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Predatory Females.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some men really can't handle women who are confident and seek out what they want. Often if a guy is getting pushy and you come over all tigress he will run for the hills.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found lots of guys dont like sexually confidant women
They still like to think they are in charge when it comes to such things 
ive had a few guys talk to me in clubs and end up running because they say im to forwards |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Guys, does this put you off or is it a bit of a turn on? "
depends on what you mean...
woman taking the lead... sure....
flattered if a woman approaches me!!!
predatory as in being grabbed by the bits and say i fancy black..... no thanks (thats happened to me in a club!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personlly love it and i have experienced it a few times now,a couple of them at first seemed quiet almost shy but within a few seconds they were proper dirty bitches!.Last one i encountered at a club came in and did not speak to anyone one until she was ready to play with a guy while he was shagging her she said to me "choke me with your cock" she then pulled me in and took all my cock straight in her mouth deep throat style then after a minute or so she opened a condom and said put "this on you fucking dirty bastard" then got rid of the guy who was shagging her and told me to fuck her brains out.At the end of the night we met at the bar for a drink and she was pretty normal so she must have been mega horny but she never even said hello or allowed me to introduce myself to her it was straight down to business with her!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats ment by predatory women then?
women who just go round stalking men and expecting them to shag them?
That's certainly my understanding and seen it happen."
oh no im not like that
but if im with someone and they arnt doing things to my liking i will tell them and tell them how i do like it, i'll also tell guys from the start what i like and expect from sex, i wount just take whats offered, i have found a lot of guys dont like it tho some take it as criticism, i will take over if things arnt going to plan, i know what i like and i aim to get it one way or another, even if it means doing it myself lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love confidence in a woman, someone who knows what she wants and usually gets it 
But then again I'm not turned in by someone who is a groper after five seconds.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problems at all if a confident women contacted me. At the end of the day if you both click and like each other then it was worth it and I would be glad she did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love em xxxx doesn't get more sexier than confidence in a woman taking me when she wants
ok big boy, bend over...  "
Thing is sexy, I'm a confident guy too so no boundaries of mine are getting crossed lol!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love em xxxx doesn't get more sexier than confidence in a woman taking me when she wants I will bare that in mind.  "
Mmmm sounds like you know what you want  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find that many guys can be scared off when I'm on the prowl. Others love it. I don't really intend to change though. Lol
I know what I want. I make it clear what I want too
Cali |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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it is definately one of those threads where if it had been a man to start it.. and it had been called predetory men... I'm guessing the topic would have gone in a completely different direction..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that many guys can be scared off when I'm on the prowl. Others love it. I don't really intend to change though. Lol
I know what I want. I make it clear what I want too
Cali"
 What a fantastic way to be |
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"Some blokes I work with have said they find me scary. Not sure why! I'm sexually confident but am only having a laugh with them half the time x"
I could see why a lot of vanilla guys would - a professional, self-confident sexy woman that knows what she wants and how to get it...! They'd run a mile! Whereas to a swingle that is very attractive as can often lead to some fantastic sex....!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still don't get it, in what terms are you classed as predatory ?"
Well Julie, in my experience it's when a female lurks in a bush keeny observing a male passer-by.
Then when he's in striking distance, she stealths up behind, springs without warning, pins the unsuspecting male down before attempting to devour him.
I say in my experience - it's only happened to me twice but I escaped on both occasions with minor cuts and bruises. Both predatory women are still loose in the wild. |
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Depends.... I don't see confidence as predatory. Knowing what you like and having the confidence to say it, is very sexy. Grabbing when un-invited and such like or acting completely without any diplomacy is not. |
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Hottie hunting is my favourite sport! And Fab is an excellent game reserve.
Gok coined the phrase last night on his new show teaching women confidence and to flirt
'Assess, Attract, Action'. Love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like confident women, stronger the better
I don't like predatory in the context of forum shadowing, they follow the guys around they fancy with pmsl, lmfao and a million , just ask them to shag would be stronger and more confident"
Yes I completely agree. Women who are sexually confident will message guys and ask them to meet. Women who aren't so confident will use the indirect route and wait for the guy to message them |
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By *tar_gfWoman
over a year ago
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Thought I would throw my opinion in to this discussion (am on a roll doing 1st posts on the forum tonight!!)
I have always been ... assertive shall we say! this led to me moving away from the vanilla sex scene in my late teens and taking the label of 'domme' in the bdsm and fetish world instead. I have a senior professional job, am naturally decisive and very forward so 'domme' seemed like the only choice rather than scaring off guys in normal clubs!!
Its only in the last couple of years that i have started to move away from the fet scene and just accept that i am a female pervert who likes to be in control of all situations!! fortunately my bf loves this about me and sought a dominant gf for a long time before meeting me - so win/win for us!!
Think there is a big difference between being confident and grabbing a mans bits in a club though which is just as much sexual harrassment as when it happens to a girl.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I love them when they are feisty and the go get em sort. You know they are not going to get offended and you can push boundaries as they are confident enough to go with it or tell you to sod off. I don't see them as ball breakers or boilers just women who have been there done that and like to choose their own path. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Guys, does this put you off or is it a bit of a turn on? "
met a few - tamed most, though yes - its great to see an assertive woman. It usually comes from knowing yourself more than a 'bitch' attitude though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I love them when they are feisty and the go get em sort. You know they are not going to get offended and you can push boundaries as they are confident enough to go with it or tell you to sod off. I don't see them as ball breakers or boilers just women who have been there done that and like to choose their own path. "
that's a good definition. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No i dont go looking thay come to me .. "
Think we all get our fair share of messages,that doesnt mean we cant be pro active in getting what we want, personally i love the thrill of the chase, it bores me if im the one being chased all the time. |
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Quite a few posters are using their own interpretation of predatory - even to the level of saying predators are sex pests;going even further and saying a male predator would be pilloried and jailed. Some even suggesting that predators are vulgar, embarrassing gropers.
Predator just means 'hunter' ,'searcher'
or 'proactive seeker'.
HOW the woman behaves when she finds the type of man she is interested in is a different thing.
There are predatory people with class and others who are crass.
Predatory doesn't mean sex offender.
Sign of the times I think.
The media often uses the words 'So and so began a ten year sentence today for 'preying' on lone women.
However it's not the preying that he was jailed for but his behaviour after selecting them. |
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"Quite a few posters are using their own interpretation of predatory - even to the level of saying predators are sex pests;going even further and saying a male predator would be pilloried and jailed. Some even suggesting that predators are vulgar, embarrassing gropers.
Predator just means 'hunter' ,'searcher'
or 'proactive seeker'.
HOW the woman behaves when she finds the type of man she is interested in is a different thing.
There are predatory people with class and others who are crass.
Predatory doesn't mean sex offender.
Sign of the times I think.
The media often uses the words 'So and so began a ten year sentence today for 'preying' on lone women.
However it's not the preying that he was jailed for but his behaviour after selecting them. "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Quite a few posters are using their own interpretation of predatory - even to the level of saying predators are sex pests;going even further and saying a male predator would be pilloried and jailed. Some even suggesting that predators are vulgar, embarrassing gropers.
Predator just means 'hunter' ,'searcher'
or 'proactive seeker'.
HOW the woman behaves when she finds the type of man she is interested in is a different thing.
There are predatory people with class and others who are crass.
Predatory doesn't mean sex offender.
Sign of the times I think.
The media often uses the words 'So and so began a ten year sentence today for 'preying' on lone women.
However it's not the preying that he was jailed for but his behaviour after selecting them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No i dont go looking thay come to me .. Think we all get our fair share of messages,that doesnt mean we cant be pro active in getting what we want, personally i love the thrill of the chase, it bores me if im the one being chased all the time."
well thats you ... I get offers on here and away from here .. rear i see a man i wish too run after. Was a man New years in tescos getting petrol with guns so BIG and a body to die for , lol we did smile and he was saying moving his gym and the place i may go ,lolol work out after Xmas be good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No i dont go looking thay come to me .. Think we all get our fair share of messages,that doesnt mean we cant be pro active in getting what we want, personally i love the thrill of the chase, it bores me if im the one being chased all the time. well thats you ... I get offers on here and away from here .. rear i see a man i wish too run after. Was a man New years in tescos getting petrol with guns so BIG and a body to die for , lol we did smile and he was saying moving his gym and the place i may go ,lolol work out after Xmas be good."
Im not sure what you are trying to say to be honest, but getting offers away from Fabswingers is a fact of life for many women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few posters are using their own interpretation of predatory - even to the level of saying predators are sex pests;going even further and saying a male predator would be pilloried and jailed. Some even suggesting that predators are vulgar, embarrassing gropers.
Predator just means 'hunter' ,'searcher'
or 'proactive seeker'.
HOW the woman behaves when she finds the type of man she is interested in is a different thing.
There are predatory people with class and others who are crass.
Predatory doesn't mean sex offender.
Sign of the times I think.
The media often uses the words 'So and so began a ten year sentence today for 'preying' on lone women.
However it's not the preying that he was jailed for but his behaviour after selecting them. "
Which is why I asked for clarification on what the OP meant.
Knowing what you want and being confident is IMO different.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No i dont go looking thay come to me .. Think we all get our fair share of messages,that doesnt mean we cant be pro active in getting what we want, personally i love the thrill of the chase, it bores me if im the one being chased all the time. well thats you ... I get offers on here and away from here .. rear i see a man i wish too run after. Was a man New years in tescos getting petrol with guns so BIG and a body to die for , lol we did smile and he was saying moving his gym and the place i may go ,lolol work out after Xmas be good.Im not sure what you are trying to say to be honest, but getting offers away from Fabswingers is a fact of life for many women."
yes i get offers here ,, and away from here .. just most not for me so i dont run chase after them .God every woman here on fab get men after them .. What this sites about. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Huge difference in my world between a confident woman who knows what she wants and how to get what she wants and a predatory one. Predatory by definition (preying on others, not caring what damage they may cause in the process etc) is not what I want to be about or be known for. Confident? Yes, no problem with that |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Guys, does this put you off or is it a bit of a turn on?
predator is not for me, it sounds like stalking
thrill me the chase is a big turn on
there is a big difference, focus on the op message"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See i actually do go on the prowl. I decide I want someone then I tend to go for it. But not in a nasty way. I just if I want something I tend to go for it. But I like to have them make the first move. But they will know I'm willing
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"Huge difference in my world between a confident woman who knows what she wants and how to get what she wants and a predatory one. Predatory by definition (preying on others, not caring what damage they may cause in the process etc) is not what I want to be about or be known for. Confident? Yes, no problem with that "
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