to write to people. It's not you. It's just how things are.
Good advice thank you
Being polite, considerate and a decent human being never got anyone laid. Neither did good looks or uber shagability. Believe me some of the adonis' on here can't make everything line up either.
To get sex you need to be what someone else is looking for , at the second they are looking for it, in the place they are looking for it and you have to fancy them too ! Near on impossible.
Carry on being you and go to a meet or two to get known etc.
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"Hi all looking for advice on best way to write to people etc not had a meet I do try I’m always polite respectful don’t send cock pics etc but I’m going wrong somewhere maybe I’m just not people’s cup of tea that I get and cool about "
You can't win here no matter what you do, so keep sending your polite messages and eventually you'll hook something, its just like fishing really patience is the key  |
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