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Real Connections v non, only surface level
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Real connections vice/verse?
On the surface skimming?
What do we really deeply desire/want/need/require?
Yeah in some case's
We clap with 2 hands. Not one.
People can have both."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Real connections vice/verse?
On the surface skimming?
What do we really deeply desire/want/need/require?
Yeah in some case's
We clap with 2 hands. Not one.
People can have both."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people I let cream pie me, others only get to spunk on my face 
And never the twain shall meet."
Morning Pete.
Hows tricks? Friday ladies n gents |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Skimming over the surface served me well in the past. Now I want a real connection "
Sure!
I understand ever more. Thats why created this post!"
Connections!"dont mean limits?? Limits are what we place upon ourselves, but we look to blame others!
Chat away, i dont bite |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Connections. I no longer feel sexual attraction without a friendship of some sort, I enjoyed my surface level slut phase a few years ago but now... I like a friendship. Need it before I can be aroused by someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Skimming over the surface served me well in the past. Now I want a real connection
Sure!
I understand ever more. Thats why created this post!"
Connections!"dont mean limits?? Limits are what we place upon ourselves, but we look to blame others!
Chat away, i dont bite "
I would but I'm going to work soon.
For me it was a lustful need for sex when I first ventured onto fab. I didn't want a connection at all.
Now I want to explore certain things I want that connection with someone. It needs trust and communication and I also need to like the person I'm with for want of a better word. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Skimming over the surface served me well in the past. Now I want a real connection
Sure!
I understand ever more. Thats why created this post!"
Connections!"dont mean limits?? Limits are what we place upon ourselves, but we look to blame others!
Chat away, i dont bite
I would but I'm going to work soon.
For me it was a lustful need for sex when I first ventured onto fab. I didn't want a connection at all.
Now I want to explore certain things I want that connection with someone. It needs trust and communication and I also need to like the person I'm with for want of a better word."
We all or most work right! Do we to live? Or live to work? Lol
Pm's easy no commitment. Your choice
Stay blessed, Peace. |
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I prefer connections even if some of those are loose connections held in place with insulating tape.
For me personally, trust is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs and that can only be gained through a deeper connection.
Even in non sexual friendships having some form of connection will always be a better foundation to build on.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Connections. I no longer feel sexual attraction without a friendship of some sort, I enjoyed my surface level slut phase a few years ago but now... I like a friendship. Need it before I can be aroused by someone."
Fully agree! We all are on a journey of self really. Some help us, some force us the help i guess. Pain is a process how you manage it, it up to that person.
We all or most need Guidance from unselfish humans!
Without any expectations.
I value connections deeply!
Peace  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer connections even if some of those are loose connections held in place with insulating tape.
For me personally, trust is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs and that can only be gained through a deeper connection.
Even in non sexual friendships having some form of connection will always be a better foundation to build on.
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Ditto!
Same mindset.
Be light and fly!
Connections are what the naked eye cannot see,its what you feel a vubration.
Late bruce said. " feel "
Peace .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Real connections vice/verse?
On the surface skimming?
What do we really deeply desire/want/need/require?
People can have both."
Do you have both? At this very time! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have both. I don't want or have the time to nurture a lot of deep connections. So very happy to have a mixture of both "
Hear you loud and clear.
We only carry a weight and burden our shoulders can only bare.
Enjoÿ the journey with smiles.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I need to connect to the point of liking the person and enjoying their company, but I've no desire for that connection to lead to a relationship. "
Same frequency as myself.
Like is a two way deal.
We have relations all day long, we just dont see it that way! You have a relationship with yourself first?
I think you mean? Nothing heavy nor commited, so you have the freedoms to do your thing/things etc
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Both to a degree, but sex is definitely better when there’s a connection. "
Yes ,sex is way more fullyfulling with connections of trust, honesty,relaliabilty,respect.
But we have to attain that vice/verse.
I have noticed on fab esp.
Many demand! But have nothing to offer really. So it falls short.
Many are left complexed by it all.
I do personal development and lifestyle. For growth etc.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Without a connection I don’t feel any attraction. I’m not talking life partner stuff but there has to be a meeting of minds."
Totally the same.
I agree.
Happy friday fellow fabbing gent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Attention!
I am seeking a lady at the moment as a wing person. Male to at some pint.
For personal development lifestyle connections. To help many seeking mind freedoms etc. To enhance their lives!"
To be held in central london soon.
Pls pm. Lets chat openly.
Adam peace.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to delve deep beyond the veneer.
It's always chipboard beneath the veneer, never oak! "
Lol i get you.
Chip board's,everywhere! Its cheaper!
"Oak" i knw what that is.
What are you? Really!
Beyond your vaneer. Ie long legs dressed in Red for fire and heat.
Ps. Pm its easier than the main forum.
Tangable dialogues shall proceed if you wish.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to delve deep beyond the veneer.
It's always chipboard beneath the veneer, never oak! "
What are we really firstly?
We see,or many not see in others what we assume of or from them.
Take the higher ground and be,what you seek or see lacking of internally and externally!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to delve deep beyond the veneer.
It's always chipboard beneath the veneer, never oak!
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I have an arboretum just for you Måren, and I offer monogamy.
Sorry, mahogany."
Ah, beautiful Hard Wood. |
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