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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Did not want to take over another thread by asking this, but the thread going at the moment over who you need to fancy most ( male or female) reminded me of the number of profile that state “ the fem gets the final say” or similar.
Why do people do this?
Is it because the fem is choosier than the male?
Or is she a better judge of character?
Or is there another reason?
This is not me getting at anyone, as to some extent we do it too. He ( my husband) is more likely to find the fem of a couple attractive than I am to find the male attractive, and so it tends to be me who says “nah, not for us” when we look at profiles.
This does not mean that I get more say than him, but as we both need to be happy with the couple, I am just exercising my right to decline more than he is lol
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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I kinda get where this is coming from, I (fem) only really use fab to read the forums or chat with our friends on here, whereas hubby is the one who likes looking through others profiles and make first contact. So I am more likely to be the one to say no thank you as Dave will show me any he is interested in possibly meeting.
I like to think I'm a pretty good judge of character, quite often the tone of the messages you get goes down really quickly once the bloke on the other end realises that he is talking to the fem of the couple, yes I can talk dirty with the best of them, but if that is how the messaging starts then they are soon binned, if he can't respect me enough in writing how will he be in person 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why play with someone you don't fancy or get along with?
I wouldn't feel comfortable or turned on knowing Mrs Artful wasn't into the person in question, she would feel the same way when it came to me playing with someone.
We wouldn't take one for the team, for want of a.phrase.
It's a joint decision with us but there will.always be times when we will have different oppinions on the same person, when this happens we just weigh the pro's and cons up as to whether it's worth venturing further with whomever. |
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