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Face to face? V online,keyboards interactions
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer face to face chats, meets ?
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Keyboard,typing,behind screens,no voice interactions. ??
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Those that I like? F2F of course.
Those I'm ambivalent towards? Online over a keyboard is fine.
And those that have a tendency to be a tad whiny? I hope to never hear their voice as long as I live.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer face to face, however I’m finding more people are wanting to use text etc to communicate. I find this difficult as you can’t judge body language etc. it’s far more difficult."
same as you. Thats whats really missing tbh
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer face to face chats, meets ?
Or
Keyboard,typing,behind screens,no voice interactions. ??
Those that I like? F2F of course.
Those I'm ambivalent towards? Online over a keyboard is fine.
And those that have a tendency to be a tad whiny? I hope to never hear their voice as long as I live.
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Yes i hear you, do what works for you.
How can we find that balance without being there in the presence.
You cant best the real face to face.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face to face. Everytime. People are full of shit behind a phone.
The mr "
Man and gent out of my own very heart!!
A phone is used to arrange meets, ie coffe,meetings,dates,etc etc.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you prefer face to face chats, meets ?
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Keyboard,typing,behind screens,no voice interactions. ??
Depends if I am catfishing or being catfished! "
Dont do it. You have been advised!
" Karma "
It dont care,who you think you are. It will find you.
Sleep light.
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It’s why I do quite well on dating apps. I offer to meet after a week or so. Why spend weeks waffling about your favourite movie etc…on an app. Get out and meet up, if there’s a spark great ! If not move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the flow you can get with online chat, I think better when writing than I do when speaking so I can get more meaningful stuff out when messaging, I have managed to get some incredibly deep connections this way even before meeting a person. I love then to then see them face to face and carry on with what we have started knowing that you can dive straight into the gritty stuff because it is all already been said albeit written. I always wonder how I am ever again to get to know a person just by talking to them face to face, how do you dive into to juicy stuff if not with written words first.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s why I do quite well on dating apps. I offer to meet after a week or so. Why spend weeks waffling about your favourite movie etc…on an app. Get out and meet up, if there’s a spark great ! If not move on.
So it’s always get out and meet for me. "
Yes. Chat meet, it is what people agree to.
Have to take the lead. . Many on here dont want that.
Move on i say.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Prefer to chat in person but thats difficult here not a fan of cam chats  "
.. same.
Cam chats not for me!
Most i viewed,only want to wank! And the women encourage it!
Iam getting my mind around it all.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love the flow you can get with online chat, I think better when writing than I do when speaking so I can get more meaningful stuff out when messaging, I have managed to get some incredibly deep connections this way even before meeting a person. I love then to then see them face to face and carry on with what we have started knowing that you can dive straight into the gritty stuff because it is all already been said albeit written. I always wonder how I am ever again to get to know a person just by talking to them face to face, how do you dive into to juicy stuff if not with written words first. "
Massive pro's & con's with all that, but in very small measure its ok online.. but then in face to face you wont have much to talk about spontaniously or freestyle?
Do whats best for you. .but do think longterm , its a journey and development and growth.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love the flow you can get with online chat, I think better when writing than I do when speaking so I can get more meaningful stuff out when messaging, I have managed to get some incredibly deep connections this way even before meeting a person. I love then to then see them face to face and carry on with what we have started knowing that you can dive straight into the gritty stuff because it is all already been said albeit written. I always wonder how I am ever again to get to know a person just by talking to them face to face, how do you dive into to juicy stuff if not with written words first. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who has actually met from fab here?
How was the first contact,? The next stage? And the actual meet inperson?
Did it live to your mental expection?
Whats happened since with that_ those contacts?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Who has actually met from fab here?
How was the first contact,? The next stage? And the actual meet inperson?
Did it live to your mental expection?
Whats happened since with that_ those contacts?
Cheers for all your time! "
I met a couple from surrey back in june 2021. Had only joined in april 2021.
The hunny reached out to me. We had a chat on the phone/wahtsapp pics of me. None of them both.
We decided to meet at a country pub. I drove to them
Drinks all at the ready. I turnd up, very smart casual as per usual my style and choice.
We chatted away, me and ladys hubby. She just looked on at me.
Nothing from her,only smiles and smirks.
I got up to leave. Drove bacl to london.
Rang the chap aweek later,asked how our meet went for them,
He admitted it was his idea, he felt he was not big enough in the Mens dept and wañted his wife to be pleasured by other men.
Still no feedback from his mrs.
Heh ho. I met and drove inperson and showed myself in the flesh.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends on the mental state of the person "
hi. Cheers for the compliments in my pm. The other day.
I keep saying. "Mindset/ & connections"
Lòoks dont equate to mind and mental state.
The body is a mere shell,without the mind,soul,spirit that drives that body and vehicle.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't meet face to face from here to get to know someone.
Got caught out a few times when I first joined by men who just wanted a grope under a pub table or a blow job in an alley on the walk back to the station.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Prefer face to face but it is nice to build up a little trust before meeting I find "
I think and know of real trust is built over time. By real actions not just mere words.
Time shows who is whom when and where
We some are battling with this tech socil fast paced life now.
It shows no mercy or favours.
Media is a tool to open connections n communications. But the correct intention has to be made firstly. Otherwise the result is far from redundant is everyway.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't meet face to face from here to get to know someone.
Got caught out a few times when I first joined by men who just wanted a grope under a pub table or a blow job in an alley on the walk back to the station.
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Really! How on earth does one meet then! ? Lol
Take a mate, or one of your playmates to keep guard.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't meet face to face from here to get to know someone.
Got caught out a few times when I first joined by men who just wanted a grope under a pub table or a blow job in an alley on the walk back to the station.
Really! How on earth does one meet then! ? Lol
Take a mate, or one of your playmates to keep guard.
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I have a long conversation on here first, to make sure they can accommodate and we're compatible.
Then I go straight to the naked part.
It's been working fine for me for over a decade.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't meet face to face from here to get to know someone.
Got caught out a few times when I first joined by men who just wanted a grope under a pub table or a blow job in an alley on the walk back to the station.
Really! How on earth does one meet then! ? Lol
Take a mate, or one of your playmates to keep guard.
I have a long conversation on here first, to make sure they can accommodate and we're compatible.
Then I go straight to the naked part.
It's been working fine for me for over a decade.
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Naked part?? Lol made me chuckle!
If i done that! They would call the blooming coastguard out SOS!!
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