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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Is it rite to ask if the folk u meet if they have been checked out n r clear of std's n sti's .............."
You can ask, but how would you know if they're telling the truth?
Glove up and your risk will be reduced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it rite to ask if the folk u meet if they have been checked out n r clear of std's n sti's .............."
Better to ask than presume! Some will lie whatever but some may be honest if you ask so its ok in our boos to ask and never insulting to be in the receiving end of a question like that.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Is it rite to ask if the folk u meet if they have been checked out n r clear of std's n sti's .............."
you can ask.... but i bet the answer you will hear is "yes" regardless of whether they have or not....
in the end the only person who can protect you is you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's your prerogative, if you feel the need then do it but in my experiences all swingers are usually 100% safe and clean xxxx
I would not say all...."
There's always that risk, that's why I never go without protection x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is not WRONG to ask, but in our opinion it is a bit pointless.
Unless you have a way of chcking if they are telling the truth, you are safrer assuming they are not clear.
Also, even in the old days of clinics issuing "certificates", they were only stating that they did not have anoything at the point they were tested. the day after the test they may have caught something. |
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You can ask.... But unless you've been to the GUM clinic with them.... Stayed by their side every minute between testing...and gone along to get their results with them..... Then you'll never know... |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"You can ask.... But unless you've been to the GUM clinic with them.... Stayed by their side every minute between testing...and gone along to get their results with them..... Then you'll never know..."
And been with them every minute since.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can ask but how many would give an honest answer remains to be seen, i know some people who ask for proof of last test."
N were they shown.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it rite to ask if the folk u meet if they have been checked out n r clear of std's n sti's .............."
going by your verifications you have had a few meets,have you asked and if so what was the reaction and furthermore have you been asked and if so what was your answer?
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"You can ask but how many would give an honest answer remains to be seen, i know some people who ask for proof of last test.
N were they shown.........."
My local GUM Clinic don't give you written results... You call an automated phone line and use a unique patient number and results are given via phone, so it wouldn't always be possible to "show" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A test result isnt worth the paprer its written on, as soon as that person walks out the clinic they clould go and have unprotected sex and the result would be void on the same day of testing |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"You can ask but how many would give an honest answer remains to be seen, i know some people who ask for proof of last test.
N were they shown.........."
Some clinics text their results so you could always ask for that. Unfortunately they could have worked their way through a battleship since then but they would have been clean for an hour or so.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can ask.. Its down to the person to answer the question and hopfully will be honest... I could say I am STD free but be walking around with anything... hence why no glove no love... "
But what if there fingerless gloves  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"You can ask but how many would give an honest answer remains to be seen, i know some people who ask for proof of last test.
N were they shown.........."
as others have said.. the piece of paper is only useful at the time you take the test... from the point where they start playing again it is worthless....
so short of a lie detector what are you going to do....
as everyone in the thread has said... all you can do is protect yourself the best way you can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With all respect to everyone on here even if you've known someone a while ,you could never be sure and neither could they, no one gets into the disco without a jacket !
So you meet someone for the first time an they say yep I'm fine let's go bareback .......you'd have to be mad! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it rite to ask if the folk u meet if they have been checked out n r clear of std's n sti's ..............going by your verifications you have had a few meets,have you asked and if so what was the reaction and furthermore have you been asked and if so what was your answer?
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Never ad sex with any and if did would never do so without condom |
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