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Do you find it easier to love or hate
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Good afternoon everyone. Can honestly say I don't hate anybody. It is a strong statement . So for me easier to love  "
Same. There’s no one I hate , even people that have been complete dicks to me in the past I’m just like whatever , barely give them a thought |
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Hate means to extremely dislike and yeah I do extremely dislike some things and some people. As for which is easier, I don’t give it anymore thought than I like you or I don’t so I’ve no idea. I’m not really an overthinker |
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I don’t think I truly hate anyone in real life. Im not counting people I’ve never interacted with like Hitler etc. I hate some behaviours & events.
I tend towards accepting and I suppose loving people for what they are.
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I don't waste energy hating people, they're not worth it.
I don't love particularly easily either, few people manage to thaw my icy cold heart.
They're both extreme emotions though - I like people easily. |
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I love easily. Not in the "wuv, twoo wuv" sense, but in the way that I love my fellow man, my family, friends and acquaintances.
I don't think I truly hate anyone. I dislike some people and would rather not spend time in their company, but I don't think I could maintain true hatred as it feels a lot of effort for no benefit.
For me love is easy, hatred is difficult. |
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"I love easily. Not in the "wuv, twoo wuv" sense, but in the way that I love my fellow man, my family, friends and acquaintances.
I don't think I truly hate anyone. I dislike some people and would rather not spend time in their company, but I don't think I could maintain true hatred as it feels a lot of effort for no benefit.
For me love is easy, hatred is difficult."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find hate very hard as I'm always trying to understand others behaviours.
That being said I've a blanket hatred towards abusers of any kind, that I will never understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's far easier and far more pleasant to love.
I've only ever hated 2 people and they were both people I formerly loved, a partner and my step-father. Both hurt me astronomically and the hate was an all-consuming, anguish filled experience. Fortunately, I worked through it and the emotion faded. I don't want to waste that much energy on such negativity again.
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Both have the potential to hurt me and in the past both have done exactly that so I don't find it easy to do either.
I am comfortable saying that I love people as my friends and family and I like to think I show that in my actions rather than having to verbalise it.
I would have said I don't have the capacity for hate.
Even with everything I've gone through in life and growing up in what was literally a warzone I came through all that without resorting to hate.
There have been lots of people I dislike because of their words and actions and how they have treated others.
There are others I really dislike because of their lack of humanity and humility and there is no going back because of that but hate is too strong a word.
For me to hate someone would involve validation and I prefer to view them as insignificant and unimportant and don't waste my time on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love very few people, but it comes easy with them. I can't say I have ever truly hated anyone, and I have known some evil buggers who the planet would not miss. |
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