Longest drive was 3.5 hours but I've also taken a plane to another country and flown back the same day.
I've never once been stood up or been the one standing anyone up.
It's all about the prep.
About 2.5 hours to meet someone I’d already met, I wouldn’t drive further than 30 minutes for a first meet/social.
I’ve never been stood up but have been cancelled at short notice .
Drive is 3 hours one way. I never book a meet weekend, without having other things to do.
I've I only ever been stood up in a friendzone cuppa hello social where I've had a free morning
My furthest was an hour and a half drive. I wouldn’t do that with fuel prices these days.
I’ve been visited by a woman who took a 3h train journey for a first meet. We did spend all weekend together though. It was a great weekend spoiled by her steeling my credit card.
I am probably lucky, never been stood up. Longest drive for a meet was 1.5 hours. Great meet with a couple. Definitely will do that again for right people