wake up feeling just…. sigh, ugh, meh?
In the grand scheme of things I have absolutely nothing to complain about. I’m moving back home after a very lonely year away, I have good friends who I will see again, I’ll date, hopefully see some nice people from fab, have a decent (but boring) job, no money worries etc.
And yet this morning I have woken up feeling utterly underwhelmed. Empty. Disconsolate.
Can’t think of any reason why. Just….. sigh.
Anyway, now I’ve just made you all feel a little less cheery, have a great day lounge lovelies!!!  |
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I feel that every morning for the first half an hour! But as soon as I'm up and with a coffee or 2 down me I think, there's things to do to make good stuff happen so let's get grafting!
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"I feel that every morning for the first half an hour! But as soon as I'm up and with a coffee or 2 down me I think, there's things to do to make good stuff happen so let's get grafting!
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Yeah I get that feeling every now and again..
Sometimes hard to pull yourself out of it and get back to feeling ok again.
Your not alone with it.. sure loads feel the same way |
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I feel like this quite a lot. The only solution for me is to get up and get on with things. It can be hard to motivate yourself sometimes but distraction with activity does help. Then you have to do it again the next day. |
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No I'm a very positive person so I'm always hopeful with a constant happy mood, Torquay however in the winter months doesn't have a lot to do, I'm guessing the thought of you moving back home to what you know doesn't inspire you but surely thats better than being lonely  |
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Now and again, but the downs are as important as the ups. That’s what I tell myself
Fingers crossed at the moment, all is ok. However I might have a few days like this over the next few weeks with working my notice |
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"No I'm a very positive person so I'm always hopeful with a constant happy mood, Torquay however in the winter months doesn't have a lot to do, I'm guessing the thought of you moving back home to what you know doesn't inspire you but surely thats better than being lonely "
Quite the opposite in fact, old thing! I can’t wait to be back home. I think I’m probably just feeling alone and lonely and unloved up here.
I shall roust myself from my bed and have breakfast. Maybe treat myself to a special Thursday wank. |
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"No I'm a very positive person so I'm always hopeful with a constant happy mood, Torquay however in the winter months doesn't have a lot to do, I'm guessing the thought of you moving back home to what you know doesn't inspire you but surely thats better than being lonely
Quite the opposite in fact, old thing! I can’t wait to be back home. I think I’m probably just feeling alone and lonely and unloved up here.
I shall roust myself from my bed and have breakfast. Maybe treat myself to a special Thursday wank."
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On the contrary, I usually wake up in a good, positive mood.
The meh feeling comes later during the day, caused by physical exhaustion and mental strain of solo caring for two young children with complex needs, work overload and general gloom.
But I’ve managed to develop a couple of strategies to help me cope and I can bounce back pretty much quickly.
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'Ich weiß nicht was sol ist bedeuten,
Daß ich so traurig bin' wrote Heine 200 years ago. And Burton's Anatomy of Melancholy was 200 years before that. I'm sorry the black dog has settled with you today. May its visit be brief. |
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"No I'm a very positive person so I'm always hopeful with a constant happy mood, Torquay however in the winter months doesn't have a lot to do, I'm guessing the thought of you moving back home to what you know doesn't inspire you but surely thats better than being lonely
Quite the opposite in fact, old thing! I can’t wait to be back home. I think I’m probably just feeling alone and lonely and unloved up here.
I shall roust myself from my bed and have breakfast. Maybe treat myself to a special Thursday wank.
Use your left hand for a change "
You know men too well! |
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"No I'm a very positive person so I'm always hopeful with a constant happy mood, Torquay however in the winter months doesn't have a lot to do, I'm guessing the thought of you moving back home to what you know doesn't inspire you but surely thats better than being lonely
Quite the opposite in fact, old thing! I can’t wait to be back home. I think I’m probably just feeling alone and lonely and unloved up here.
I shall roust myself from my bed and have breakfast. Maybe treat myself to a special Thursday wank.
Use your left hand for a change
You know men too well! "
It’s not even the first time I’ve said it this morning |
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"No I'm a very positive person so I'm always hopeful with a constant happy mood, Torquay however in the winter months doesn't have a lot to do, I'm guessing the thought of you moving back home to what you know doesn't inspire you but surely thats better than being lonely
Quite the opposite in fact, old thing! I can’t wait to be back home. I think I’m probably just feeling alone and lonely and unloved up here.
I shall roust myself from my bed and have breakfast. Maybe treat myself to a special Thursday wank.
Use your left hand for a change
You know men too well!
It’s not even the first time I’ve said it this morning "
And I thought I was special!! |
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"'Ich weiß nicht was sol ist bedeuten,
Daß ich so traurig bin' wrote Heine 200 years ago. And Burton's Anatomy of Melancholy was 200 years before that. I'm sorry the black dog has settled with you today. May its visit be brief."
So what you’re saying is - could be worse… |
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"I feel that every morning for the first half an hour! But as soon as I'm up and with a coffee or 2 down me I think, there's things to do to make good stuff happen so let's get grafting!
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"And you are definitely a grafter in the lounge!!! "
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"Can I suggest some kitchen dancing OP. Works for me every single morning 
After a (ladywank) obvs 
Love it! I think will find happy tunes on my phone and let Inspiration stroke. I mean strike."
Absofuckinglutely
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"'Ich weiß nicht was sol ist bedeuten,
Daß ich so traurig bin' wrote Heine 200 years ago. And Burton's Anatomy of Melancholy was 200 years before that. I'm sorry the black dog has settled with you today. May its visit be brief.
So what you’re saying is - could be worse… "
No! That would be an awful thing to say! |
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Yes, often. Then my 6 year old comes through and asks to get my medicine out for me to take. I smile, agree and feel guilty that he's doing that for me because he knows it's supposed to help me *sigh*
Huge mum guilt
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"wake up feeling just…. sigh, ugh, meh?
In the grand scheme of things I have absolutely nothing to complain about. I’m moving back home after a very lonely year away, I have good friends who I will see again, I’ll date, hopefully see some nice people from fab, have a decent (but boring) job, no money worries etc.
And yet this morning I have woken up feeling utterly underwhelmed. Empty. Disconsolate.
Can’t think of any reason why. Just….. sigh.
Anyway, now I’ve just made you all feel a little less cheery, have a great day lounge lovelies!!! "
Oh I think it is natural to feel a bit meh... after what sounds like a long awaited return home, you may just have built it all up in your mind and expected yourself to feel a certain way which hasn't transpired. That's OK. You'll adjust. |
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"wake up feeling just…. sigh, ugh, meh?
In the grand scheme of things I have absolutely nothing to complain about. I’m moving back home after a very lonely year away, I have good friends who I will see again, I’ll date, hopefully see some nice people from fab, have a decent (but boring) job, no money worries etc.
And yet this morning I have woken up feeling utterly underwhelmed. Empty. Disconsolate.
Can’t think of any reason why. Just….. sigh.
Anyway, now I’ve just made you all feel a little less cheery, have a great day lounge lovelies!!!
Oh I think it is natural to feel a bit meh... after what sounds like a long awaited return home, you may just have built it all up in your mind and expected yourself to feel a certain way which hasn't transpired. That's OK. You'll adjust. "
Like the beginning of The Thirty-Nine Steps! You just need to uncover an international conspiracy and you'll regain an interest in life. |
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"wake up feeling just…. sigh, ugh, meh?
In the grand scheme of things I have absolutely nothing to complain about. I’m moving back home after a very lonely year away, I have good friends who I will see again, I’ll date, hopefully see some nice people from fab, have a decent (but boring) job, no money worries etc.
And yet this morning I have woken up feeling utterly underwhelmed. Empty. Disconsolate.
Can’t think of any reason why. Just….. sigh.
Anyway, now I’ve just made you all feel a little less cheery, have a great day lounge lovelies!!!
Oh I think it is natural to feel a bit meh... after what sounds like a long awaited return home, you may just have built it all up in your mind and expected yourself to feel a certain way which hasn't transpired. That's OK. You'll adjust.
Like the beginning of The Thirty-Nine Steps! You just need to uncover an international conspiracy and you'll regain an interest in life."
That’s my dad’s favourite film |
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"wake up feeling just…. sigh, ugh, meh?
In the grand scheme of things I have absolutely nothing to complain about. I’m moving back home after a very lonely year away, I have good friends who I will see again, I’ll date, hopefully see some nice people from fab, have a decent (but boring) job, no money worries etc.
And yet this morning I have woken up feeling utterly underwhelmed. Empty. Disconsolate.
Can’t think of any reason why. Just….. sigh.
Anyway, now I’ve just made you all feel a little less cheery, have a great day lounge lovelies!!!
Oh I think it is natural to feel a bit meh... after what sounds like a long awaited return home, you may just have built it all up in your mind and expected yourself to feel a certain way which hasn't transpired. That's OK. You'll adjust.
Like the beginning of The Thirty-Nine Steps! You just need to uncover an international conspiracy and you'll regain an interest in life.
That’s my dad’s favourite film"
Zing!
I’ve never seen it. Sounds like a classic (old) |
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"wake up feeling just…. sigh, ugh, meh?
In the grand scheme of things I have absolutely nothing to complain about. I’m moving back home after a very lonely year away, I have good friends who I will see again, I’ll date, hopefully see some nice people from fab, have a decent (but boring) job, no money worries etc.
And yet this morning I have woken up feeling utterly underwhelmed. Empty. Disconsolate.
Can’t think of any reason why. Just….. sigh.
Anyway, now I’ve just made you all feel a little less cheery, have a great day lounge lovelies!!! "
Yep what you describe is very relatable, feel this way all too often. |
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Zing!
I’ve never seen it. Sounds like a classic (old)
Nothing wrong with a classic - I am one
I hope you feel better. Just remember you’re a fabulous creature  "
Hahaha!! Oh, you
I’m doing better already, thank you |
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Zing!
I’ve never seen it. Sounds like a classic (old)
Nothing wrong with a classic - I am one
I hope you feel better. Just remember you’re a fabulous creature
Hahaha!! Oh, you
I’m doing better already, thank you "
Ah - my work here is done |
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