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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Might sound odd I know but when looking for fun what do women actually look for in a guy ? Is it cock size, looks, personality, or is it how many verifications you have.  |
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"Might sound odd I know but when looking for fun what do women actually look for in a guy ? Is it cock size, looks, personality, or is it how many verifications you have. "
Which women?
We are not a single homogenous group.
We all look for different things.
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Was thinking alon the lines of Granny... if the OP knows what type of woman he is looking for and asked the question to that group - that would be a guaranteed success rate I imagine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well they say the first bites with the eye. i go for looks first then take it from there, if im not physically attracted to someone i see no point in getting to know them or how nice they may be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies with me, mood dependant 
Put off's; cock shots, cocky attitude, no effort on profile
sorry on second thoughts just see profile
We have individual profiles because...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might sound odd I know but when looking for fun what do women actually look for in a guy ? Is it cock size, looks, personality, or is it how many verifications you have. "
For me, it all starts with their first message, I'm not bothered if they are verified or not, but their first message needs to stand out and catch my attention, the next thing I look for is looks, and cock size is unimportant to me, I dont like cock pics, and have never picked a guy for the size of his cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Might sound odd I know but when looking for fun what do women actually look for in a guy ? Is it cock size, looks, personality, or is it how many verifications you have. "
I assume you are asking us individually for our own opinion to get a collection of things so for us it would be a nice smile and a good body initially but on chatting then it would be an indication if intelligence and humour. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No reason for asking I just wondered why some guys seem to be able meet women very easily and others myself included seem to struggle when trying to meet people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's the first message. I've been interested in guys who've sent both longer ones and shorter ones, but what I've realised is that if their personality comes through and I like that personality, I'll click on their profile to see what they have to say about themselves.
After that, if they still sound good, I'll have a look at how long they've been on the site and if they have any veris.
Next, I look at pics if they have any, but to be honest that's minor, unless they have a lot of pics that I think are a bit eugh, which will put me off.
Faces are the last thing really as some guys don't give a face pic at first which is fine with me as I don't either.
But that's just me and my preferences! :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No reason for asking I just wondered why some guys seem to be able meet women very easily and others myself included seem to struggle when trying to meet people. "
i think it can be just luck of who you mail and when you mail them
Also you first message really does count
I get so many messages that just say things like
Hi
You free now?
fancy meeting?
What you looking for?
etc
i just dont reply to such mail
I dont expect a essay just something to show they are intereswted in me as a person and arnt just spamming every woman on the site with the same one liner in the hope someone will reply |
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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago
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I look for physical attraction first as I NEVER meet without finding the guy attractive. Once that is decided the next is to check his sense of humour and personality out. Then I have a look at his verifications! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might sound odd I know but when looking for fun what do women actually look for in a guy ? Is it cock size, looks, personality, or is it how many verifications you have.
For me, it all starts with their first message, I'm not bothered if they are verified or not, but their first message needs to stand out and catch my attention, the next thing I look for is looks, and cock size is unimportant to me, I dont like cock pics, and have never picked a guy for the size of his cock"
Same here. If its an original "sleazy" type of message with no respect in it I don't bother with them. Loads of cock pics is a put of and so is loads of verifications. That puts me off only cos I don't want to sleep with the site I was a fwb so a guy that's fucking around isn't gonna be suited for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i met a man today who had just a face pic, i didnt think he was my type at first but he had a verification saying he was nice and polite.
He sent me nice message and sounded like a nice guy on the phone as well.
Was realy glad i met him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i met a man today who had just a face pic, i didnt think he was my type at first but he had a verification saying he was nice and polite.
He sent me nice message and sounded like a nice guy on the phone as well.
Was realy glad i met him."
That's a refreshing attitude - FairPlay |
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