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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How long are you prepared to have 'fabbers' on your 'friends' list.
For example, if they hardly ever message you back to you from your messages that you have sent them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I deleted a few off my list the other day. I figured that if we never send a message saying hello then what's the point."
Well they're obviously missing our with you then! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My friends list Isn't too long and I speak to most regularly. My hotlist on the other hand is getting out of control.
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I do not have a 'hotlist' lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't look through our friends list often.
I was looking through yesterday, to find certain ones to contact.
I noticed some there that I couldn't remember and one that we last messaged 2 years ago, so I deleted a few. |
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We usually have a cut off of a month. We know people can be busy with irl stuff which is why it's set at a month as they bound to get 5 mins to message us that there still around just dealing with stuff |
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Can’t say we chat regularly to anyone on our friends list. Don’t get me wrong there has been conversations in the past that’s why they are there. But a constant conversation is not required to stay there. If I’m totally honest most people get taking off because they post a ghastly photo/video that puts the mrs off her morning coffee.
The mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a more intimate and private hotlist. it’s where the nude photos are isn’t it?
If I’d have them as a proper friend, I give my number and we would talk often. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
My friends list is in single numbers.I deleted a few off a while back because we never kept in touch so don't see the point of having them on there. It's usually reserved for people I've met anyhow or chat to regularly. |
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By *ayna20Couple
over a year ago
Kent |
Friends list for us serves two purposes
Keeping in touch with people we’ve met
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Getting to know people we’ve started chatting to
People we’ve met stay
New people go on the list but if the chat stops we remove if no chat for a two week period
People who send a request without a conversation generally won’t get accepted - unless we’re feeling really nosey in which case we accept, have a look then remove
That’s just how we choose to manage it
As such our list is generally single figures |
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We’ve started trimming our profile down and have moved most of our pics to friends now so we are trimming our friends list down to actually people we chat to regular.
This isn’t the book of face - if we’ve stopped chatting then there’s no point
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have people I’ve met on mine but we don’t speak often. I like to keep them on my friends list so they are easier to find and can see their updates etc if they post any. I don’t constantly message my friends on social media so it’s no different here for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only have people I’ve met on mine but we don’t speak often. I like to keep them on my friends list so they are easier to find and can see their updates etc if they post any. I don’t constantly message my friends on social media so it’s no different here for me. "
Same approach here |
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