Everyone is broken in some way some more than others myself for instance I was broken 10 years ago and I think about it all the time and know that I couldn't do anything to change it but the pain never leaves you or lessens it just gets easier to bare with. Sending you big hugs op and if you ever want to vent please feel free to get in touch |
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I was full on broken with the menopause and considered going unlos. So I took last year out from fabbing and concentrated on the socials Instead, luckily supplements are returning my libido and my Interest is slowly growing |
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I can't message you as you've blocked everyone (obviously  ) but hope you're OK. I didn't see the post but always remember you are worthy of Ryan and his asshole and so so soooo much more. You're a good one. Make sure you look after yourself. |
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I used to be a really cold fish and would never cuddle any of my meets and rarely kissed. It wasn't until I met my beloved that he taught me it was OK to be affectionate. I learnt to kiss and cuddle on my meets and with my beloved I became so affectionate I verged on being needy. Affection is lovely I think it takes the right person to bring it out in you |
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I'm not sure what was said...
But no-onne is broken. We may not be the best verison of ourselves at all times; we may have parts of our brains wired in ways that are not helpful; we may may be suffering in ways we can't explain.
But we are not broken. Who we were, we are no longer. Who we are today is enough. Who we are tomorrow is what we can chose to aim for.
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"I'm not sure what was said...
But no-onne is broken. We may not be the best verison of ourselves at all times; we may have parts of our brains wired in ways that are not helpful; we may may be suffering in ways we can't explain.
But we are not broken. Who we were, we are no longer. Who we are today is enough. Who we are tomorrow is what we can chose to aim for.
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I know I’m forever broken. No wonder I’m still single after ten years. No one wants a widow with two kids. Attempted to open my heart up stupidly again once, wish I never had.
You think losing your husband would somehow make your heart indestructible to anymore heartache, but yup, it can break into even more little pieces.
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Well I have had the decade from hell.
A festering pimple of an ex who put the kids and myself through hell.
A divorce of the ages with court orders and threats and stalking and abuse and financial manipulation.
And stresses and strains and upsets and setbacks and kid issues and me issues and so much more.
Through a good part of that I had a fab friend. To vent to, to lean on, to use as a sounding board and a north star when things were tough to navigate.
The sex was, on balance by comparison to the friendship, a very small (but phenomenally epic) part of our friendship.
You might have seen my heartbreak thread and some upset and me getting trolled this last week or two.
Well it all went to shit.
My friend is lost.
And I was at sea without my north star to putter through it all towards.
It's been my absolute worst low point of these last years as it came so unexpectedly and the days before my court date for the divorce.
Devastated doesn't really touch the pain of the betrayal I felt.
But I'm numbing myself day by day.
It's the only way.
My children need a mum who can smile back to them and lead them to the joy I promised them was waiting at the end of these years of hate and hurt.
So OP I didn't see your post and I can't advise on your situation, but pain is universal and will surge and recede and the future will unfold in it's destined way.
Please reach out to us all.
The fabbers I have left have rallied around me this week.
Their words have chivvied me on and cheered me at times in spite of the tears in my eyes and my heart.
Please feel hope.
I lost sight of mine for a bit. But others can watch for it for you for a little bit if you trust them |
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