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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those of you looking for men...
Out of curiosity, how often do you make first contact with them, or do you wait to be contacted and go from there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those of you looking for men...
Out of curiosity, how often do you make first contact with them, or do you wait to be contacted and go from there? "
Have both a single girls acc and a couples acc.
From single girls acc I wait for messages.
From couples account we browse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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honestly 1/30
I am trying to be more proactive in my search for men but life isnt simple & I spend most my 'fab time' on the forums.
In clubs its 50/50 but then sometimes I might just smile at someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i never make first contact
I have my setting set to not show if i have looked at someones profile, but if i look at a profile i like i will take the setting off go and have another look then put it back on so it shows up that ive looked at them, that way im getting their attention as most will view the profile of whos looked at them and if they like me they will mail, if not i did the right thing by not mailing them
i never do that to forum regualrs tho, or the popular guys who get lots of meets anyway, no matter how much im attracted to them and i dont really see these people as being interested in me in that way
im not confidant enough to mail someone first or wink etc im scared they will look at my profile and think...in your dreams 
infact i sometimes wonder how i get any meets at all cause im pretty shit at it all really lol |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"i never make first contact
I have my setting set to not show if i have looked at someones profile, but if i look at a profile i like i will take the setting off go and have another look then put it back on so it shows up that ive looked at them, that way im getting their attention as most will view the profile of whos looked at them and if they like me they will mail, if not i did the right thing by not mailing them
i never do that to forum regualrs tho, or the popular guys who get lots of meets anyway, no matter how much im attracted to them and i dont really see these people as being interested in me in that way
im not confidant enough to mail someone first or wink etc im scared they will look at my profile and think...in your dreams
infact i sometimes wonder how i get any meets at all cause im pretty shit at it all really lol"
You realise that as soon as you turn it back on again you will disappear from his looked at me list and will never know lol |
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My wife/slave, generally makes first contact with those she finds attractive. Thing is for the poor (genuine) single guys, loads of profiles threaten blocking if they so much as glimpse at a couples profile. I would hate to be on here as a single guy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My wife/slave, generally makes first contact with those she finds attractive. Thing is for the poor (genuine) single guys, loads of profiles threaten blocking if they so much as glimpse at a couples profile. I would hate to be on here as a single guy "
Yeah, to be fair it is rather an arduous task. Hence my question. I do try my best to grab some people's attention, sometimes to no avail. It's just the nature of the beast. 
Roll with the punches and keep trying I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far I've not had to go looking to contact cos I've been lucky enough to have a few messages like all the ladies lol. If a guy winks at me and I like the look of him and his profile then ill message him |
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There is usually a 1 in 50 (or so) chance we will get a message from someone we're BOTH attracted to, so truth be told it's much easier for us to go looking...
At least then there's a chance we will get what we ACTUALLY want.
- VincentandAmy. x |
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By *usky1Woman
over a year ago
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Have winked a couple of times, but have been lucky in that I have been contacted by single men. However I do ignore a lot of messages as people don't seem to read my profile properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As my OHs business comes first, we find it difficult arranging meets in advance. Our spare time is usually last minute so we either go to a club if its a weekend, or if we can midweek then we look and message guys, either from our friends list or we look at profiles |
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I make first contact less than I am contacted, however when I do and the guy is interested it tends to be a more successful outcome, in that we meet...
If a guy catches my attention with a well written profile and decent photo's I use all the tools available! Mixture of winks, fabbing pics, messages if they are on the forums. Regularly check the local updates on the homepage.
Some I contact because they are recommended by friends. Often I see a hottie on cam in the chat rooms and flirt with them there...Works for me, and I feel more in control. |
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